swayers over 35 buddy group

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

Me again....I just have to ask...if anyone understands the moon theory or Jonas help me out:)
It may mean nothing but at least it gives me the confidence to dtd on o day!
It says high fertility girl on the following days November 24th and 28th.
Does anyone understand this??

Scorpio 24° (28.9)
-20°37' - Girl
Mirror Lunar - High fertility

Capricorn 22° ( 3.8)
-18°25' - Girl

Jonas method - High fertility, 04:55:00

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Yeah that i would guess those days you have a higher chance for a girl? but to answer your other quest i had my jonas done by a girl on ingender who isnt there anymore,cant get a hold of her/Anyways it didnt work for me i just try to dtd on a gIRl day you can check through lunarium.uk and luckily i have oed in the new moon phase on a girl sign but havent conceived yet to test it out? You can try to do your own jonas date here although it is alot of calculations and difficult for some,it also doesnt always show girl or boy days like mine only shows 2-3 months of girl days and after its undecided,but anyways you go to extended chart select then choose special charts then from the drop down lunar phases fertility calendar .then add your info.
And i chose to drop the licorice root and long abstain and i added repfresh last time not sure yet if it worked but i felt more 'SAFE' using it,we did abstain first time to long and didnt get pregnant and 2nd time planned to do 6 or 7 days abstain but i oed early and did 4 days once on o day and the day after,i just want to conceive now,,im not bothered though as everyone says diet is the most important and timing least!Oh and the person who did my jonas date if you plant to use yours said you always dtd 24 hrs before the date and again 12 hrs after that..

Hey fellow Cdn!
Really? Is it spelled sylk? Or is it Slik e by ky?
Two more weeks for you! I hope it goes fast and you get your girl!
What did you do to get pregnant? I am struggling with timing and frequency!

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Originally Posted by DoulaMama

I'm in Calgary and we have sylk in all our health food stores:) just a heads up!

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Originally Posted by queen-of-harts

If anyone wants my blue dust they can have it....take it all but i warn you it is powerful stuff lol I will be doing the LE when i decide to sway right now im trying to work on myself an many levels.I have only swayed with ds6 and i took cran,calmag,vitc,ate rice,craisens,kefir,greek yogurt,rice milk,strwaberries,greenbeans,cucumbers,chicken,Did frequent release,lime douche & tampon.I really ate alot of greek yogurt soo i would stay away from that stuff in large quantities lol as a matter of fact the only things i may take with me in my sway is the cucumbers and rice.

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You are due for a girl!!!!!!!!!
Um, I eat a ton of greek yogourt. GREAT!
Your diet is my EXACT diet! I have two boys.
You said frequent release...would you try abstain next? What about timing? What are your thoughts on that?
What do you eat on the LE Diet????
I am not sure how much you weigh but are you trying to lose weight?

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Originally Posted by sweetsister

Yeah that i would guess those days you have a higher chance for a girl? but to answer your other quest i had my jonas done by a girl on ingender who isnt there anymore,cant get a hold of her/Anyways it didnt work for me i just try to dtd on a gIRl day you can check through lunarium.uk and luckily i have oed in the new moon phase on a girl sign but havent conceived yet to test it out? You can try to do your own jonas date here although it is alot of calculations and difficult for some,it also doesnt always show girl or boy days like mine only shows 2-3 months of girl days and after its undecided,but anyways you go to extended chart select then choose special charts then from the drop down lunar phases fertility calendar .then add your info.
And i chose to drop the licorice root and long abstain and i added repfresh last time not sure yet if it worked but i felt more 'SAFE' using it,we did abstain first time to long and didnt get pregnant and 2nd time planned to do 6 or 7 days abstain but i oed early and did 4 days once on o day and the day after,i just want to conceive now,,im not bothered though as everyone says diet is the most important and timing least!Oh and the person who did my jonas date if you plant to use yours said you always dtd 24 hrs before the date and again 12 hrs after that..

