Thank you so much WADaughter, i will give them a call to enquire & then start saving, i really think this is the only way i will feel safe with having a 3rd child, then atleast i know i'll get my boy.
How exciting, all the best with you.
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Thank you so much WADaughter, i will give them a call to enquire & then start saving, i really think this is the only way i will feel safe with having a 3rd child, then atleast i know i'll get my boy.
How exciting, all the best with you.
GL Capricorn - and I hope you can persuade DH!
Yeah thanks Zanacal, i mentioned it to him last night, he gave me the death stare & walked out of the room.Quote:
Originally Posted by zanacal
I'll work on him :think:
Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2:giggle:
Don't let that deter you, they all do that!! Seriously, it is always the woman driving the HT process. Our husbands just end up going along for the ride. You can find a lot of info in the member HT section.Quote:
Originally Posted by CapricornAquarius
Nuthinbutpink I hope your right and mine decides to come along for the ride :pray:Quote:
Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink
How do I access the member HT??
Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2 :giggle:
It's for Dream Members. You have to become a member to see the private forums.
Thanks NBP.
I gave Genea a call today and had a chat with a lady by the name of Rose, she was really nice and what I was very disappointed about is, I may not 100% conceive a boy even through HT :sad:
So If I go on the theory of my husband "you get what you are suppose to get" can you imagine we spend all this money and still end up with another girl :sigh:
Im back to square one :drama: Im either going to have to just continue the diet etc and just go for it, or finally decide my family is done.
Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2 :giggle:
Oh no- it is 100% correct for gender UNLESS there is human error that comes into play. HT is NOT a guarantee of pregnancy. There was an opposite recently but it seems to be due to the type of testing that the clinic used which should not have been used for GS purposes. It is 100% for gender unless someone screws up which just should not happen. Plenty of gals on here have used their services and with their testing method, I would not worry about that. Achieving pregnancy is the biggest obstacle with HT. Proven fertility does not guarantee you a baby when you use IVF.
NBP I specified that I only want a 3rd knowing I will get a boy and she went on about how its not 100% and I could be one of the unlucky ones who ends up with the undesired gender, she couldnt even give me the percentage of success rate.Quote:
Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink
I need to look more into this, cause maybe she has given me the wrong information.
:omg: Looks like someone above has other plans for me, I was wondering the last couple of days why hasnt AF arrived yet, and YES everyone Im as shocked as you are, I got a BFP.
Always said I'd have 3 kids, but then started rethinking cause I just started getting too scared at the, "what if"???
Well I cant do anything about it now, in one way Im relieved at the whole idea of not having to ask myself over and over again "should we, shouldnt we, what if we get another girl, but what if i can get a boy", you know what I mean? And the biggest thing is now I dont need to worry about swaying anymore, so Im really happy about that.
All I know is that this little bean whether a boy or girl was definatley meant to be. Ive been going to the gym lifting heavy weights, didnt stop taking evening primrose oil and thats not meant to be good for implantation, so this little spermy was determined. Oh boy :nails:
Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2 :giggle: :omg: bfp out of my hands now in regards to boy/girl??
Congrats!!! I think you will do great with 3 kids. :)
Congratulations! I have no idea what that woman was trying to tell you, but I assure you, none of us would undergo such a thing as elective IVF and pay $20,000 for less than a guarantee!
I hope you get your DS the old-fashioned way!! Wonderful surprise!
Hobmit - thank you, im going 2 be ok i think, im scared though.
Nbpink - thank you. Yes i know what your saying, but thats what she said 2 me, maybe she was taking drugs that day, hey??
I really hope i get a boy, & really hope i will be ok if i dont.
CONGRATS CA! FX you get blue! FWIW I wish this baby had been an accident ... I'd be much more accepting then of her being out of our control. DD1 happened while I was on BCP's and I never had a minute of GD with her, even though I never wanted a single DD, I felt like God sent her to us, like the best surprise EVER. So ... DS or DD, remember that this baby was planned by something far bigger than you :) It's going to be amazing!!!
Thanks Begonia, I know, its weird cause I do feel like someone above has made the decision for me, its kind of like a relief if that makes sense, he/she was meant to be, thats for sure! Im trying so hard to stop thinking about the gender cause I really want to enjoy this pregnancy as its going to be our last, after this one my hubby is doing the chop.Quote:
Originally Posted by begonia
dd1 :ballerina: dd2 :giggle: & OMG Im :pregnant:
the not knowing would kill me also. if I knew I would have 3rd boy, would I try again? YES because if I were to have 4th that MAY be my girl. Or, if you mean, if I were going to keep having boys would I keep trying? My answer is I really don't know. The heartbreak would probably kill me honestly. But I'd have to try, it's better to me to try than to keep wondering. Bottom line, I guess I'd have to keep trying to avoid the what if. I really do think it is a 50/50 shot however I feel like i am about 75% more likely to have another boy, I feel like it's a slim chance in hell I'd have a DD ever but I have to try.
Oh Honey, I have to give you some cyber hugs (((HUGS))) I felt the exact same way. My hubby is one of four boys....TONS of boys in his family. My side has a whack load of boys as well, except for my mom who had me and my sis. I REALLY thought I would have a girl for my first...HA! Was I wrong....3 times in a row! This pregnancy was a complete oops, wasn't really swaying at all, and when I did get pregnant I was 110% resigned to the fact that I would be an all boy mom. Well, it doesn't look like that's the case! This one looks ALL girl and I am SHOCKED beyond belief. It can happen for you Mama~ xoxo Lots of hugs to you~~Quote:
Originally Posted by ThroughWithBlue
Yes your right Throughwblue, I know if I had made the decision not to go for a 3rd Im so sure I would have always wondered 'what if', so Im so glad its happened the way it has.
Hope you do get your girl, sending you heaps of pink pink pink
Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2 :giggle: & OMG Im :pregnant:
Congratulations on your pink bundle DMama, thats fantastic, you must be so excited!!!
Dd1 :ballerina: Dd2 :giggle: & OMG Im :pregnant: