Fresas - good luck at your appointment :luck:
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Fresas - good luck at your appointment :luck:
FX those numbers improve fresas.
Hi mandicane, lovely to hear from you! So exciting that you're having a gender scan :D
I'm probably going to see my doctor tomorrow because the bleeding has increased. It is bright red and there is tissue in the blood. I have had some lower back pain, also. I'm feeling kind of sad about this because now I'm positive I am miscarrying, but maybe it is for the best. I will just need some time to process this all. I wish there was a way to find out exactly what happened because I am like that. I need lots of details to feel closure. Since I will probably never have the details, I don't know if I will ever feel total closure, but I hope so.
I'm really sorry, fresas :HH:
so sorry :( I'm the same - need details too - and not knowing answers does draw out the grieving process for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by fresas
I won't lie, 2 years on I'm still grieving and still cry about it some days, but it is a lot less raw now and it does get easier to cope with.
Fresas sorry about the posssible MC :(
It's really interesting thread...I've never had a MC before, but reading what you guys felt about it really helps me try to understand it :(
My sister had two miscarriages, one was super early at like 6 weeks, the other, her last pregancy, has haunted her because it was at around 13 weeks. She was in her 40s so they believe it was chromomal. She had to have a D&C because it wasn't miscarrying on its own. They offered to test for gender or why exactly it passed, but she didn't want information. I totally respect her wishes and understand how for her knowing too much would have made her grieve harder.
However, I think if that happened to me, I'd want to know all details, because not knowing woudl drive me crazy and I would be caught up in wondering about the baby's identity. I think for me knowing the facts would add closure. So I totally get both sides of the coin...of wanting to know, or feeling peace without knowing all the details.
It's a very individual decision.
I'm officially miscarrying.
My progesterone was never high enough to sustain a healthy pregnancy. The pregnancy itself may not have been healthy, either. I just hope the bleeding can hurry up and be done.
I will never know and that will be hard to deal with, but I can do it. Thanks again to everyone for all of the support.
So sorry... I hope everything goes ok the next time. :hugs:Quote:
Originally Posted by fresas
I'm so sorry, fresas :broken:
I really hope for a girl today. Trying to catch up on cleaning and I started washing the 6 30gallon bags of clothing I got at the last clothing swap. So many cute dresses, crazy leggings, and the onies with "daddy's princess" on them. Of course one bag is full of 5 and 6 boys jeans so I guess it's not that much girly things. But the 2 purple dresses have me dreaming right now.
I wish I knew what it was already!
I know what you mean, pp. I just wish I knew for sure NOW so if it is a girl I could relax, and if it's a boy I can start working on moving on from my gender desire and finding happiness as a mom of 4 boys.
Mocha... Both our gender scans seem so far away but yet so close.
I'm so, so sorry fresas xxx
So sorry to read this fresas ((hugs)) will have you in my prayers :HH:
I didn't want to know gender with either of my m/c incase I went on to just have boys and if one of the m/c babies was a girl it would make it so much harder. It is also hard not knowing and hard just to know it is one of those things that happen and is so common.
mocha- good luck with your scan, so exciting, hope you don't see an obvious nub!!
I havn't posted on this thread before as I assumed it was for pink (successful) sway graduates!
I think it's open for anyone who did sway pink, regardless if they got blessed with pink or blue bundle.
That was the idea! It's good to catch up with old 'faces' regardless of whether they're having/had boys or girls :DQuote:
Originally Posted by auroara78
Hi Ladies!
Hope everyone's well! I'm almost 28 weeks now and didn't get to enjoy any of the second trimester glow! So tired, sore back etc.... So maybe I'll have a fabulous third trimester lol!
Looking forward to hearing some of the gender scan updates!
Eek - dating scan is tomorrow, almost 21hrs away! I've decided not to ask for a nub pic but will look for one in the scan, and if baby's in a position where it can't be seen I'll take that as a sign to stay team yellow.
Can't wait to hear how it goes, rainbow!
Sassy - my gender scan is tomorrow!
Good luck tomorrow rainbow and Mocha!
Sassy - I can't believe you're 28 weeks already!
I'm 33 weeks today, the end is in sight! I have 11 days off work after today (yes, I counted!) and I'm so looking forward to relaxing and not rushing around so much :D
OH YEA LADY! It's time to find the nub!!! :) I'm SUPER excited for you and your hubs. Please don't forget us after that scan tmw ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by rainbowflower
Good luck Rainbow and Mocha! I'm SOOOO excited for you guys! :)
So excited for Mocha and for some reason, it has renewed my hope that I may have a girl too...so silly I know, but we did O only a day apart, and I guess because she concieved on xmas eve and me on xmas day I think there is hope for us who got preg. in Dec. to have a girl.
You bet, auroara! I think you're right that our pregnancies are linked somehow. You'll be hearing 'girl' next!
YAY MOCHA!!!!!!!!!!! So thrilled for you!!!!!!!!!!!!1