LSMS - Totally makes sense and yes give it some time!! I'm good, nausea on and off but nothing too bad. Thanks for asking [emoji5]
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LSMS - Totally makes sense and yes give it some time!! I'm good, nausea on and off but nothing too bad. Thanks for asking [emoji5]
Lmsm. I will begin them tomorrow on cd12
Have everything crossed for you that you get you ur bfp!
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LMSM - I am sorry for the spotting. Booo af. But I really like the way you are thinking now. Being positive was the only thing that helped me feel better everytime af arrived. Also, my 2 cents - Please don't tell dh about BD pattern. I learnt it from ladies here and it worked for me to some extent. The thing is that I had to tell dh about the attempts after pos opk and we never did unprotected before pos opk because I was scared to. Don't follow me though. [emoji52]I tried to get the first attempt in without him knowing but had to tell him after that. I didn't like to but had no option since I always Oed over the weekend and dh likes to drink over the weekend so i had to remind him to not over do it. Also, do u also orgasm [emoji12]after BD? No tmi here right [emoji51][emoji51]I made sure that I did and laid there on my back for atleast 40 min before going to the bathroom. I m
Sure u know all this already but just wanted to share. I m excited for the new cycle and will be cheering you on.
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Lol when I got my attempt into tonight.. my husband was like it's not Tuesday. I don't know about him though lol he knows when my period is about to start and everything. He will be like she has a week before that or whatever.. lol keeps track of all of it. Lol he gave in tonight though, he's always ready.
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Mommy2apples- That's so sweet. Your dh sounds so wonderful and aware. [emoji1303]Lol [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]@keeping track of all of it. Yay for the pm
attempt. I once wrote here that the fun part of being in this group is telling ladies in different parts of world that I m just going to have sex with dh and them cheering me on. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
Pbn even did a cheerleading routine for me [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23].
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Lol! PBN cracks me up!
Lol yea, the person he told was my mom! My mom was like I can't believe he keeps track of that. Lol back then we weren't trying yet, so I was like he keeps track so he knows I'm not knocked up. He is funny though. Keeps it interesting.
Lol it is fun being able to blast it here! Lol no one else wants to hear it! Haha!!
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Sky- oh I might have mistyped – I didn’t and won’t tell hubs of BD pattern at all! (hence the early comment yesterday about just playing the kinky all month wife without telling him “when it’s go time” lol) … All I said to him was, ‘didn’t work this time, guess we just to have more sex wink wink’ :rofl:
I don’t always get the big O alas – it’s hard for me, I tend to overthink everything and not relax enough lol
As I type this, I have a calendar printed out in front of me – with the assumption AF will start tomorrow (Wed) – and crossed the days we need to BD for our eod befor epos opk haha so I can keep track :P (control freak much?!)
Mommy – how cute hubs is keeping tabs on everything – so involved! ;) I wish my hubby had your Dh’s stamina lol
Lol lmsm! He says might as well, because once I am pregnant I won't let him touch me until our ultrasound to make sure baby is okay!
Lmsm: maybe we will be due date buddies! That would be awesome!!
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Mommy-I totally know what you mean! I won't let DH near me until the 1st U/S too!! If I see spotting or anything I will freak!!
I feel ya Lola! Me too! Prayers that the spotting stays away for the both of us!
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I like that your hubby is planning for you to be pregnant this cycle – he seems so positive! ;)
lola - aren't we all the same?! lol
Me too lmsm! Thanks! :)
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Oh and PBN if you're around - since I know you are doing the NIPT – could I ask you a couple of questions since you are in QLD too?
I already asked the ultrasound place where we usually do our ob u/s as they do offer nipt – and they usually recommend coming in at 10 weeks do an ultrasound to confirm viability and then they draw the bloods at the office – then you come back for the nuchal a few weeks later. But to avoid having to pay a looot of money for a quick scan at 10weeks (they are probs the most exxy u/s place in Brisbane but are fantastic!) I said that I would do a scan with my fertility specialist around 8 weeks to confirm viability anyways…so, I was thinking come in just to do the bloods at 10 weeks – then come back around 12.5w to get results (including of the Pappa bloods) and the nuchal scan, and discuss the combined results..