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Hi sweet sister,
Found you on this thread as well!
Thanks for the info. I bought the chart so it shows the dates as outlined above. I just don't understand how I can get pregnant if I dtd 3 days after I o. It seems strange to me!
What do you mean it did not work for you? I thought you have not tried it yet?
The lunar calendar lines up exactly with my o date....it says girl. Do I dtd on o day bc it says girl or do I stick with a couple days ahead so it is in there?
My Jonas day is 3 days after o....clearly confusing as how does that work?
I am just going to give it a go as well....what did you do with the rePhresh. I bought it today. How is it different from replens.
Oh, and I bought everything lavendar!! lol
PS: did your lunar or jonas line up this past month???

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Originally Posted by Out of the Blue

Awww, Flava! I'm giving you ALL THE BLUE DUST I can find!!! I hope your BFP just sneaks up on you when you least expect it this month!!! :luck: :bluesperm: :luck:

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Thanks so much I really need a lot !

zivic and lola-no I have no clue about nirvana or any novak LOL and Im not even interested hehe

lemon-I have no clue about the jonas calendar or how to use it ect. I would love to check it out but can't.

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If anyone wants my blue dust they can have it....take it all but i warn you it is powerful stuff lol

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ME ME ME! :superhero::running: I need lots of powerful blue dust LOL

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Originally Posted by queen-of-harts

If anyone wants my blue dust they can have it....take it all but i warn you it is powerful stuff

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I will take some of your blue dust!! Can I have some, please? I see Flava asked for some as well, so can we share? :wink: Thank you!!

Flava and Hobber there is more than enough blue dust for you to share lol I wish you both all the luck in the world getting your baby boy....sending my dust to you my friends:xy::xy:

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Originally Posted by queen-of-harts

Flava and Hobber there is more than enough blue dust for you to share lol I wish you both all the luck in the world getting your baby boy....sending my dust to you my friends:xy::xy:

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Thank you!! Please take some pink dust from me! I don't want any of it hanging around! :)

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

You are due for a girl!!!!!!!!!
Um, I eat a ton of greek yogourt. GREAT!
Your diet is my EXACT diet! I have two boys.
You said frequent release...would you try abstain next? What about timing? What are your thoughts on that?
What do you eat on the LE Diet????
I am not sure how much you weigh but are you trying to lose weight?

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We will be doing abstain most likely since we got boys with frequent and every other day timing.I did a cutoff with ds6 and the others were on o day but i think for me its way at the bottom of importance exspecialy when you use rephresh and things like that.I have not started the LE but i plan to skip breakfast and keep things very low in nutrients,calories and such.I am planning to lose alot of weight before i sway by just eating better and exercise and then about three months before sway i will drop the exercise and start LE.I also plan to use SP.I have alot of weight to lose and its doubtful i will be my lowest pre conception weight when i ttc but i suspect that it will sway pretty well if i lose 60 pounds since it will send the message to my body that "wow we are losing weight and nutrients and things are not as good as they once were" FX lol

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

Hey fellow Cdn!
Really? Is it spelled sylk? Or is it Slik e by ky?
Two more weeks for you! I hope it goes fast and you get your girl!
What did you do to get pregnant? I am struggling with timing and frequency!

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It is spelled Sylk. It's made from kiwi fruit:)
Thank you! I'm pretty excited about the u/s as from the nub and potty shots at 14w we're pretty sure this is a girl!
I have my "sway" posted in the girl sway section. I didn't do a whole lot. Changed a few things in my lifestyle but not much. Took vitex and had hubby on Saw Palmetto for about 3 months (2w on/2w off).
2 of my boys are "dtd on ovulation" babies, and this one was a 3 day cut-off, jump and dump. We were TTA at the time....total oops baby:) I hope you get your BFP soon!!! xoxo

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Originally Posted by Yuzu

Oooh, this is the perfect group for me! I'm 43 and I'm swaying for a girl.

