Hannah your chart looks awesome!! Those rising temps are great! Good luck Noemi!!
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Hannah your chart looks awesome!! Those rising temps are great! Good luck Noemi!!
Hannah your chart looks very promising!
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So i did a preg test - Wasnt instantly, like i had to deep stare to find a line in the first Two mins.
Dunno why but im doubting myself. Feel normal in myself generally too so cant believe its a positive?
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Oh wow that is a clear, no question bfp Parying4girl!! Congratulations [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]
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Thanks pbn3 and emshe
Hope its a sticky one, really dont wanna go through a loss. And heres hoping for pink too! I dont find out so got to wait 9 months 😬😬
How do i go about eating properly, feels a bit weird to eat brekkie and inbetween meals?
Wohooo! Looks pretty much like my tests and I am 15 dpo already! Huge congrats! [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] I'm increasing my food intake slowly atm. Everything else would make me sick I think and I'm really scared of gaining weight too fast now after the diet. But it's soooo good not having to watch the limits for prot and fat anymore. Those were the toughest for me.Quote:
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Hoping many many ladies will get a bfp also within the next days or weeks (Hannah, Noemi, emshe...) so that we can move to the December due date group together! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
ABC I'm crossing my fingers so hard for good results of your tests! How are you feeling? [emoji173]️ https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...bf0cd4701f.jpg
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Ahh congrats to u too! So exciting but nerve racking. Have u got any preg sysmtoms yet? My AF was due tomorrow.
Are u still having coffee, i only started a few days before ovulation for the sway; i had my mc last time when i didnt lower or stop my caffiene intake so wanna really cut it out this time round.
Are u havin brekkie?
Yes i lost weight on past 2 mnths but had stopped losing now. Dont want sudden weight gain either as that will be stubborn to loose later!
All the best with ur preg and good luck everyone else
Hope to hear good news x
Yes although i was never too strict with my diet, had a few cheat days and deffo more in my tww cos was starving im glad i can put summat in mouth mid day without feelin too guilty!
Did u have any preg signs before ur positive test?
Thank you! [emoji4] I didn't have any symptoms until maybe two days ago. Now I feel a bit shaky, maybe my blood pressure is low? And tired and also a bit sick already. I had really bad nausea and vomitting with DS1 and 2. But I hope I will have three more weeks until the vomitting starts [emoji51] do you have any symptoms? Do you have older children btw to whose pregnancies you can compare everything?
I think I'll soon have to add breakfast cause the only thing that helps me a bit against the sickness is snacking constantly. I already limited coffein in the tww, but am still having a bit still. Only a matter of time until I will find it disgusting [emoji51] if you don't enjoy coffee I would deffo skip it. I try to keep exercising on a low level but I'm not sure if I have enough will power to continue after the major nausea kicks in...
I wish you all the best for your pregnancy as well!
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Just wanted to day its sooo nice to have someone in the same boat so close together ☺️☺️
Im not feeling anything really only hot during the night (not common for me) which is why im thinkin is this a proper preg and will it last. Last miscarriage i didnt feel much at all throug the 10 weeks, mild nausea and tired - thats it.
My last miscarriage i had to literally always have something in my mouth cos of nausea constantly but not too wild.
I have 3 boys, eldest passwd away at 3 weeks old. 2nd is 4 this year and 3rd just turned 2. My fiest and second preg i had awful sickness. Could not eat or drink first 14-16 weeks. Middle preg was abit better but did have vomiting too.
Think im going to add something before my lunch cos my tummy is actually rumbling..
during the tww i felt hot, had a slight sore throat ( did with my boys too) this time boys were ill too so put it down to that. Woke up in mornin with tummy rumbling which doesnt happen normally and also one day my sense of smell was mega high!
How big ir ur desire for pink? Like would u be mega disappointed if its blue?
How many months were u trying?
Have u logged your sway?
Just looked at ur boys dates and so close to mines
9/14 and 3/16 !!!
Oh, wow, seems we are going to have a great and fruitful month in terms of bfps!!!
Huge congrats, verena and praying4giril! Fingers crossed for noemi and hannah, and those who are close to find out! And good luck to the rest of us ladies!
