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Angie - fingers crossed you get a line!!
Boysway - you never know, stranger things have happened! A friend of mine conceived her boy with one attempt 5 days before O - she is a vegetarian, doesn't exercise and is definitely no Martha so there is hope for you!
That would be very surprising (if I did) since I'm pretty sure my OPK lied to me :P I'm assuming I'm only 4 DPO (was supposed to O on Sunday and DTD at like 1:45 a.m. Sunday). But, since I'm buying a test, I might as well buy 2 and do one tonight, lol.
Angie
You're going to test at 4dpo Angie?? lol! I thought they don't even implant until 7dpo at the earliest. I think I'm going to wait until 12dpo (I'm 4 dpo today) so next Friday.
Do not test 4 DPO. It's just upsetting for no reason and a waste of a test (which some of them are not cheap) because you cannot possibly get a positive test at that point. There are a few people online who test that early but they are people who went high tech and their fertilized egg, sometimes with assisted hatching, was implanted directly into their uterus, so they register pg more quickly than those of us doing it the old fashioned way.
Lol Angie you crack me up!! Why on earth would you test at 4dpo lol!!
Got a negative again this evening @11DPO, was not FMU and it was diluted!!!
Am I clutching at straws here!!!
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Mumofsix, please don't EVER feel bad about ranting here. We're all frustrated, hungry, tired...it's rant central! :) Sorry your dh is being such a creep. (I had a stronger word in mind, but wasn't sure I should type it...hehe) Hugs to you, and a swift kick in the rear to him!
Sorry for the bfn, peb!
I'm off for the fishing weekend from hades. Wish me luck! If I (and sis-in-law) survive, I'll be testing as soon as I come back on Tuesday. I expect a bfn... but I'm still itching to test.
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I'm anywhere between 4-8 DPO and DH wants to drink tomorrow night. So, if I actually AM 9DPO by tomorrow, I want to make sure it's a BFN before drinking. I don't think I AM 9 dpo, I think I'm closer to 4 (I'm 8-9 by pos OPK, 4 by calendar). But anyway, I'm not a sadist!!!! The ONLY reason I'm testing is because I have no idea where I really am and don't want to drink if it's pink.
hahaha. After tomorrow, I won't be testing again until next Friday :P
Angie
AND...I'm buying from the dollar store. I don't do FRER until the cheapie is positive!
Good luck Angie it doesn't hurt but 8dpo may register negative when you still might be positive, maybe have a few drinks but don't go crazy? Good luck!! Girlie dreams have fun fishing x
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Oh pebmcpd7! I'm so glad to see you here! We were ttc at the same time last go! Congrats on your last bundle! :) Best of luck to you Hun!!!
I have no idea how I'm going to hold out another week!!!
Hi girls! We had our attempt on Tuesday night, I'm on my third day of +OPK's so I'm not sure if I ovulated yet. Hoping for a temp rise tomorrow!
Thanks Steph but, I doubt I will get my bfp. Last cycle we bd the night before my +OPK without success.
Good luck to those waiting for their 2ww to finish on a positive note :)
Small decrease in temp this morning, ahh I think I am out!!😒😒
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Too small to say your out for sure.
pebmcpd7 - that is such a teeny tiny drop, you are definiely not out yet!!
girliedreamz - in the lake....in the lake....oh sorry that was a few days ago hehe.... enjoy the fishing trip and distraction - hope you test when you get back and its a BFP for you!!
Angie if the tests are cheap enough go for it if it helps you to feel better about having a drink but as kitkat says you dont have to go mad - also you dont share a blood supply for the first 6 weeks so a few drinks before a positive test when you are PG are not going to do any harm, but this is all down to personal choice of course. I am in the drink til its pink camp. Im having some prosecco tonight, dont see why I should deprive myself if I might get a BFN next week.
Sorry for anyone reading this in the other thread, but my symptoms are gone today, I did feel very slightly sickly yesterday but then i was much better in the evening so I guess this is down to a normal surge in progesterone. DH has also been sick for a couple of days so maybe I had the fringes of this. When I got out of bed last night to go to the loo I had some kind of stitch pain in that area which made me say 'ow' when I got out of bed. However I do feel out today. If I am out, every day that AF stays away is a bonus just to give me a longer LP and better shot next time. On the cm front I had watery and creamy cm yesterday which suggests that my hormone levels are getting back to normal - 6 months after i came off BCP. One thing thats positive - I can smell everyones coffee but I am sure I would anyway argh.