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Yuzu, hi! :) It's nice to have you here, I thought you were mama in her early 30s or something.
Wow, that is so cool to try for a baby at 43! :bowdown: :luck: :XX: :luck:

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Originally Posted by Flava

zivic and lola-no I have no clue about nirvana or any novak LOL and Im not even interested hehe

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:rofl:

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Originally Posted by queen-of-harts

We will be doing abstain most likely since we got boys with frequent and every other day timing.I did a cutoff with ds6 and the others were on o day but i think for me its way at the bottom of importance exspecialy when you use rephresh and things like that.I have not started the LE but i plan to skip breakfast and keep things very low in nutrients,calories and such.I am planning to lose alot of weight before i sway by just eating better and exercise and then about three months before sway i will drop the exercise and start LE.I also plan to use SP.I have alot of weight to lose and its doubtful i will be my lowest pre conception weight when i ttc but i suspect that it will sway pretty well if i lose 60 pounds since it will send the message to my body that "wow we are losing weight and nutrients and things are not as good as they once were" FX lol

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Queen of Harts...I think changing your body is a great idea. It is a fresh start and a different environment. If you have it to lose then you will feel better and perhaps this is the life altering change for you and your future daughter. I do wish you the best. My heart aches as well!

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Originally Posted by DoulaMama

It is spelled Sylk. It's made from kiwi fruit:)
Thank you! I'm pretty excited about the u/s as from the nub and potty shots at 14w we're pretty sure this is a girl!
I have my "sway" posted in the girl sway section. I didn't do a whole lot. Changed a few things in my lifestyle but not much. Took vitex and had hubby on Saw Palmetto for about 3 months (2w on/2w off).
2 of my boys are "dtd on ovulation" babies, and this one was a 3 day cut-off, jump and dump. We were TTA at the time....total oops baby:) I hope you get your BFP soon!!! xoxo

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I have no idea where I can find SYLK here in Canada.
I have been to nutrition stores but gender selection seems to be frowned upon. You cannot even find the preconception gender diet book.
Did you do a one time abstain for baby #3?
Just wondering if you are young or older? i wonder if that makes a difference? Do you think that you need to have a lot of sperm in there to get pregnant at 37?
I am contemplating a 2 day one time attempt (Same as DS2 but figure I have to close to o at my age). Does that make sense?
Of course, yesterday my plan was a 3-4 day cut off and 0-1 and o or o plus 12. I am indecisive!!!!

:princess::princess:

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

I have no idea where I can find SYLK here in Canada.
I have been to nutrition stores but gender selection seems to be frowned upon. You cannot even find the preconception gender diet book.
Did you do a one time abstain for baby #3?
Just wondering if you are young or older? i wonder if that makes a difference? Do you think that you need to have a lot of sperm in there to get pregnant at 37?
I am contemplating a 2 day one time attempt (Same as DS2 but figure I have to close to o at my age). Does that make sense?
Of course, yesterday my plan was a 3-4 day cut off and 0-1 and o or o plus 12. I am indecisive!!!!

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PS: congrats early on the "maybe girl nub"
Can't wait to find out on the 23rd!!!!!:princess:

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

Queen of Harts...I think changing your body is a great idea. It is a fresh start and a different environment. If you have it to lose then you will feel better and perhaps this is the life altering change for you and your future daughter. I do wish you the best. My heart aches as well!

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Thank you I really hope a change will help all around.I really feel like my baby girl is out there and i just need the right map to find her <3

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

Hi again,
I wrote a big long post a few hours ago but my internet went down.
It is nice to hear others my age also TTC girl.
Sorry about the BFN...:( take my baby blue dust please!
What is the LE diet?
Atomic, you seem to know so much, may I ask what happened with your sway that ended with the opposite?
I am trying to decide on timing...the diet is only minimal. I eat a lot of greek yogourt, skip breakie or only snack around 930 am as I get up so early, low sodium, I try to eat beans, broccoli, cranberry juice, p tea, cl,.....not sure what else. I take the supplements of calcium and cranberry.
We are trying to decide on how to maximize getting pregnant but still sway girl.
I need lots of advice.
I think o plus 12 means we might not get pregnant an I have only heard of people trying this method on the IG site. I have not heard many people saying it actually works!
With DS 2 we did a 2 day cut off (maybe 1.5) as he was an oops baby. With DS 1 I was on clomid and told to dtd every other day.
Soooo, what should I try?
I doubt I can do frequent bd enough to lower sperm count....it seems like a lot of bding!
What about 2 day cut off again......maybe I will get the opposite??? lol

Let me know...I ovulate on the 24th or 25th...I think!
It is girl lunar cycle for me! I need to give it my best shot!

