Oh ruu my heart dropped when i read this but so happy one baby is safe. Sending big hugs to you my friend had head aches and high bp had a girl how are you feeling ? xxxx
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Oh ruu my heart dropped when i read this but so happy one baby is safe. Sending big hugs to you my friend had head aches and high bp had a girl how are you feeling ? xxxx
Oh God! I'm so sorry ruu... I literally couldn't react when I read this.. Happy that one of your baby is safe and that ll be a cute ltl baby girl (hopefully).. Please don't get disheartened ruu, everything happens for good.. Lots of love and tons of hugs to you dear... Healthy pregnancy ahead dear!
Hopefully you are keeping well now ruu??Quote:
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Oh Ruu, I’m so sorry to hear that one of the babies is not there anymore. I am happy to hear that the other is safe and sound though. How are you feeling? I bet this is your girl!
Seriously I got hurt and didn't believe it @ first, so I paid for a second scan with different sono, and do you know what the sono told me"? She said I don't think you even had twins, there is nothing called vanishing twin syndrome,she.said you should have come to us meaning them as they are the true sonos who went to school to radiographers not my obs because he isn't a sono he might have seen something different that wasn't a twin, at all, she alsp insisted on without bleeding or spotting it can't be .but I have read that vanishing can occur with or without bleeding or spotting. I told myself I shouldn't have gone there now am tormented by this sonogra
Thinking its another boy, because of blood pressure and increase in body weight. All my boys pregos I gained weight even in first trimester upto delivery. And now I gained 5kgs in 12weeks. Now am 69kgs and what about upto 3rd trimester arghh. With my boys I never had bp earlier only when the preg was due.
I hope and pray I will be ok and tge baby
Thanks girls for the support, I kinda needed it soon after I wish if you were in real life over here with me I could have cried over your shoulders cos here DH is far and mom is far and didn't have any support.
Nell and TA hurry up get your bfps soon
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So upsetting ruu wish we were there to give you a big hug and make you cups of tea and have a proper chat! We all saw the scan im no expert but looked like twins to us including atomic i think?
Beautiful baby ruu but not a clear pic 💕💕
Feeling so upset ruu. Wish we were there to comfort you and spend some quality time with you.. If not there we are definitely here for each other. Really happy that one of your baby is healthy and we pray it is always healthy.
Hope you are doing better now ruu. Lots of love..
And yeah cute baby cozy in there!
Oh Ruu, I wish we were all close too. You wouldn’t have had to be alone at all. And I agree with Nell. It definitely looked like twins. I’m so sorry Ruu.
I do want to reassure you about the gender though. I gained 40 lbs (18+ kg, I think) with both of my girls! And I gained almost 1/3 of that in the first trimester! Those girls are stinkers and will make their mommas gain weight too!!
How are you feeling ruu? How did your dh react? xx
DH is so comforting he jus said thats God's will don't worry it wasn't meant to be but deep down he is hurting like me,
I am now ok, moving on and taking care of the lil one inside wishing its a lil girl
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Thanks sillyginger,hope its a sheQuote:
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Am doing better now,Waiting for your bfp now dearQuote:
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Hey ruu good to hear from you dear.. Glad that you're fine now.. Happy for you..Quote:
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That ll deffo be a ltl girl (hopefully)
Really do wish for a bfp. Hope it's mine and Nell's successful month...Quote:
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Nell AF arrived??
Thanks for checking on me thats really sweet of you ladies, now the cramps are here againQuote:
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Anytime ruu. The cramps will be on and off now.. Hope your health is fine??Quote:
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Hope the blood pressure is on range,still gt headaches but am trying not to think too muchQuote:
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When is your attempt TA, am waiting for good news from you and Nell
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You ll get well soon dear. Happy and healthy months ahead..Quote:
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I think attempt will be today or tomorrow.. Just want things to go the way I want.. FX..Quote:
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Praying it goes the way you want TA, Nell did AF came and pass,
Am having a headache and running nose, I think its flue
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Thanks ruu. No pos OPK today. So tomorrow ll be my attempt.. :fingers:Quote:
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Hey Nell AF came??
Hey TA! Thanks girls!
No af yet but we know it will lol have you had a positive opk yet? Are you doing 1 attempt? How are you doing ruu?
Hope it comes and go away soon..Quote:
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I thought of starting E4D this month but still felt like giving one last month for one attempt. So implying one attempt only. Waiting for a pos today (hopefully)..
I so so hope and pray it happens for us this cycle Nell. FX TX
Hey girls. How y'all.
Feels like something is missing without posting in this thread. Looks like we aren't that active to post here now lol. There is some kinda bond here.. Let's keep each other updated guys.. :highfive:
Hey TA! I know i feel the same this is my favourite thread ❤ any ov pain yet? I have af now praying dh doesn't let me down again!! I have a low sex drive now a days so happy its a pink sway with 1 attempt lol tmi lol!Quote:
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SG anymore scans?
Hi Nell.. love to post here::cheerteam:Quote:
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Yup I got ov pain this afternoon but not so intense like other times. This time the pain was way too ltl to keep me baffled..
Do keep reminding your hubby that you have to dtd on a particular day and try not to get busy this time.. GL..
Me too Nell, I am having very low SD from 2nd month of ttc. Dont know what it is, a good or bad sign for pink sway.. I so hope and wish we get out ltl pink bundles..
And ruu hope you are doing good??
What about SG and blue??
Nell, I’m glad y’all are swaying girl...your DH just has to get one good one in there! Maybe my DH should commiserate with him lol. He was NOT excited about being on a strict schedule for TTC boy! Any other time if I had said, “let’s have sex every other day and then every day for a few days in row” he’d be ecstatic. I honestly thought we were going to miss a couple of attempts, and it was emotionally rough. I hope that didn’t hurt my sway. Hoping you have a successful pink attempt this go!
TA, fingers crossed that low sex drive helps sway pink for you!
Ruu, how are you feeling? Sending prayers up for you.
I had an OB appointment today and got to hear the heartbeat with Doppler. Mid 150s. We will have our anatomy scan in 6ish weeks. I feel like it’s flying by! I’m 14w4days by lmp 14w1d by ovulation, so in the second trimester!!! Woohoo!
Hey Blue2, am I remembering correctly, did you OV on dec 31? Or was it the month before that we Ovd on the same day?
Thanks SG! its like the Dh can't perform on demand but we aren't like them we can only get pregnant certain times and with blue you need to dtd alot! Im so pleased you managed yo though and now pregnant!! Hopefully with your boy 🙌 are you still team green?
TA that maybe a good sign when i fell i didn't feel any ov pain like i do most months! ❤
Thank you!Quote:
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Hope it is something.. So happy to know that you heard ur lo heartbeat.. Hope it is a baby boy for you! Happy second trimester SG, time flies away too soon after conception but this ttc days draaagg and take forever.. GL..
Hopefully Nell.. So so waiting for a bfp. I am feeling so nervous whether I ll miss this month too..Quote:
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Good luck for you too..
Nell, my hubs is exactly the same way! You and TA are in my thoughts and prayers for BFPs!Quote:
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Thank you SG. FX for both of us..Quote:
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Ruu where are you these days.. Hope everything is fine..
Thank you so much SG hope we get our bfp soon too...feels like forever!
Did you get anymore ov pain ta? Or just a twinge?
Nothing Nell. Just a ltl cramps on ov day.. Now I am feeling like my cheeks are getting red, my cheeks are feeling so hot to touch lol such a weird hot feeling..Quote:
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Af came to an end??
Coming to an end now. After ov our temp rises so probably why you are hot :)Quote:
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Good luck Nell..Quote:
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Felt that for the first time. This is what you referred when you said you ll get hot when AF was due??:rolleyes:
I mean after ov temp rises so you feel hot and it stays raised if your pregnant, if you're not pregnant then it returns to your normal temp. I think blue2 or SG explained it to me ☺Quote:
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