I've lost any "symptoms" too stephk and am sure in out this month. Any cramps, sharp pains, slight nausea and CM has gone and I've got nothing. I feel nothing that I felt any other pregnancy, including our m/c.
No idea where we are going to go from here. Had a massive fight with DH as he came home to drop DS1 at cadets (I can't cause I'm not security cleared) and then went back to work. I didn't even say anything to him, haven't at all, just kept my mouth shut, but he just started going off at me about "my bullshit" and how he shouldn't have to put up with me!! 😠
Not looking good for trying to convince him to keep TTC as this was our last month trying as it was. He doesn't even really want another baby so that and his attitude, gives me no hope. 😞
Peb, you're definitely not out yet. The drop is generally much lower then that.
You're not out till AF shows Steph xx
Mumofsix :hugs: I hope Dh wakes up. Also, as I said to Steph, you're not out till AF shows up xx
I'm now 9DPO. No signs no cm. Yesterday a bit with a strain of old blood.
Could be... But don't think so. If I'm honest to myself I feel I'm not PG.
sweetdream - you never know a lot of people dont get symptoms, in fact I bet having no symptoms is a better sign than having symptoms if you know what I mean.
TMI - I just went to the loo and had a little spotting on my knickers (typical on the day I am wearing light colour knickers!!) I was cursing whilst I had pee thinking, I am only 6dpo how can AF be flipping coming ALREADY! Then when I wiped there is absolutely no blood at all but I had quite a large amount of EWCM. But it wasnt ultra clear like it is around O, its difficult to describe but it was amost yellowy, almost snotty? but such a pale difference and only noticeable because the toilet paper was white. Sorry for the TMI description. Now I am back at my desk I am having AF pains :(
I know you said you don't feel pregnant but CM with a tinge of blood...It does sound promising sweetdream. Keeping my fingers crossed for you!
And thanks boysway, but not at all confident this month. 😞
Maybe implantation blood and pain stephk! 😊
And nothing's ever TMI on here!! Lol! 😉
I hope you guys aren't out :( No one is out out until AF shows her ugly, despicable face. Speaking of ugly and despicable, WTH Mumofsix?! Your husband is being awful to you! Is this a regular thing with him or something new? I'm so very sorry you have to put up with his BS. I think he's got it wrong, it's his BS that YOU are putting up with and you shouldn't have to. Hugs to you, sweetie. I hope he sorts himself out and soon and you can get to the bottom of his issues together.
I have to ask because a number of people have talked about cm....is it a pregnancy symptom? I have had 0 symptoms this month, but had cm last month long after o.
Fingers, eyes and toes crossed for EVERYONE!!!!
Angie
Hi angielorna, this is all new from DH (except for a few years ago when he was planning on leaving me for a work colleague 😕), especially the way he is being so dismissive of the kids. He has always found time for the kids, work revolves around all us, not at all the other way around, but now we just all seem to be an inconvenience. Doesn't even say goodbye to the kids. He left to take DS1 to cadets, didn't say goodbye, and a few hours later the kids ask "is Dad back at work again?" When I said yes the look on their faces broke my heart. They literally have seen him for less than 5mins a day this week, and he hasn't said 2 words to them, or any of us, until he went off at me tonight during the five minutes he was home. I don't know what's going on??!? Just glad I have somewhere to vent (although I feel like such a downer).
CM can be a PG sign but not always, so can a lack of CM??!? 😜
Vent away, my dear, vent away! You're not a downer and we are here for support! His behaviour certainly doesn't indicate anything positive (IMHO). I hope he pulls his head out of his butt and realizes how incrediably lucky he is to have an amazing wife and such wonderful children. It really bugs me when "adults" allow their "stuff" to affect their children. Ugh.
I'm thinking about you and hoping for a turn around soon.
Angie
Steph that could definitely be implantation! You are lucky to get it at 6 dpo. I never implant before day 10. I hope that's what it is for you!!!
Mum of six! Its not good! I would tell him I give him till the end of july to get his act straight. If not he Could explain if he had An affair. Sorry its suspesious behavior.
Good luck.