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I got pregnant by accident the month I had stopped swaying and tried to regain some weight.

Plus I did a lot of things on the advice of other people like taking big doses of Vit. D and B6 and now I totally think they sway blue.

Also, my DH wouldn't sway at all!

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

I have no idea where I can find SYLK here in Canada.
I have been to nutrition stores but gender selection seems to be frowned upon. You cannot even find the preconception gender diet book.
Did you do a one time abstain for baby #3?
Just wondering if you are young or older? i wonder if that makes a difference? Do you think that you need to have a lot of sperm in there to get pregnant at 37?
I am contemplating a 2 day one time attempt (Same as DS2 but figure I have to close to o at my age). Does that make sense?
Of course, yesterday my plan was a 3-4 day cut off and 0-1 and o or o plus 12. I am indecisive!!!!

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Girl it's frowned on here too! That's why we gotta stick together, because no one wants to help us at all. Fine if you're rich and can go HT but for the rest of us we're kinda out in the middle of the ocean in a rowboat all alone!!

You have to order Sylk on the Internet and I hope someone has a link for you.

Hi all, hope I can join in, I just saw this thread and thought, well Im 37 and I swayed for 5 months & got my BFP on our second attempt.

Atomic is B6 in Evening Primrose Oil? Or is it in Fish Oil??

Oops sorry ladies dont think I should be here as Im already pregers!!

All the best to you all!

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Originally Posted by Yuzu

Oooh, this is the perfect group for me! I didn't even notice it here. I'm 43 and I'm swaying for a girl.

By the way, I was just having the Birkenstock conversation today, no lie. I'm still wearing the same pair of slip on Birks even though I have plenty of shoes. Should I retire them? They were EXPENSIVE. But it is kind of crazy that I wear them almost every day. :think:

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Heck yeah you should keep wearing em! They're gonna be back in a year or two anyway!!

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Originally Posted by CapricornAquarius

Hi all, hope I can join in, I just saw this thread and thought, well Im 37 and I swayed for 5 months & got my BFP on our second attempt.

Atomic is B6 in Evening Primrose Oil? Or is it in Fish Oil??

Oops sorry ladies dont think I should be here as Im already pregers!!

All the best to you all!

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It is okay Capri Aq
We are the same age and can learn from one another!
I know you swayed blue...how is it going?
Do you have two little ones as well?
How old are DDs? How I would love a girl!
Hope you hear blue!!!

Aww thank you lemon2012, yes I do have 2girls, they're ages are 8 & 6, they are very excited that we're having another baby, they would like to have a sister, but as you know I swayed blue, they dont need to know that!

Swaying for me was a really good thing to do as it made me more healthy, I went from a terrible acidic body from 4.0 to 7.5 alkaline, so I was really happy about that. I also had a lunar calendar made up for me and it showed that I only had 3 attempts in the yr for a boy, I guess I was just lucky to conceive on the day and month that was highly recommended.

How about you how's your girl sway going??

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Originally Posted by CapricornAquarius

Aww thank you lemon2012, yes I do have 2girls, they're ages are 8 & 6, they are very excited that we're having another baby, they would like to have a sister, but as you know I swayed blue, they dont need to know that!

Swaying for me was a really good thing to do as it made me more healthy, I went from a terrible acidic body from 4.0 to 7.5 alkaline, so I was really happy about that. I also had a lunar calendar made up for me and it showed that I only had 3 attempts in the yr for a boy, I guess I was just lucky to conceive on the day and month that was highly recommended.

How about you how's your girl sway going??

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My boys are 5 and 3...soon to be 4. I had PCOS with the first DS and just tried to get pregnant for a year (otherwise I woud have been younger,...sigh). With the second DS it was a total fluke on cd 8!
We tried for a year for a three day one time attempt cut off. We changed it up and got closer in the last few months and no BFP. I think i used too much douche or lime! Either way I learned I have to be accepting of another boy and just hope for another baby!
I do know think I have high testosterone level...I have been researching today.
I am worried about perimenopausal though,....knpw anything about it?
Are you in Canada?
I am and the seasonal change is getting me depressed! I really want to have another one before it is too late.
Lucky you, you are pregnant...I hope before I turn 38..it is close,..wah!
I would love a girl and just trying to figure out frequent or abstain,...cut off, o plus 12 etc!
Any advice?