I feel quite happy and hopeful for all of us, it's spring, everything is blooming, so should we ;)
Congratulations praying4girl and verena! How exciting! Fx for the other ladies too! X
Girls im happy to see so many bfp:celebrate:congrats Verena and prying4girl, for the rest of us :fingers::pray:
Yes it's really nice to share this together! [emoji2] have you checked your due date? Yours should be around Dec 12? Mine would be Dec 10.Quote:
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How crazy that our boys are only one month apart! I'm so so sorry that you lost your eldest boy. How terrible that must have been, at three weeks only! May I ask if you knew before birth that something was wrong? My DS1 was diagnosed a severe vascular malformation at 3 months and had to have a surgical which took 11 hours, but he is fine today fortunately. The saying "main thing healthy" becomes a new meaning after such experiences I think.
So I would be happy with a girl, but if it's a healthy boy I will be really happy as well. I'm quite sure there will be some GD for some weeks though because this will deffo be our last child. So I would not be disappointed for this child being a boy but for never having a daughter. How about you?
This was our third month with attempts that really had chances for conception. Last month I had a chemical. I started LE diet last summer hoping DH would be ready for a third earlier so it really feels strange to eat normally again lol. I haven't told DH yet about this pregnancy and I'm quite scared about his reaction...[emoji51]
I don't dare to log my sway yet, what about you? I think I'll wait at least until a heartbeat is seen on ultrasound...
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Thank you sunstars! How are you, how far are you in your cycle?Quote:
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No not checked due date... i got positive opk on 20th March, il go by your date minus a few days lol!! My first boy and 3rd came at 36 weeks and 2nd one came bang on due date
Yes its still heart breaking, he’ll always be my number 1, my grief catches me unawares and hits me in sudden waves. Ive become better at controlling it infront of others but breaks my heart everyday. I didnt know anything was mjor wrong; the only thing detected at 7 months was dialated bowel which meant if he didnt pass stools he may need surgery for on his bowel. I read up about it and was common ish and pretty straight forward. He came 4.5 weeks early via ceec and taken away to NICU about 3 hours later. My care absolutely crap; i felt lost and no idea what to feel or do. I think having had csec i didnt feel anythin, on min baby was in tummy, the next i was all alone upstairs with baby down in NICU. The drs couldnt figure out what was wrong: got transferred to two different hospitals and when he finally passed the drs even talked about him coming home, albeit needing assistance in feeding etc. The death happened suddey even the drs didnt expect that. They gave him a life expectancy of about a yr not 2 days ��
However i thank the Lord for he is the best of planners and has taught me so so so much through my trials. I have been bless with two gorgeous boys who i will forever adore. ❤️
Sorry to put such a downer on the topic
Glad your lil one is doing well now, may he always stay healthy and well x
Yes ithink after such things in life no matter how badly i want daughters, a healthy son is just as special. I told my hubby this morning and didnt get a overly excited response �� hes quite happy with the 2 boys but only agreed to more cos he knows i badly want a girl, i do joke that we will keep trying until i get my girl (that doesnt go down too well lol) i do want 4 kids anyways if im blessed with the opportunity.
I logged a new post just with my bfp details, will you be finding out sex at 5 months?
When will u be telling Dh? Good luck im sure he’ll be over the moon.
I miscarried in dec, started again in Jan but started swaying ish from feb.. so not long at all. Even now especially in tww i was getting tired of only eating 2/3 meals a day, ive always been a snacker!!
Praying, I am so excited for you!!! So what dpo did you end up testing? Did I miss that? I’m sitting at 9dpo and just trying my hardest to wait patiently. Feeling bloated and tired. But that’s it. So who the heck knows.
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Thanks hannah, i tested this morning at 445am 😃
If i ovulated on 22nd Marh it makes me 12dpo
I had to really talk myself out testing two times before as i kept getting negs previous months and then AF would come a few days later
Even this morning the line didnt appear straight away and i was kicking myself for not waitin!
I’m trying so hard to wait!!! I guess in reality it’s only 3 more days. Heartburn is kicking in today but I feel like that could just be symptom spotting. I got past positives around 9/10dpo but you are right, negatives would just tick me off unless it’s a true negative. SO excited for you!!Quote:
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Yes although i totally understand how u are feeling, waiting and getting a positive feels so much better!
