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October 2nd, 2011, 10:49 AM
Tink18

good morning ladies...my temp this morning was 97.7..all week it has been in the 98's i am hoping this is a good sign!

TTC all i habe had is minor cramping for a few days. and a headache last week. Im so anxious!
October 2nd, 2011, 11:11 AM
3Pink1Blue

Capricorn- yeah your finally at attempt month but boo dh is away.

Ahhhh Tink, how many dpo? Pee already!

Flava- how are things today?
October 2nd, 2011, 01:04 PM
Flava

Quote:

Originally Posted by Foxy

I'm so sorry, Flava. :( You can bleed during a pg, so I would get it checked out to be sure. TTC right after a mc sways pink.

It is a m/c for sure and I know ttc after it sway pink (I think only because it lowers pH ...or is there any other reason??)
Anyway this was so early I was only 17 dpo if I would not take a test I would think AF was just a couple days late .And it look like normal AF nothing different.
October 2nd, 2011, 01:34 PM
Flava

I just write a post and it's all gone...anyway thanks for all the nice words !

I think it was more a chemical then a m/c I was only 17 dpo not even 5 weeks .

DH said we can try again I guess he was just sad yesterday. I was sad too but Im ok now. Something must have been wrong and no one want a sick baby...
And it's October! I woke up yesterday and it was cool outside not the damn hot humid hell what we normally have! Same cool today it's so nice! We did the fall and Halloween decorations it's my favorite time in all!
We will try again .I was only off the diet for like 4-5 days and took the sups but not all. Did not stop the green tea and v8 drink .Also doing exercise. Just need some more sups and drinks.
I know after m/c suppose to sway pink but I read a lot's of ppl got a boy after it. Atomic says we are more fertile now and
pretty much everything that increases fertility seems to sway blue...
So what do you guys think??
October 2nd, 2011, 03:09 PM
believinginblue

Thanks 3 pink1 blue! I am feeling overwhelmed! I went to a function last night and had a couple of cocktails. I know it's not allowed :( I need to get my willpower on track! I notice that u didn't use egg whites. Was there a reason u didn't ?
October 2nd, 2011, 03:15 PM
believinginblue

Flava I think that only going off the diet for four or five days shouldn't do much harm. Just get back on it and you will be good to go! Yay that ur hubby is on board again.
October 2nd, 2011, 04:23 PM
Hobbermittens

Hey Flava, glad DH is on board for trying again! That's great! You will be okay with diet and stuff, a few days off won't matter.

Tink, POAS!
October 2nd, 2011, 04:45 PM
3Pink1Blue

Flava- glad you're feeling better and dh is wiling to try again!

BIB- I skipped the ew for 2 reasons. 1- I had tons of ewcm thanks to green tea and fish oil. 2- it's nasty messy lol
October 2nd, 2011, 05:01 PM
believinginblue

hahahahaa Im sure it's nasty messy!

Do you girls know if its okay to take all of the sups at the same time? that is what i have been doing and then i wondered if that would be a problem?
October 2nd, 2011, 05:22 PM
Hobbermittens

Believinginblue, I take most of my supps in the morning and a few more at bedtime. I can't split them up too much or I would forget to take them.

Has anyone ever had their cervix not close up after O, even if their temp has spiked?
October 2nd, 2011, 06:15 PM
TTC5

Quote:

Originally Posted by CapricornAquarius

Hi every1, i havent been in here for a while so goodluck 2 all.
Its finally come 2 my month that ive been waiting for & i think im ovulating 2day but i shouldnt be ovulating until the 6th which is when my husband gets back from a business trip, bummer, just my luck :mad:
DD 1 :ballerina:
DD 2 :giggle:

Oh no I hope that isn't the case!!
October 2nd, 2011, 06:15 PM
TTC5

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tink18

good morning ladies...my temp this morning was 97.7..all week it has been in the 98's i am hoping this is a good sign!

TTC all i habe had is minor cramping for a few days. and a headache last week. Im so anxious!

When will you test? x
October 2nd, 2011, 06:16 PM
TTC5

Quote:

Originally Posted by Flava

It is a m/c for sure and I know ttc after it sway pink (I think only because it lowers pH ...or is there any other reason??)
Anyway this was so early I was only 17 dpo if I would not take a test I would think AF was just a couple days late .And it look like normal AF nothing different.

Oh Flava :( xxxxxx
October 2nd, 2011, 06:18 PM
TTC5

Quote:

Originally Posted by believinginblue

Thanks 3 pink1 blue! I am feeling overwhelmed! I went to a function last night and had a couple of cocktails. I know it's not allowed :( I need to get my willpower on track! I notice that u didn't use egg whites. Was there a reason u didn't ?

When do you attempt? xx
October 2nd, 2011, 06:19 PM
TTC5

Quote:

Originally Posted by believinginblue

hahahahaa Im sure it's nasty messy!

Do you girls know if its okay to take all of the sups at the same time? that is what i have been doing and then i wondered if that would be a problem?

I take mine in 3 lots on my off work days, brekkie lunch and dinner and if i am working twice a day, brek and dinner.
October 2nd, 2011, 06:20 PM
TTC5

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

Believinginblue, I take most of my supps in the morning and a few more at bedtime. I can't split them up too much or I would forget to take them.

Has anyone ever had their cervix not close up after O, even if their temp has spiked?

I have been told that if you have had children before it is normal for your cervix to remain a little open :)
October 2nd, 2011, 07:23 PM
Hobbermittens

Quote:

Originally Posted by TTC5

I have been told that if you have had children before it is normal for your cervix to remain a little open :)

Yes, mine is always open, but this is really open. I looked on FF and they said sometimes the corpus luteum (sp?) can continue to give off hormones so it won't close all the way.
October 2nd, 2011, 07:39 PM
Kris217

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tink18

good morning ladies...my temp this morning was 97.7..all week it has been in the 98's i am hoping this is a good sign!

TTC all i habe had is minor cramping for a few days. and a headache last week. Im so anxious!

High temps are a good sign, mine were high the whole way along! GL!!!
October 2nd, 2011, 07:53 PM
TTC5

Just have to share I HAVE EWCM this morning wooo hoooo, as you may remember I was struggling before to get this precious stuff!!!!!! I just hope my pH and EWCM remains like this when it comes to December!!

Also, I made a group for those mummas who are expecting girls after swaying for a boy.. I thought it would be good for you ladies if you find it too hard to visit this thread. xoxox
October 2nd, 2011, 08:11 PM
3Pink1Blue

Bib- I don't remember all the sup rules, sorry.

Hobber- some months mine closed tight the day after O and others it took a few extra days.

Ttc5- yay for a high pH and tons of ewcm, fx it hangs around!!
I think that thread is a great idea!
October 3rd, 2011, 01:13 AM
My Fabulous Children

Hi All,

I really hope we all get our BFP's this month :pray:

Go Blue Crew :bluecheer::bluecheer::bluecheer: GOOD LUCK to all!!!
October 3rd, 2011, 01:21 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kris217

This year as gone way too fast, soon the Christmas stuff will be in the stores! Thank god we've got the kids pressies already!
Good luck Hobber, it's a bit scary when it actually comes time to DTD. No matter how much we've planned it once it gets here it's nerve wracking!

ITA ,it's crazy! This year has gone way too fast ...

Hobber, GL on whatever you decide, its all up to you.
October 3rd, 2011, 01:22 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zivic-Bubac

I'm at 4dpo, time can not go by any slower, my testing time is ages away :rolleyes:

Hobber - if it's meant to be, it's enough to BD the night of the 1st +OPK and if you want to seal the deal 36 hours later, so don't worry, be happy :wink: And you will never feel prepared enough, there will always be something you could have done better, kwim? So just go for it! :bluecheer: :bluecheer: :bluecheer:

Weather here is beautiful, warm and sunny which is very unusual for late Sept/Oct, so most of the people ( including me LOL!) act like it's still summer - when the living is easy ;) Although mornings and evening are quite cold. Now you have weather report as well :rofl:
I wanted to say there is no Christmass stuff here yet, probably as soon as early December.

FX for your BFP ZB!!! GL on testing SOON!!
October 3rd, 2011, 01:23 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by ELP

Hiya ladieS XXX Hope everyone iS Well, I Still got crazy keyboard lol!! Good luck With October everybody, itS officialy the blue month!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nice to see you!!! :awe: how are you?
October 3rd, 2011, 01:27 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by believinginblue

Hi all! Im starting my diet today! we plan to try mid November! just had my banana and pineapple juice with gelatin for breakfast. I guess i should add some eggs and tomato for protein too.... salted, of course! just wondering if any of you still have or had a coffee with non dairy creamer while swaying? my next question is... Do any of your husbands still like to drink beer and wine? mine does and I doubt he will give it up anytime soon. just wondering if i should still be trying to sway if he still plans on having drinks? i'm sure i can get him to stop the 2 weeks leading up to O

Hi, Welcome!