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Originally Posted by CapricornAquarius

Hi all, hope I can join in, I just saw this thread and thought, well Im 37 and I swayed for 5 months & got my BFP on our second attempt.

Atomic is B6 in Evening Primrose Oil? Or is it in Fish Oil??

Oops sorry ladies dont think I should be here as Im already pregers!!

All the best to you all!

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No, all comers are welcome Capricorn! This is a laid back crew.

B6 is a vitamin, it is not the same thing as either EPO or fish oil. They are all distinct things.

Lemon2012, I guess I cant really give much advice on girl sway, but going by myself when conceiving my girls, I wasnt very healthy, I was going to the gym alot and we were dtd everyday.

I live in Australia! :fx: that it happens for you real soon & I hope you get your pink bundle.



Thanks for that Atomic!

Hi, I am 37 and have 2 boys. We will probably be ttc middle of next year - if I get the nerve to try one last time for a girl!! Hubby thinks we are getting too old so doesn't want to wait but my baby is only 8 months old so I would like to wait a few more months as I do find babies such hard work but think a 2 year age gap would be OK. There was a lady on in gender who had great suggestions for O+12. I know its a long shot but I am going to track my cycles and see if I get a pH drop at O+12 (if I can work it out)? IF I can work out O+12 I want to give this a go first, if it doesn't work not really not sure what I will do as boy one was ovulation day and boy two was day before ovulation day conceptions. Will be great to see what everyone else is doing. Really not sure about having 3 boys, I do have my heart set on a little girl for our third so not sure if I should really just stick with our two boys. The little baby is turning out to be quite full on but they do say the seconds babies are more out going than the first so hopefully he settles down and he will turn out ok!!

CapricornAquarius, I am from Australia too. Congrats on your pg.
lemon, hi love. Still prone to stressing I see - lol!! Don't worry, I'm here now. You'll love this site too. Heaps of great advice and ladies to chat with. I sent you a PM.

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CapricornAquarius, I am from Australia too. Congrats on your pg.
lemon, hi love. Still prone to stressing I see - lol!! Don't worry, I'm here now. You'll love this site too. Heaps of great advice and ladies to chat with. I sent you a PM.

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Hi Peony...yes, stressing. I have invested WAY too much time for this swaying business. Of course, some days I would consider myself lucky to have another most days I stress over pink. So, clearly it won't happen. I want it too badly!
I have learned a bit about myself though...I still believe in Shettles...(Duh, I can't help it), but I also know I have high testosterone. It all goes to the liver and insulin levels and PCOS etc. I have been drinking and eating so much milk and yogourt I have probably been giving myself extra boy hormones.
I bought vitex and maca and trying to decide if I should try it or not.
I am due to ovulate next week so it really won't do anything this round...but I doubt I can get pregnant if my hormones are off and I am stressed.
My lunar says girl and the jonas day is girl about 4 days after I am due to ovulate.
Peony, do you know to go about the bding with those dates in mind? Do I try two days before it?
I know I need to balance hormones and gather some calm feelings. I am also going to the doctors this week to check levels and see if maybe I need metformin. ...? I thought I ovulated...but what if the lh surge is not actually releasing a follicle? I thought it did not show up dark and around o time unless you were.
Ok, rambling now.
Must go to some work!

Hi CP and jude!
Im waiting to O....very tired of all this ...started in April and sick of it. Now i totally think I get another girl ...we are done ttc in January so I kinda don't like the 3 more bfn .whatever

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Originally Posted by jude17

Hi, I am 37 and have 2 boys. We will probably be ttc middle of next year - if I get the nerve to try one last time for a girl!! Hubby thinks we are getting too old so doesn't want to wait but my baby is only 8 months old so I would like to wait a few more months as I do find babies such hard work but think a 2 year age gap would be OK. There was a lady on in gender who had great suggestions for O+12. I know its a long shot but I am going to track my cycles and see if I get a pH drop at O+12 (if I can work it out)? IF I can work out O+12 I want to give this a go first, if it doesn't work not really not sure what I will do as boy one was ovulation day and boy two was day before ovulation day conceptions. Will be great to see what everyone else is doing. Really not sure about having 3 boys, I do have my heart set on a little girl for our third so not sure if I should really just stick with our two boys. The little baby is turning out to be quite full on but they do say the seconds babies are more out going than the first so hopefully he settles down and he will turn out ok!!

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Hi Jude...EXACTLY the same boat! DH sometimes says he is too old and he is so worried about my gd. We both really want a baby but unfortunately, we both also really want a girl!
Why o plus 12 and not shettles?
We did day of o (just before) and 1.5 days before o. Two boys!
I am realizing it is all me and not DH. I have high testosterone bc of PCOS. Even though with DS 1 I was taking clomid which sways girls I think my levels were more boy...and my diet was all boy as well.
Any advice for me? I am just ready for this to be over and be pregnant!
PS: my two boys are such good friends! They will always have each other!!!
That being said, one more reason why I am worried about a third baby being a boy. I hope he is not left out! Poor little babe...mine are 5 and 3.5 years old.

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Originally Posted by Flava

Hi CP and jude!
Im waiting to O....very tired of all this ...started in April and sick of it. Now i totally think I get another girl ...we are done ttc in January so I kinda don't like the 3 more bfn .whatever

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Still waiting to o...it is cd 18 right? When do you usually o?
I agree!

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

Hi Jude...EXACTLY the same boat! DH sometimes says he is too old and he is so worried about my gd. We both really want a baby but unfortunately, we both also really want a girl!
Why o plus 12 and not shettles?
We did day of o (just before) and 1.5 days before o. Two boys!
I am realizing it is all me and not DH. I have high testosterone bc of PCOS. Even though with DS 1 I was taking clomid which sways girls I think my levels were more boy...and my diet was all boy as well.
Any advice for me? I am just ready for this to be over and be pregnant!
PS: my two boys are such good friends! They will always have each other!!!
That being said, one more reason why I am worried about a third baby being a boy. I hope he is not left out! Poor little babe...mine are 5 and 3.5 years old.

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Hi, yes a third boy would be hard as then one may get left out but I thought the third being a girl would be cool as her brothers will love her to bits and look out for her. My little baby is only 9 months old and my older boy is 4 and a half, he really wants a sister and already has her name sorted out!! I am not quite ready to try for another just yet but it would have to be next year. Hubby will have a heart attack if we get to 38/39 and still ttc, he will put his foot down and say absolutely not. So planning on swaying once I get fertile again, still feeding the baby and no sign yet of things getting back to normal. I am really worried about cut offs, there just seem to be so many opposites? But I know with O+12 you probably can't even get preggys so I need to think more about what we will do. I tied a cut off with the second boy but I just couldn't get preggy. I was taking vitex every day though so this time I will take it 2 weeks on and 2 weeks off and see if I can get preggy. Hubby is also worried about how I would hope with a third boy because to be honest I have really struggled having the second boy. I just NEVER saw myself as a boy mum, one ok but two! I find it hard but I am sure it will all work out as the baby gets older

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Originally Posted by jude17

Hi, yes a third boy would be hard as then one may get left out but I thought the third being a girl would be cool as her brothers will love her to bits and look out for her. My little baby is only 9 months old and my older boy is 4 and a half, he really wants a sister and already has her name sorted out!! I am not quite ready to try for another just yet but it would have to be next year. Hubby will have a heart attack if we get to 38/39 and still ttc, he will put his foot down and say absolutely not. So planning on swaying once I get fertile again, still feeding the baby and no sign yet of things getting back to normal. I am really worried about cut offs, there just seem to be so many opposites? But I know with O+12 you probably can't even get preggys so I need to think more about what we will do. I tied a cut off with the second boy but I just couldn't get preggy. I was taking vitex every day though so this time I will take it 2 weeks on and 2 weeks off and see if I can get preggy. Hubby is also worried about how I would hope with a third boy because to be honest I have really struggled having the second boy. I just NEVER saw myself as a boy mum, one ok but two! I find it hard but I am sure it will all work out as the baby gets older