In past preg ive waited til af due date but in previous months been keen and tested early and it got me nowhere!
Do keep us posted, will keep praying for u!
How long have u been swaying, what have u been doing x
Congratulations Verena and praying4!!!
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WOW congrats Praying4agirl! And Verena another amazing line!! Have you scheduled your first appointment yet?
Verena, thanks, I'm good. AF is pretty heavy which I guess is to be expected post-D&C. My chromosome test results should be back any time now so stressing about that... With the waiting for test results and knowing we wont be trying again for awhile I'm just trying to keep myself busy. Started spring cleaning my house which it desperately needs!!
Hi sunstars! I haven't seen many posts from you lately - how are things going?Quote:
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Hi abc, I'm so sorry for what you went through, I hope you'll hear good news from doctors and start ttc again soon.
Thanks for asking, abc and verena, I've been quiet lately, but still actively reading threads here. I actually got again very faint lines past few days, so I don't know what to expect, I really hope there is still a chance that it's not another chemical. I will know for sure in a day or two, af is due tomorrow.
That's really heart breaking what happened with your DS1, I'm so so sorry for you. I had c-sections too and I can imagine how helpless you must have felt, especially being a first time a first time mom. What a nightmare.
I would love to have four kids as well! But no way my hubby would agree, unless a miracle happens or something... I really don't know yet when and how to tell him. Hoping for a good moment but realistically there is no good moment [emoji51]
I'm thinking about getting a nipt test done at 10 weeks to find out gender. I ended up obsessing badly over nubs with DS1 and 2 and I don't feel like going through this again lol. Did you find out gender before birth with your older children?
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Miracles do happen 😁😁😁
Dont give up just yet.
Lol i think hubbies only make a fuss with the first and second after that they act if its a mormal every day thing.. well thats the impression i got from my hubby. Im keen to talk but hes not mentioned it at all!!!
Ahhh wow you’ll find out soon then. No ive not found out on any of them. I think on DS1 the sonographer said cheeky monkey and i got the inkling its a boy however when he was born the midwife initially said its a girl then said wait let me check, its a boy! Haha., then DS2 sonographer said something too that related to a boy! DS3 i thought was a girl cos sonographer was talking to someone and just gave me impressions its a girl but maybe that was me clutching onto hope its a girl lol!!
Thank you ABC! I called my OB today to ask him when I should come in and he said tomorrow [emoji33] I don't think it's a good idea because I will only be 4 weeks and 2 days and with DS2 I had such an early ultrasound as well where nothing could be seen. That really made me worry a lot back then so actually I wanted to avoid such an early ultrasound... But as I know myself I won't tell him not to do the ultrasound either, because I'm too curious.. [emoji51]Quote:
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Oh I can imagine that waiting for the results is really stressful. Will you take a break from ttc no matter what the results of all your tests will be? I think distracting yourself is the best thing you can do and one day you will know you're ready again [emoji173]️
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Oh sunstars, I really hope this turns out to be a healthy pregnancy! Maybe post a pic if you feel like doing it? How many dpo are you? I know how hard it is to be positive after a chemical. [emoji173]️Quote:
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Good luck sunstars
Sunstars - Oooooh exciting!!!!! So many FX that those lines darken soon!!!!!
Verena - I can't imagine why they'd do an ultrasound at only 4 weeks!! Are you sure that's what they are going to do? Maybe they'll just do a blood test to check your HCG and progesterone? If they do an ultrasound try not to worry - I feel like I've always heard that 5 weeks is the earliest that they can start to see anything!! So it will not be a bad thing if they can't yet! If all our tests end up being fine we're thinking of starting again in late May/beginning of June... soooo long from now :( But if something comes up with these remaining tests then I don't know.
Lovely sunstars, wishing you all the best too!Quote:
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Just read your other post about your lines, so amazing, I will be thinking sticky for you!
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So much happening! What great reading this morning.
