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I’m guessing girl from the pics though not too clear! Hope I’m right!
Its a boy. I really thought we had a chance this time. It hurts but my heart is so done with feeling this way. I changed so much of my life to have a chance at having a daughter and thats what it always was, a chance not a guarantee.
Part of me will always wonder and unfortunately thats what it will always do. The best thing i need to do now is look after my boys, make sure they grow up good and look after myself. Ive lost myself so much along the way pouring so much into a plan for babies in hopes of a girl.
Part of me feels so foolish to think it was ever possible. I knew in my heart it was always one of those dream come true, far away fairy tales because i know if it were to happen its what it would feel like. And i guess i always had hope.
Not in a million years, if someone had told me 15 years ago id have 6 boys i would have laughed, the whole thought whilst not impossible just doesn't even sound possible. Just like the quest for a daughter i guess.
Part of me doesn't feel upset more foolish that I believed it would happen. I asked so much of my husband for this chance, so much from my boys, its just unbelievable.
Part of me wants him here now in my arms to tell him i love him and he is so wanted despite the tears that continue to flow.
Ive never been more privileged, more blessed than to be a mum to 6 amazing boys. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...d2f4226db9.jpg
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Oh netti I've tears in my eyes... such heartfelt words from a truly amazing mum. You were never a fool to dream you are human it's what we do. For some reason none of us know, some dreams don't happen and it's not fair.
Sending huge congratulations on your boy and lots of love and light to heal your big heart xx
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Oh Netti! I'm sorry you didn't hear girl, by I'm so happy for you for a healthy little baby boy. You are blessed, because a boy loves their momma as you know like no other. I wish I could comfort you take away your pain from not having a girl. So many hugs, lost for words, because I know how gd feels. You are happy for your precious bundle, but you are gutted for the other gender as well...
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Just including some pics of our cheeky boy. He had us in suspense at the beginning, apparently quite relaxed and snoozing with his hands behind his head and legs closed [emoji23]https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...d31faab66c.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...773c5f17f2.jpg
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Such a sweetie Netti!!
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(((Huge Hugs))) Netti! You’re an amazing mom to such an incredible family! Your boys are so very lucky to have a mom like you! Your boys are going to grow up to be amazing men!
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So sorry Netti. I'm so glad your little boy is healthy but I get the sadness of not hearing girl. You're not a fool at all to think having a girl is possible. It's what the hearts of many of us here desire so very much. Congrats on your newest little man. Just imagine when your boys are all grown and having six handsome men to be so proud of. :)
Netti, your words really struck a cord for me. I never in a million years saw myself with four little girls, and here I am ready to welcome the fourth in just a few weeks. I also really changed my lifestyle and feel so let down that I didn’t get the results I thought I would hear. Thank you for being another mom who understands what I can’t put into words to anyone in real life. Congratulations on your baby!
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What a cutie, congrats for what will be yet another wonderful little boy...and god knows you know how to make cute little men!!!
I’m so sorry that you didn’t get to hear girl, I can so echo your feelings, and I know that you will love him beyond bounds, just like you do his brothers.
You are such an awesome Mumma, and wise and kind. Big big hugs :hugs:
GD is very real, and like you I felt foolish for even ever thinking I would get my boy, but in insight, what a natural desire and hope, and you did everything you could to make your dream of a girl come true. The rest was out of your hands and you couldn’t have done anything more that;you have. He must have wanted so so much to join your lovely family...Feel free to PM me if you need hon ;)
I am sorry you didn't hear girl Netti... you are an amazing mom and this little baby is lucky to come in your wonderful family❤️
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Sorry you didn't hear girl, but congrats on a healthy lil man. Adorable pics! :)
Aw Netti I’m so sorry. It’s not wrong at all to hope for a little girl. I hope in time the pain will ease xxx
Its been a hellish 24 hours. I woke up this morning thinking it was not true. I got such a bad headache last night i just ended up in bed, likely from all the crying. I really hate myself right now for putting myself through this again. I should have listened to my husband, i should have listened. I guess thats what i get for asking too much.
It doesn't help ive been looking over my scan pics. One pic makes sense the rest look weird. The first pic makes sense. The other im trying to work out parts. Maybe the cord is muddling them up.
I hope there's a light at the end of this tunnel i really do.
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So sorry Netti. I thought you will hear Girl.
I feel exactly what you are feeling. I get only Boy guesses on my NT scan so probably it’s my DS#3 due April.
I’ve been looking also over scan pics on the internet and there are many stories about wrong gender prediction. But it’s very rare.
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Can anyone look at my potty shots and give me some insight. What are the lines coming from whats meant to be the penis? Is this some risidual image taken on the u/s or possible cord? I just cant help looking at the 'boy' pics and finding them weird.
I feel alot better today. Got out of the house and seen my dad who is going through a tough time with his health. So it was good to get some perspective and fresh air.
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Netti I really wish I could shed some light on your scan pics [emoji173] have you thought of scheduling another gender scan and ask for a thorough explanation of what is what during the actual scan? Or how far away is your 20w scan? Are you getting some support from hubby?
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Yes hubby has been amazing and i forgot he is also missing out on an experience too. The last few days were tough on us but i just needed some time which he understood.
I will be waiting til anatomy scan but ill likely go at about 18 weeks. The place that did this scan is not local to me unfortunately. For the most part everything seems boy, i just don't get those lines following on. I thought it might just be the machine picking up something else.