I don't drink coffee. Also my DH doesn't drink, JUST soft drinks sometimes.

GL to you.
October 3rd, 2011, 01:29 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by Flava

Hey girls! GL to all ttc this month!
About my sway I don't know...the thing is if I post it anybody can read it it's a public site...but maybe I don't have to post it most likely because Im spotting again , have some cramps too looks like it's a m/c .Lost # 8 for us...And now DH says not to ttc anymore no more babys. I don't know what to do...he told me to just go on the treadmill and just loose all the weight .:sad:
Can we ttc boy right after a m/c ? (in case he change his mind, but I don't think so) I would try again in Oct. now but not in Nov. But the last 5-6 days I did not keep up the diet and no sups after bfp. Oh well DH said no anyway.
Maybe it's all my fault. Should have take it easy or so...
g2g clean now !

OMG I am so so so sorry FLAVA!!! ((((((HUGS)))))).
October 3rd, 2011, 01:32 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tink18

hi all 8dpo....i want to pee on something soooo bad.

Good luck!!!! FX for you.
October 3rd, 2011, 01:52 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by princessap

Flava....fingers crossed for you that all is well...I feel for you after just going through this myself...hope all is well!

quick question....I know they say the first cycle after miscarriage sways girl so if I miscarried this past week and then have a period in October sometime am I safe to try again after that period?? never sure how many periods I should have before trying again...thanks

The first cycle after m/c may sway girl because progesterone levels are higher that cycle. So I would wait just one cycle. Wait one period.

Hope you're feeling better, xxx.
October 3rd, 2011, 01:56 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by CapricornAquarius

Hi every1, i havent been in here for a while so goodluck 2 all.
Its finally come 2 my month that ive been waiting for & i think im ovulating 2day but i shouldnt be ovulating until the 6th which is when my husband gets back from a business trip, bummer, just my luck :mad:
DD 1 :ballerina:
DD 2 :giggle:

I'm sorry ..so what are you going to do?
October 3rd, 2011, 04:40 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by Flava

It is a m/c for sure and I know ttc after it sway pink (I think only because it lowers pH ...or is there any other reason??)
Anyway this was so early I was only 17 dpo if I would not take a test I would think AF was just a couple days late .And it look like normal AF nothing different.

I am so sorry Hun :sad: I hope that you have better luck soon.

Progesterone levels are higher the cycle after a mc, and that sways girl.
October 3rd, 2011, 04:43 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by Flava

I just write a post and it's all gone...anyway thanks for all the nice words !

I think it was more a chemical then a m/c I was only 17 dpo not even 5 weeks .

DH said we can try again I guess he was just sad yesterday. I was sad too but Im ok now. Something must have been wrong and no one want a sick baby...
And it's October! I woke up yesterday and it was cool outside not the damn hot humid hell what we normally have! Same cool today it's so nice! We did the fall and Halloween decorations it's my favorite time in all!
We will try again .I was only off the diet for like 4-5 days and took the sups but not all. Did not stop the green tea and v8 drink .Also doing exercise. Just need some more sups and drinks.
I know after m/c suppose to sway pink but I read a lot's of ppl got a boy after it. Atomic says we are more fertile now and
pretty much everything that increases fertility seems to sway blue...
So what do you guys think??

Honestly, I would go for it , no problem. I've read many people got boys after m/c, but its all up to you.
October 3rd, 2011, 04:45 AM
My Fabulous Children

Quote:

Originally Posted by TTC5

Just have to share I HAVE EWCM this morning wooo hoooo, as you may remember I was struggling before to get this precious stuff!!!!!! I just hope my pH and EWCM remains like this when it comes to December!!

Also, I made a group for those mummas who are expecting girls after swaying for a boy.. I thought it would be good for you ladies if you find it too hard to visit this thread. xoxox

That's Great!
October 3rd, 2011, 07:26 AM
ELP

Quote:

Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children

Nice to see you!!! :awe: how are you?

Really well thankyou xxx But FAT!!!!! I'm currently the weight I delivered my last baby at:oops: I am trying to healthy eat but its so hard when the hunger kicks in isn't it lol!!!

