Ultrasound Findings at CD2

AT this point in time though we don't even know that your not getting pregnant has anything to do with the fibroid. I will feel a LOT better once hubby has that sperm analysis and I also would still like to see an AMH test done.

Here is my concern - you hold off on TTC, have the fibroid removed, and in the meantime months out of your fertile window have passed. Then you still don't get pregnant and it turns out it was actually some other issue all together (such as poor egg quality or sperm health). The way TTC works is that sometimes when it isn't happening, it's just because you have to wait for "Goldie the Golden Egg" to show up. Some women get a Goldie every month, others of us have to wait 3 or 9 or 6 or 12 months for one shot at a good egg. I just hate to see people missing months without having a pretty darn good idea that the fibroid is really THE issue instead of ONE issue.

Again, I'm not saying that you can't benefit from having it removed, because that may very well be playing some part or be the entire issue. But when a doctor takes a look at a fibroid and without doing a sperm analysis or AMH tells you to take X number of months off to have it removed, I just feel a little wary about it just in case they are not seeing the forest for the trees. That's all.

RE taking up your womb - well, the nice thing about the room is, it grows as the baby does so there usually ends up being plenty of room. But I am not a doctor and I just want to be sure you're getting the best advice possible before making the decision.

Just got word that my AMH level is 1.2
Second opinion is suggesting robotic laproscopic surgery and hysterscopic for polyps. He will also check my endometrial lining while inside to make an assessment. He says once he gets in there he'll be able to assess all the possible reasons why it's not happening for me because it may not be the fibroid. He won't know until he gets in. He's the second best in Michigan.

:agree: I feel much better about pursuing that course of action with two docs advising it.

That AMH level is not great either. :/

Ok. The doc said AMH was normal for my age. Semen is normal and surgery is scheduled for August 31st.

It is normal for your age. Sorry I was writing that quickly. Point being, it's not what a 22 year old would have, you know??

Great that they can get you in so soon and FX for speedy recovery.

Had a 2nd ultrasound done and this one found an ovarian cyst. So there's a large fibroid, a cyst and and a potential endometrial disorder. Wow! This is so overwhelming. Anyone else out there with this story? Need some encouragement.

Cysts aren't unusual and many of us have had them before. I had one between my 2nd and 3rd pregnancies and never again.

Ok. The doc that found the cyst is saying that I don't need a myommectomy because the fibroid is fundal (top of uterus/not inside) and i don't have irregular bleeding . However, I'm reading that fundal fibroids tend to block tubes, which is probably why the other doc said only 1 was open. She's recommending a d&c polypectomy and clomid. I thought clomid was only if you're not ovulating? So confused now. Laparascopic Myomectomy is still scheduled for Aug 31st. Left a message for myommectomy surgeon to shed some light. Any other advice?

There are other reasons why a tube could be blocked and not necessarily from the fibroid.

As you probably discerned from my prev. statements I am not the hugest supporter of having fibroids removed unless there is a clear and pressing need to do so. I honestly don't know, I"m not a doctor, I just know that there hs been a huge sea change in the way that fibroids are being treated (or not as the case may be) and I just don't want you to have surgery you don't necessarily need.

Many docs use Clomid to up odds of conception. It's not unusual to be given the Clomid. Femara may be better for you though so if you do end up going that route, ask about it. Please update us on what the surgeon says.

Met with surgeon last night and he asked me if I wanted him to be blunt or blow smoke. He says my gyn is being too passive at my age. He says at this point I need to take active measures. Taking polyps out with a laparascope and giving me clomid and hoping for the best is too passive right now. He doesn't want me to lose out with timing. He wants to get in there with a laparascope not hysterscope because you can see more and fix it now. He may even leave the fibroid alone if its not bothering anything as I told him that I'd be disappointed if I gave up my chance for natural childbirth. The fibroid is not filling up my womb (submucosal), its subserosal fundal and appears to be out of the way and on top. He says if its not too deep, vaginal birth is still possible. He wants to look at the lining to assess endometriosis sooner rather than later just hoping for the best with passive measures. I'm at ease again and still scheduled for the 31st.

Sounds great!!! I am really glad that you are in good hands and wishing you the best of luck and speedy recovery!! :)

Glory to God!! Everything went well yesterday!! Large fibroid and 2 polyps removed. He didn't mention cyst. Will discuss at 3 week follow up. Both tubes are now open!! Says fibroid wasn't deep at all and that I have a great chance of delivering vaginally. The doctors instructions are to go make a baby upon next ovulation!! 😊😊😊😊

Yay fefecooks :)
Here's to a speedy conception :cheerteam:

Oh fefe, I'm SO HAPPY to read this!!! How awesome you are already ready to roll with TTC!!! (sometimes they demand women wait !!!!! 6 months!!!!) after surgery.

