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another boy
I wanted to have faith. I'm not sure how many times I need to be smacked in the face that I'll never have a baby girl.
Somehow I think if I just do ivf one more time it might work now, or if I just have one more baby this one might be the daughter -- but its just not.
And I keep thinking in my head how to make the next one a girl, how can I make sure the next one is my daughter and the reality is -- I can't. I've tried so hard and just keep hitting this wall.
And now I just have to accept that I can't get past his wall that's in front of me - and God knows I've tried with everything I have. I don't know what else to do but to accept this.
I'm not sure I believe in much anymore now and my misfortune would almost be laughable if it didn't hurt so damn much.
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I hurt for you. I can't imagine how you are feeling right now, with the path you have walked. I hope that peace comes to you and this little guy steals your heart and erases your GD forever. He came to you for some reason and I can only send you well wishes to reach that knowledge sooner rather than later. I'm sorry, not for your beautiful son on the way, but because you are hurting and don't know how to make it better.
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I am praying for peace for you as well. Big hugs coming your way...
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Sorry that you didn't hear what you were hoping to. Massive hugs xxx
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Sorry to hear it wasn't what you wanted to hear. HH pregnancy to you xx
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I am sorry honey, thinking of you and sending you love and hugs :HH:
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I know the feeling..just found out we are having another girl(nr.4). Take care and BIG hugs to you <3
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Don't give up! I had 4 boys in a row then a girl then two more boys. You'll get your girl, just have to be patient a little longer! Hugs
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I'm so sorry to hear this.. I just don't no how we keep having all these boys in a row.. I'm currently pregnant wi my fourth boy and I was so devastated when heard but now I'm really OK wi it and hav just accepted il never hav my daughter as I cudnt go thro the heart ache again of hearing it's a boy... Just know that in a few weeks il few much better about it all as I did xx
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Ah hunnie, I really don't know what to say.. This could be me 2moro and I'm dreading the feeling of "failure".. I know for definite that u will love ur baby boy just the same as the others. Chin up everything happens for a reason xxxxxx
Mammy to 3 beautiful boys:)
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I totally understand how you are feeling. I just found out we are expecting Boy#4 too. It really hurts to find out our dream of a DD is not coming true. I pray that with time, we both find peace and that the pain lessens. I know we were sent these boys for a reason and I know they will bring so much joy to our families. Hugs!
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Oh wow. I am new to all of this but everyone seemed so confident that the pics showed girl?
What a beautiful family you have and those boys are going to bring you so much laughter and joy.
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I agree with boymommy and the others. I am so sorry you didn't hear pink today. It's hard coming to terms with knowing you won't get your dd but you will get there. You'll look around you one day and realise you have everything your heart needed not what it desired xxx
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I'm very sorry to hear of your pain. In time, I am sure you will find a way through the hurt and disappointment. Hugs to you!
Angie
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I'm very sorry you didn't hear girl. I have to say looking at your picture of your three boys, I wouldn't necessarily call anything "misfortune". They look pretty darn healthy and cute to me.
I hope you find a way to become at peace with this. Your life is not defined by your children. It is your life and you must live it to your fullest ability. Girl or boy, they will all be gone and out of the house living their own lives one day(God willing) so find what makes you happy and do it. For your own sake.
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