All the best to all of you [emoji3]
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I’ll definitely keep y’all posted! We had a loose seat with our last and ended up with our 3rd boy. Our first was a girl so we would love to have another girl. When swaying became miscarriages became not getting pregnant, we decided to just drop the sway and go for pregnant. This month we tried the SMEP plan to the best of my knowledge without OPKs on a clomid cycle. We’ll see what happens!!Quote:
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All best !! Clomid is the best tactic i hear👍🏼
If hubby is still so careless with contraception after a third child, then a miracle might maybe really happen [emoji6] I left contraception to him, because it was him who wasn't ready for a third not me, and even last year when he really really didn't want to ttc yet, all he did for contraception was pulling out (sorry tmi) [emoji85] so I hope it will be the same after number 3 [emoji6]Quote:
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Maybe I'll tell DH today. I have my first appointment with my OB today and it would really feel like cheating if I didn't tell him afterwards. My only hope for him to be excited is that we will need a new car with three children and he reaaaally wants this too big and expensive mercedes van very badly. So maybe I'll tell him that he will get his van [emoji85]
May I ask you, if you were secretly hoping for a girl with DS3, wasn't there a bit of disappointment at birth? I'd find a surprise baby really exciting but I'm too afraid that I wouldn't be happy 100% immediately after birth if I don't find out that it is a boy before birth, if it is another boy. I'm thinking about pretending infront of my family though that I don't find out gender. They are so curious and make so many comments about gender that I don't feel like sharing this with them. My cousins and me so far only have boys so already in my last pregnancy they were saying things like "you will get to know your daughter" before the first ultrasound and so on. Really annoying.
When will you have you have your first u/s? Where are you btw, did I read UK?
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Emshe just looked at your chart! Does the "H" mean you got a positive opk??? [emoji322]
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Last pregnancy I had ultrasound 2 or 3 times at 4 weeks until we finally saw something when I turned 5 weeks. My OB is really nice in some ways, for example he gave me femara just like that... But he definitely has a tendency to cause unnecessary worries [emoji51] my head knows that there is no reason to worry if we don't see anything today but I'm not so sure my head will function anymore after the appointment...Quote:
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I can imagine those days until end of May will drag on and on... Maybe if you get reassuring results from your tests (and I'm sure you will) you will suddenly feel ready again a cycle earlier? Have you decided on swaying again?
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I like that theory, men are usually laid back in contraception so heres hoping it continues. After my 3rd we also did pull out method but nothing happened!
Yeh i think it’d be nice to tell him after, can i ask why you have early appointments? Here in England we only get our booking appointment with midwife at 8-10 weeks, scan if all is well at 3 months. Only should u start spotting that they may book u for in an early scan at 8 weeks.
I remember my first ever preg that ended i miscarriage at 7/8 weeks, i had the blood loss on Sun but they wouldnt book me in for scan until thurs so i had to wait all those days, and although i knew it was a loss i secretly hope it would be ok. The wait was pathetic. Emotionally distressing.
Lol love the thinking of a bigger car, im sure that will make him happy!
I was deffo 100% hoping for a girl, both my and DH family sides all go girl boy girl boy and the fact i had already two boys was shocking. There was some disappointment but i have sooo much going on in my preg worries and then birth, that im so stressed about other things (DS2 had suspected menigitus so in hosp for 3 weeks whilst he had treatment. DS3 i started bleeding heavily at 36 weeks, when he was born he had kidney infection so in hosp for a week for treatment) i dont do thing by halves loll! When we came home i did look at him feel why aint u a girl but tbh it all went after a few weeks. It didnt even get me down in a deep way cos as i say ive had so much history and worries that im just thankful for the healthy bubs i get.
The way i see it if i was to find out i was having a boy durin preg it may just keep me dwelling on fact its not a girl and not enjoy my preg. Yes at birth if i was to hear boy id be a lil disappointment but then your babys in your arms and your so busy/exhausted anyways!
All my friends find out and they tell me to but im adamant on not! I have extra scans so have lots of opportunities to find out but so far ive been able to hold strong.
Alot of people i know find out but just say aint telling anyone, and i think thats fair, it should be your choice if you want to share or not.
Familes eyyy,,, ive been prodicted girls two times mainly cos of the crazy sickness and my sis had girls with her sickness. Didnt work for me though...
Comments can be annoyin just wish people didnt say anythin!
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Not yet. H is high fertility on the dual fertility ovulation tester. P is peak which is like a positive opk.Quote:
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Thanks for checking in on me ;)
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