And notice NO crazy capitals!!!!! Woohoo for new keyboards:rofl:

MFC, where are you in your attempt?????!!!
October 3rd, 2011, 11:13 AM
Flava

Quote:

Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children

Honestly, I would go for it , no problem. I've read many people got boys after m/c, but its all up to you.

Thanks fab! I know the prog. lvl can be higher but it also go down fast and I just hope with all the other stuff we do I can have a chance for a boy.I know lots of ppl got boys after a m/c .

I just know if we stop and wait 3 months I never try again. By that time I loose the weight and don't want to start all over again.Oh and suppose to be on the diet for at least 2 months that's 5 months already! No way I do that.
October 3rd, 2011, 11:15 AM
Flava

ttc5 -great that you have ewcm!!
October 3rd, 2011, 12:16 PM
LolaInLove

Flava, I'm sorry to hear about your chemical. I hope you are doing ok, hun. I also hope you can try again.

FWIW with the trying again after a chemical, I have heard of plenty of boys coming after that. I wondered the same thing and researched it after mine in January. They say it sways pink because of the progesterone in your system from the pregnancy, but I don't think it matters. I say go for it if you want. Gotta remember there is no secret formula for making this work and getting a boy. You have to be ok with another girl too.

Tink, hope this is your month!

Hobber, sorry about your fight, but go ahead and go for it today as early as you can...maybe you can have some fun make-up sex and it will rev up his sperm count!

BIB, welcome! I wouldn't worry about your DH having coffee or alcohol, as long as he isn't like drinking 10 a day or anything excessive. In my opinion, the diet is more important for you, but it's good to just have your DH as healthy as possible for healthy sperm. But I wouldn't sweat him if he has a couple beers at night or anything.

MFC, hope the Clomid does the trick! What CD did you ovulate on it? I always did on CD13.

As for me, BFN this morning at 11dpo, completely expected, but just had to poas anyway. I think the next few months I am going to wean myself off of testing so I only test after AF is late. Well, you guys know the deal with me. I'm kinda a lost cause at this point, but want to stick around for now to be encouraging to you all.
October 3rd, 2011, 12:34 PM
Hobbermittens

Quote:

Originally Posted by LolaInLove

Hobber, sorry about your fight, but go ahead and go for it today as early as you can...maybe you can have some fun make-up sex and it will rev up his sperm count!

It is way too late for that. I o'ed late Sat. or Early Sun., had the temp rise Sun morn. I am so upset about the way this all worked out. I wish we had just gone for it sometime Sat. during the day, but I was somehow convinced that I had to DTD 2x to make a boy and I know if we did it Sat. day we would only get one shot, so we didn't try. F-ing STUPID! I regret it SOOOOO much. I feel like that was my one god chance and now it's gone. I am having a really hard time sticking to my sway now--my heart really isn't in it. I am a wreck!
October 3rd, 2011, 12:45 PM
ELP

Quote:

Originally Posted by LolaInLove

As for me, BFN this morning at 11dpo, completely expected, but just had to poas anyway. I think the next few months I am going to wean myself off of testing so I only test after AF is late. Well, you guys know the deal with me. I'm kinda a lost cause at this point, but want to stick around for now to be encouraging to you all.

Sorry for another bfn Lola:( How many months have you been trying the clomid? I'm sure I saw somwehere IG? that the month after clomid can cause a rebound effect on fertility increasing the chance of twinning again! If 2 eggs popped out then 2 chance of catching at least one right! Have the Drs scheduled you a break?
October 3rd, 2011, 12:47 PM
ELP

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

It is way too late for that. I o'ed late Sat. or Early Sun., had the temp rise Sun morn. I am so upset aboutthe waythis all worked out. I wish we had just gone for it sometime Sat. duringt he day, but I was somehow convinced that I had to DTD 2x to make a boy and I know if we did it at. day we would only get one shot, so we didn't try. F-ing STUPID! I regret it SOOOOO much. I feel like that was my one god chance and now it's gone. I am having a really hard time sticking to my sway now--my heart really isn't in it. I am a wreck!

Hobber, there are some swimmers in the right place atm yes?? Some meaning a possible million!!!! When was your previous unprotected BD, in the few days before? If so thats still pretty good odds! Just see what the next 2 weeks holds, you could be surprised :fx:
October 3rd, 2011, 03:01 PM
Flava

Thanks Lola! Hope you not going anywhere see you told me to stay too and Im hanging here .Im sure everyone like you to stay.
Did your DH got another test done ?

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