She's ok, I'm rather worried about him as he never complains about anything and he went to bed for 2 days straight!!
I did the plan and sent it in, I don't know how long it will take to post it, I hope soon. If not just message me your email and I'll send the original along so you can have a look.
RE the stats - we can't just do what the stats say as they can be quite misleading. I take a LOT of stuff into account when I make the plans and my recommendations that is not reflected in the stats and you can read more about that here. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...hts-stats.html
The plans are a little of both - the things I feel strongly about I state, the things that are up to you, I leave up to you. The thing is that some of this stuff (in fact, nearly all of it) we simply cannot know what is best because we don't have the quality of data we would need to know which option is better for any one couple. So some of it, I literally HAVE TO toss the ball back to you, because it is your life and your sway and you have to do what you can live with and what feels right to you. Examples being - calcium, timing. It was super easy for me to give up on calcium and timing since I knew I had gotten boys with them. (Many LOL) I was able to walk away from those quite happily with no worries at all. But others can't do that, they feel like there is something there that they want or need to try and so I try to keep those available for you guys to use if you want to. It does you no good to hear that I personally dropped those things and got my girl if you really want to use them, you know?? So some of this simply has to come down to what YOU want. your sway, your way. :)
