Yes I was talking to you.. Sorry!Quote:
Originally Posted by lemon2012
Printable View
Yes I was talking to you.. Sorry!Quote:
Originally Posted by lemon2012
No a digital works much easier. Concentrate on getting your BFP!Quote:
Originally Posted by lemon2012
That's what happened to me also. I did have a few really big ones though. When I had my 8wk u/s, there was a big empty sac, so they said the baby had reabsorbed also. They told me it is usually chromosomal abnormality as well, which actually happens a lot, they said. Like half of pregnancies which end in a chemical and failure to implant and grow. Goes to show what a miracle each baby really is.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mochagirl
Good luck and lots of pink dust to you ladies attempting now!!!!
Most of my clots were huge - baseball sized. In my panic I checked each and every one for a fetus - I really didn't know what to expect as my midwife hadn't prepared me for what the m/c would be like. When I passed the sac a couple of days later it was recognizable for what it was - it made it all seem much more real.Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
Thanks Lola!
Mocha, how are you? The mc must still be so fresh for you...are you doing okay?
Are you still thinking of trying asap?
Ok, ladies,...HELP!
Here is my pathetic brutal stress sway:
I am oing early but 2 days this month and I basically did not believe the OPK tests yesterday. They said positive but did not match up with my CBFM! I also thought, now way, the vitex is doing this!
So, we thought we had at least 1.5 to 2 days cutoff with frequent release. We had dtd on cd 8 and it was cd 11......BUT, this am the cbfm says high still (no peak) and the OPKs are now faint.....and I have the funny oing feelings. I also have a stomach ache and lots of lube mixed with a little represh and most likely sperm.
We dtd yesterday deep but low sperm count as dh had released just before (so basically 24 hours or less before o) and this am....(right at o? just before?) with shallow penetration and j and d.
Since I am oing now or sometime soon....? Still unsure which is uncommon for me....do I do it again or let it go and see what happens!
Totally freaking out,......the sperm count was low so either no baby and we have to do this ANOTHER month (NO!!!) or baby and most likely boy (ugh, just based on timing though and my ph which is always high).
I feel sick I have not eaten!
Can someone comment or help me out?
At the very least calm down...I am like a silly teenager afraid of pregnancy bc I rolled in it..lol!
It just feels so momentous and life changing...to dtd or not, wait, release, time, douche, eat not eat!
agggh!
Hi lemon - I'm doing ok, thanks for asking. I'm still considering trying immediately when/if O returns, but I think I'm going to go with my gut when that time comes.
If I were you, I would continue to dtd with dh until you know for sure O has passed.
Lemon, if I were u I would DTD again......
I thought the RePRHESH was working to keep your ph at the optimal 4.5????
Don't be afraid of pregnancy; you have wanted to be pregnant again for a while
There are no guarantees that you would get a girl unless u go HT, which I don't think u want to do
Breathe, relax, and hope for the best, because no sway is EVER going to be perfect, even the best sways don't go exactly as the woman wanted/hoped for, you just gotta do your best and hope it works :)
/hugs
Hi, Lemon! How are you doing? Hope you are feeling a little more relaxed now. I think the girls are giving great advice. It is so hard to know what to do, and it does feel life changing. There really is no way to know. I hope you figured out what feels right! Sending pink vibes your way!!!
I think I am scared of dtd again...I keep thinking what if the girl was there and I shot up a boy!
Then, I think I will be filled with regret if I don't do it again.
I just basically swayed boy!
UGH! And, dh was deep yesterday since his sperm count was so low...way to go!
Amari, nothing feels right!
Auroara...my sway was cut off and abstain..did not work and I kept missing cutoff, then I thought frequent release and cut off...but I read so many people suggesting one time attempt I waited,.....surprise OPK!
So, now I screwed up my comfort zone.
I am totally ovulating now as it hurts. I wonder if I should get dh to release again before or is once this am good?
Should I do shallow (even though yesterday was deep?)?
Should I use rephresh first? I hardly used any just a fingerful!
If I end up BFP it will be a long 4 months before I find out.
If it is BFN...I need a break! I cannot handle this swaying nonsense. I really do not think it is healthy!
Also, I do want another child but I am scared and paranoid of another boy. I know that is my fate and I pretty much sealed it! I really wanted a girl for my family so much.
Thanks amari!
Mocha,....I think you are ready mentally and just want to get on with it. I understand and I think if it feels right then go for it!
Thanks for the advice, pink dust and kind words!
I just have to say this sucks and this is not how I want to feel when I try to get pregnant or find out I am pregnant.
I know over the last year it became worse and worse. My parents were sick and my dad had to go to a nursing home. Things just kept escalating and now I feel like an idiot. I am sad and filled with regret!
I honestly wonder if I leave it as is it might be best.
When would o plus be? I have the burning, stomach ache, lube and ew that is stretchy.
2 am or later? Do I wait for the morning? Basically, at age 37 that is impossible right? I would have to go ahead tonight!
DH and I are so stressed!
PS: does a low sperm count really help?????? Assuming he had one given all the compact releases.