So sorry about the troubles with your Dh mum. I hope we are wrong but it seems like Dh may be up to something. Or maybe he is going through a life crisis? It could be time to have a talk. He shouldn't be treating your family the way he is. Shame on him. Even if he is taking issue with you it is not right to bring the kids into it. I hope things turn around for the best for you. Big big hugs.
mum i really cannot believe the BS that you have to put up with at home right now. From your H and other family. I am sure that your boys are keeping you going though. Thank God for them. I honestly cannot believe his behaviour, its one thing to be stressed at work and being in a bad mood, but continuing to act in that way and continuing to take it out on you and the kids, well its just not acceptable. Maybe the whole TTC thing is freaking him out, maybe inside he feels partly to blame (even though we all know there is no blame!) Please feel free to rant in here about him or anything else. This is a safe place to say anything. I really feel for you at the moment, I will be praying for you. I hope you dont mind me saying that but if you dont believe in that then it will be good karma/good thoughts I am sending your way.
Dont think it would be implantation this early, not sure if it was spotting either as it has now dried and doesnt look like blood anymore.....weird! Anyway whatever its too early to know anything I must not think about it. Last time I think implantation possibly happened around 7/8dpo. My temp dipped on 7dpo and then when I was getting dressed on 8dpo I had this area of hot red skin which stayed like that all day, I was like WTF (and you know i have been looking out for that constantly this time lol)
SHUT THE FRONT DOOR!!!
LMP - May 18th
POS OPK CD 10- May 27th - DTD that night
AF Due - June 16th
Tested, as planned, this morning so I would feel safe to drink tonight.
The test is freaking positive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2 dollar store tree tests with SMU/TMU and then a FRER from a 2 hour hold (with liquid intake).
It's faint, but it is THERE. 10 days before my expected period. OMG. I will not be surprised if no one can see it, but I ended up by getting a shot and posting it anyway.
Showed up within 10-15 mins on dollar store, within 3 mins on FRER. I'm still concerned it's an evap (though I know it's improbable). NO symptoms whatsoever.
I take it back. The OPK did NOT lie to me :P
DTD again super early Sun a.m., but it certainly cannot be from that! That would only make me 5DPO.
And I'm rambling because I'm in SHOCK.
Sorry, DH, no alcohol tonight (sucks that I have to tell him because I was hoping to keep it to myself for awhile) BUT I think I'm going to celebrate with dinner out and a big fat prime rib to go with my (somewhat) big fat positive!!!!!
Angie
P.S. I'm super shocked and I'm posting this as it's own thread, so if you see it again, please don't be annoyed at my double posting!!!!
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Congrats what fantastic news!!! I can't access that link so I will look for the other thread. Enjoy that rib!!!
Is there a better way to post a pic? I can see it, but that's no fun! I'm just using the attach pic button.
I tried photobucket ...
Angie
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Can't see the picture! But congrats!
I can see something!! Super faint but I can see something there wow :)
It certainly is super faint (more visable in person, of course). I'm wondering if it would register on an early digital so I can flash it around :P
Oh goodness, I hope it's real and I hope it's a healthy, sticky bean!!! Of course, I'm hoping for pink, but it's 3rd on my list ATM.
Thanks :)
Squeeeeee!
Angie
Congrats again Angie!! So happy for you. I am glad you decided to test!
Guess your not 4DPO but the 10-11 that was also possible
Sorry just noseying around and saw you said you got a pain when you got out of Bed?? That was my sign this time for me where I went F*** I only get that when I'm pregnant!!! I tried frantically everywhere to see if people get that when not pregnant... Nope!! So I wouldn't count yourself out, I think that's a huge sign! Good luck!!
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Also for other ladies, I was also sure I wasn't pregnant as I was super dry no cm like any of my last pregnancies just FYI;)
I've been like a desert. NO cm whatsoever. In fact, I thought I didn't o this cycle because I've had nada. Teeny tiny amounts just before my pos opk. That's all.
And, of course, being a chronic POAS....I did it again. Much more visable with a 3 hour hold, no liquids. I'm so freaking excited. I'll try to contain myself but I really did not think there was any hope this month. ZERO symptoms. ZERO.
Which, in of itself, isn't unusual for me, but I've had lots of so-called symptoms other months and BFN. So.......just goes to show that symptoms (or lack thereof) doesn't really mean a thing either way (at least for me).
Angie
(last one I post. I don't want to flood the board with urine soaked sticks!) But I think this line is more visable than the last :)
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