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Glad to hear he is being a wonderful support. So how many weeks are you now?
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Well the gender scan had me behind a few days. Im 15 weeks today per my dates. Scan dates is 14wk 4 days today.
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So about a month until next scan... Is 14/15w not too early for a gender scan? For some reason I had 16+ weeks in my head?
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I thought so too, however this particular place believes 14 weeks onwards they can tell. I can't remember if they took cord flow measurements.
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Well I'd keep assuming boy but I'd also be getting confirmation after 16w....
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Yes i agree. Likely boy as nothing girl jumps out at me either from the pics. Will definitely confirm at anatomy scan
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Messaged the scanning place. They believe it isn't cord just the penis and sonographer wouldn't comment unless 100% sure.Quote:
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Definitely looks all boy, I don’t mean to upset you but also don’t want to give you false hope. I’m sorry you didn’t hear girl but that is one gorgeous son you have on the way! [emoji170]
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Magical i hope i can be positive like you one day about it. Right now im not sure if my hearts a dark abyss or a solid shut volcanic rock.Quote:
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Ive pretty much lost all people to talk to about this. If i drag my husband through much more im not sure what it will do to us so i need to find my fake smile. My best friend is 2 weeks ahead and having a girl after 2 boys. Everyone else fills my head with empty words of 'at least you know what to do with a boy', or 'think of all the money you will save', 'at least you will miss the teenage drama years', 'have one more, the next one will be a girl' or the most common 'as long as its healthy'. All words, phrases that ive heard too many times and left another hole in the heart of dreams.
I have zero feelings towards this baby. I have a birth that i don't even care about but the only promising thing is the pain i will endure for feeling this way. Then i look at my other kids and think i don't even deserve them. I usually already start thinking about 1st birthday themes and i can't be bothered nor do i want to see anyone. I don't think i will bother confirming gender at anatomy scan. Im not sure my heart could take any more words...'its a ***', its words ive heard far too many times. And the way i sound when i read this is like a self absorbed, selfish, ungrateful, unappreciative cow but i know those words are lies because thats not me, thats not who i am.
I've got years and years of hope and dreams that i held onto and just like that, it's gone. Not even ashes, not even dust, just non-existant, gone.
The part of me keeps thinking, i should have stuck with the wonder. The wonder if the next one would have been a girl, the wonder that had abit of hope left. Not what I'm feeling now, not this. I don't even know what it is. I don't even know if it has a name.
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HUGS Netti!!!! Praying for you. I know EXACTLY how you feel right now. Praying you will feel better with time and I am very happy to hear that your little man is healthy! Let me know if you need another large boy family mom to talk to!!!
Thanks Shannshaff. Part of me is just so dumb founded and speechless ive had 6 bloody kids and they've all got penises!! I hope time is exactly what will help cause i certainly can't put up with myself much longer.Quote:
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We are all hear for you! I may not have 6 sons but I have 3 so can relate to an extent. For me having kids is so difficult to begin with years of trying clomid, injections, IVF. DH didn’t want 2 kids so to push him to 3 was crazy! We did HT in the US which failed I’ve had 3 miscarriages and 1 D&C (the day my niece was born) life can be so unfair can’t it. My friends so easily get PP. I have suffered severe depression I have seen a therapist, the guilt I feel pushing my husband for just 1 more (something I do now) the guilt over money wasted, it’s all so crazy. Don’t ever think your alone we are all hear for you, we can relate we understand, gentle hugs lovely! XQuote:
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Just to update ladies. After much deliberation, im disregarding my u/s pics. They do not make any sense in the slightest to confirm either gender. I have pretty much confirmed that what is pointing to boy in 1st pic is clearly cord. You can see where it travels off the supposed penis and around to the placenta. This pic also doesn't clearly identify boy bits as where i should 'see' the scrotum its not even attached at the base. There is also another pic with cord. Side profile looks girly. And another potty shot is not able to identify either. 3d pics don't really show much either to have me give a guess, other than 50/50.
I think it was just too early to be able to tell and i am not a small woman and that plays a part. I wish i had asked a 100 times if they were correct rather than face value. The heartache for an indeterminable result and waste of $$ has me furious especially when I voiced my concerns a few days later only to be brushed off. I will await anatomy scan and leave them my review after. So for me its still 50/50.
Ive also had some feedback about the pics with the same thoughts as mine and that they really don't provide any answer to a specific gender. Now to wait patiently til mid November. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...9758c2629b.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...98602e3d93.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...6e0066bfb1.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...1d082771cb.jpg
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The pic where they labeled boy is confusing to me because it doesn't even look like connected boy parts... The other photo definitely looks more girl than the other one looks boy, if that makes sense? The boy pic definitely reminds me of a cord photo. I'm not convinced, I don't even see the testicle shadows. I will be following to find out!
Did you not do the blood test then?
Blood test is $400 here in Australia [emoji58] I already paid $100 for this scan and i won't be able to get anymore til anatomy.
But thankyou for pointing out what i also think is off with the pics. Im trying to be patient. Anatomy scan will be in a few weeks.
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Oh Netti I am so sorry it didn't go your way.
BUT I do want to congratulate you on having an amazing and unique family and a beautiful baby boy on the way. :heart: