frequency of BD for pink and blue

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Originally Posted by MamaT

Ohhhh I always thought the closer you are to O day, the more likely you are to have blue. That’s why I thought I should stop BDing by a certain day. When I got pregnant with DS, we BDed on my first peak day. So that’s why I thought the closer you are to O day, the more likely to have blue.

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Yes I understand now. That's what a lot of people say, but Dr. Shettles has been completely debunked, we even know what his mistake was and I have a full explanation about that in the timing link I posted above. 50-50 boys and girls are conceived every day of the cycle according to the studies who accurately calculated day of ovulation using blood tests or ultrasound instead of just telling women to have sex on a certain day or relying on unverified guesses about when O occurred.

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Originally Posted by BabyRendu

I was trying to get in the 7-9servings of fruits and veg that why I put in the fruits during snacks.. Shall change it slightly as per your suggestion. Thank you so much. In the event I still dun get preggy this month, I will be purchasing the guide for a personalised advise.

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Yes I figured as much but once the weight starts to come on, we have to make adjustments to that. :)

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Originally Posted by BabyRendu

So sad today I got my AF. This is the first time I didnt manage to be pregnant. With both my gals I got preggy with one attempt.. Looks like I gotto try again. Maybe cos im 34 this year and not able to conceive anymore. :worry:

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Atomic. I got my LH surge today.. I tested at 1pm and 11pm and it shows as peaked.. after my AF we have been DTD every 2days. We DTD on Fri and today morning.. now tat I got my positive when should I DTD? Tonight is out as hubby is sleeping.. aiming for tomorrow morning and at night.. correct?https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...0666a435a0.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/201...906a2ed2d1.jpg

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Yes tomorrow morning and again tomorrow night if you possibly can!

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

Yes tomorrow morning and again tomorrow night if you possibly can!

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I got my BFP [emoji12].. hope my sway works. Thks for all the help AS. I will soon put up my sway.. so nervous too...

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huge congrats Rendu!! :bluecheer:

Congrats!!

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

1) You're right on that but people are trying to DTD every 2-4 days and then BD once on O for maximizing sperm count, so I am assuming that people are attempting to time those BD attempts to coincide with when they expect to O, if that makes any sense. Because if you don't DTD every 2-4 days, that's abstinence and will sway pink. People don't have to use every attempt for insemination, I was more thinking DTD with a condom and then only using the last BD for insemination.

2)That was just a typo because I kept getting interrupted. I meant to say that if you thought you would O on CD 14 but didn't until CD 15!! Exact opposite of what I wrote.

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What if you abstain for a month, then DTD the day you got +OPK and then DTD again a day before O? Would it sway pink or blue? From what I understand it would sway pink because of abstinence but then again since there is fresh sperm because you DTD again before O it would sway blue? So confusing :(

What if you abstain for a month, then DTD the day you got +OPK and then DTD again a day before O? Would it sway pink or blue? From what I understand it would sway pink because of abstinence but then again since there is fresh sperm because you DTD again before O it would sway blue? So confusing

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Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

If it were me, I would DTD the night of the pos OPK and then again the next day, but I don't put much stock into timing and I also think that the overall sperm numbers that are in DW's repro tract matter more than the sperm count itself (so even if some guys might have a small decrease in number of swimmers from 2 shots back to back, by virtue of having more sperm on hand to make it to the egg will counteract that and sway blue even more so.)

For strict timing, DTD the day after pos OPK.

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What if you abstain for a month, then DTD the day you got +OPK and then DTD again a day before O? Would it sway pink or blue? From what I understand it would sway pink because of abstinence but then again since there is fresh sperm because you DTD again before O it would sway blue? So confusing