I am wishing you a speedy recovery and quick BFP

I'm on CD20 and still haven't ovulated. I never had any trouble with o'ing before lap. 😂😂😂 This really stinks!!http://images.tapatalk-cdn.com/15/10...9b7b7d25f2.jpg

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Don't panic, your body is probably recovering and it will ovulate when everything is as should be. Our bodies are pretty amazing :) it will happen.

Your body is probably just still a little "nervous" and wants to wait a bit longer.

full fat dairy every day, 4-6 eggs a week, 1 serv. salmon or red meat per week till you O!

Praise God! It actually happened on Friday!! After meeting with the surgeon a couple weeks ago, he wanted us to wait to try after my ultrasound on Oct. 21st. Praying that this is the month that changes our lives forever!!

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FX and TX too!!

November is the month I got my DD and I think it's extra lucky! :)

Glory to God! Happy to report a BFP today!! Hallelujah! First try post laparscopy. It must have been that thickened tissue lining! Thanks for everything Atomic! 14 DPO so I guess that makes me 4 weeks? Very interesting!! I must admit I was super lax on the diet as of late because I'd been on it for 10 months. Always skipped breakfast though until noon, kept protein low and mostly diet drinks. Lost about 15 pounds this year but 30 in last 2 years. Hubby and I are 54 and 39 respectively. Praying I did just enough!

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I am soo happy for you Fefe!! Don't even worry about relaxing on diet, after that long you can safely relax.

Wishing you the very best of luck for happy and healthy pregnancy!

Wow!!! I've only just read all of these 7 pages of updates. It was really really interesting and a huge congratulations Fefe on your BFP. As Atomic said - all the best to you for a happy and healthy pregnancy. :)

First ultrasound reported no heartbeat at 9 weeks. Baby measuring 8 weeks. Very minor cramping and still exhausted. No bleeding whatsoever. My heart is heavy.

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I'm so sorry fefe - how can we help???

How long does it usually take to naturally miscarry? I can't morally go for a D & C but I'm scared that it will happen naturally at the most inconvenient time. Also, the mental anguish of it all when I do deliver it. I do wish I could know the sex but know this is probably next to impossible naturally. It's kind of important for me to know if I'm a mommy to a boy or girl for some reason. 💔

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Also, my temps are still up and I just don't understand why the body holds on this way.

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I know it's no consolation but given that you just had uterine surgery it's actually a good sign your body is holding on so much to this pregnancy. Some women have the opposite problem after uterine surgery where they can't hang on to the baby so while I know it doesn't feel that way, it's actually a good thing.

Yes it's probably not going to be possible if you wait to go naturally for them to tell the gender. But they may not be able to tell anyway.

Going naturally is tough. It may be much harder on your body than having the D and C and could end up even delaying TTC longer than the D and C. I know how tough it is to come to that decision though. Just follow your heart but I would recommend taking your temperature morning and night and at any time you develop a fever or body aches (even if you think it's from illness) get to the ER right away.

Are you taking anything like aspirin, garlic, etc that can thin the blood?? If so wean off that starting right away.

Oh sorry I missed this - it is all over the map how long it takes to miscarry naturally. Sometimes it happens fast, other times it takes weeks. I wish I could pin it down more than that but it's just one of those things that no one can know.

I'm soooo sorry to hear you are going through this Fefe. I went through the same thing myself back in August. I'm thinking of you. Xxoo

Starting to spot. It's happening now. Thanking God that it's happening naturally. Still trusting Him.

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That is all we can do...praying that it is very easy on you. :heart:

So sorry Fefe. Sending healing vibes your way. (((HUGS))) to you.

how are you doing??? :heart:

Thanks for checking Atomic. Spotting never turned to bleeding. Still waiting at 10 weeks. I go back to work at 11.5 weeks. Was hoping that it would happen before then.

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Sometimes they can give you something that will hurry it along.

The other thing I'd consider if you'd prefer to stay natural is red raspberry leaf tea - 2 cups a day may get things started.

Thanks! HCG dropped from 29500 last week to 10100 this week. Still no bleeding or spotting. Light cramping only. I'm riding with my boss' boss and training a new rep on Wednesday and Thursday as we meet with my biggest customer. Incredibly nervous and prayerful that this will wait until next Friday. I don't want to be forced to tell them.

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WE are all praying and thinking positive for you. ((((hugs))))

I am so so sorry to hear this. Big hugs. I hope you conceive your rainbow baby soon.

Starting to spot now and my big meetings are tomorrow-Thursday. Not sure how to handle this situation.

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Oh NO!! Can you suddenly develop a raging sickness or anything???