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Hey Jude...could not resist!
You and I are a lot alike! Except we reached our max age for conceiving and nothing. We did not try hard until the last few months. Douching and shallow are not getting us preggo that is for sure. I believe I might have some hormonal issues. Maybe I am not ovulating (although the lh surge is there; my temps are not clearly biphasic just slightly) so I bought vitex today.
I am going to try it with a form of cut off which might be hard if o is delayed.
PS: DH did put his foot down but he wants this as much as me!
How much vitex did you take:?
What was the cut off with DS2?
You have to tell me the name he picked out?!

PS: I am in Canada.
Want to do an exchange one day...lol! We have all the boy stuff!

O plus looks hard to get prego and most of them do some werid tbm (we tried one month not the right thing for us, weird!), and they eat really strict diets and use a lot of lime etc I think!
Some days I just hate those darn transformers and bakugan.....and the swords...save me!
hahahha! I may just buy a baby doll for Christmas as they will play with it!
Any advice?

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Originally Posted by Flava

Hi CP and jude!
Im waiting to O....very tired of all this ...started in April and sick of it. Now i totally think I get another girl ...we are done ttc in January so I kinda don't like the 3 more bfn .whatever

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Are you taking anything that is delaying o?

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Originally Posted by lemon2012

Hey Jude...could not resist!
You and I are a lot alike! Except we reached our max age for conceiving and nothing. We did not try hard until the last few months. Douching and shallow are not getting us preggo that is for sure. I believe I might have some hormonal issues. Maybe I am not ovulating (although the lh surge is there; my temps are not clearly biphasic just slightly) so I bought vitex today.
I am going to try it with a form of cut off which might be hard if o is delayed.
PS: DH did put his foot down but he wants this as much as me!
How much vitex did you take:?
What was the cut off with DS2?
You have to tell me the name he picked out?!

PS: I am in Canada.
Want to do an exchange one day...lol! We have all the boy stuff!

O plus looks hard to get prego and most of them do some werid tbm (we tried one month not the right thing for us, weird!), and they eat really strict diets and use a lot of lime etc I think!
Some days I just hate those darn transformers and bakugan.....and the swords...save me!
hahahha! I may just buy a baby doll for Christmas as they will play with it!
Any advice?

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I am in New Zealand BUT in Christchurch which has been having quite big earthquakes for the past year. Wouldn't recommend visiting just now but luckily they seemed to have finally died down so ChCh should be safe to visit again soon! We have a girl at work who's hubby is from Canada. Anyway I know its not really recommended for over 35s to do O+12 or abstinence but I want to try it first maybe just for 2 cycles and if nothing happens then I will re-think a cut off etc . Hubby couldn't do frequent release when we tried for our second, it really wasn't good at all! I can post what I think I may do if you want? I do have access to a microscope so I may get hubby to abstain and put some of the little guys under it to make sure they are still moving. Some people recommend this to make sure everything hasn't been killed off. But to be honest sperm makes me want to gag so not sure if I could actually do this without wanting to be sick!! The one girl on in-gender who posted a lot about O+12 did NOT do the diet and she got a girl (after 2 boys I think), but I think she was a lot younger than me though. I have a sway plan based on what she did but I would do some modifications to my diet as well.

My older boy is dinosaur mad, actually dinosaurs are kind of interesting? I always wanted a cabbage patch kid when I was a little girl but never got one. So I have always said that I would buy one if I had a little girl. Ha ha maybe I really want a girl so I can finally have a cabbage patch kid! I tried mostly 2, 3 day cut offs with DS2 and I just couldn't get preggy. We tried for 10 months and hubby was so over it. So we dtd on a positive opk test and got pregnant that month. I was taking vitex everyday, probably not for all this time though. Atomic said its best to take 2 weeks on and 2 weeks off otherwise it may stop you getting pregnant. It was 1 pill a day but I will have a look at the bottle to see what strength this was. I do wonder though if I can only get preggy right on ovulation. Would this mean I can only conceive boys??

Jude no it doesnt mean dtd on O will give you only boys, there are plenty of women who dtd only on O who have girls.