Sounds like it could be done that way? How did you do it? I know you see an ob so may make it all a bit different but thought I’d ask (this is part of me being positive it will happen soon and planning that way! Lol)
Ta!
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Hi LMSM! That sounds fine to me. I wouldn't have a viability scan at 10 weeks either seeing as youll have a dating scan done at 8 weeks. If they insist on the scan with the blood draw, I'd go elsewhere to get just the bloods done as it costs enough for it let alone paying for another scan on top of it. I'm having nipt bloods done through Qml (I'll be 10w5d I think?) and have booked a nuchal scan for 11w6d. I'm only getting the basic nipt done ($395) which is processed in Australia, if you go down the road of gen plus ($550) the sample is sent overseas and takes longer for results. I wonder if your going to the ultrasound place my ob sent me (apparently one of the best) to last year in Brisbane (to confirm loss) as I had to go to a family reunion and had family flying in from Melbourne and Adelaide so had to have my miscarriage at my mums during the reunion. That was fun I tell ya, not!!! Especially because it didn't go straightforward but anyway..... past is past and I digress badly from the topic at hand 😂
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Thanks hon – the cost is $420 (just checked – it’s gone up from last time I checked which I am sure was just under 400) I think ;)Quote:
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So-gi is the name of the place ..the lady said it was fine to have the fert spec u/s to confirm viability – and could just do my bloods with them. But since I would want results before my nuchal scan if possible, will def book for 10 weeks to come and get bloods done there then come back some weeks later for the actual scan etc. I work in the city so it’s not too bad a commute to get there ^^
I’m sorry about your miscarriage and how it went on :( that would have been terrible – I’ve only ever gone through one and I can honestly say it scarred me for life, I was a zombie for months….
LMSM - I am the same when ttc. There was so much on my mind that getting O was impossible as I was busy thinking about charting, BD timing and what not. Tmi alert - I finished the Job myself [emoji51][emoji51][emoji849] that's y I say we ladies get the job done.[emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] I read how helpful it was to O for blue sway and I didn't want dh to do it because I didn't want to lose swimmers [emoji52][emoji52] so Sky to the rescue. [emoji12][emoji12] I know I did O all 3 times we BD the month I conceived.
Pls do it. [emoji1317] I am not sure if it's helped with the sway but I know it helped over all. Sorry about tmi again.
Mommy2apples, Lolla - I can so relate to the no SeX until u/s. I always get dry down there when pregnant and we don't have a lube at home right now. I m
also not interested in having sex before my first appointment so
I m not even buying it myself. I told dh in the beginning that it hurts like hell and he agreed to stay away. But he wanted to do it a few days back so we gave it a go with the condom and it was ok so I was fine. Last night he initiated again and I feel bad saying
no so I went with it the same way but it burnt so so bad and I just ran to the bathroom and spent two hours there. Saw a tiniest spot on the tissue and I freaked out and told him. He got scared too. I told him that it's not happening again and not to even ask
because I feel bad saying no. He is so
scared of me now. [emoji12][emoji12][emoji12][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] and said I won't touch you until your appointment. [emoji4][emoji4][emoji4]
I just had two slices of pizza and 2 small pieces of the cake I made yesterday. I spent two hours cooking
N cleaning and was so hungry [emoji849][emoji849] Now I m feeling bad. What is wrong
With me. [emoji52][emoji52][emoji52]Going for a walk now. I m an idiot. I tried to
Stop but the bloody cake is so
So so delicious. [emoji853][emoji853][emoji853]
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That one (my 2nd) was definately the worst and the circumstances that went along with it is what really messed with my head, I won't rehash all the shitty details but it really knocked me around mentally, like I've never been before and I had quite the crappy childhood. By the 3rd loss I kinda was like ok that's that and came through it just fine :) I think a deep and strong resilience can stem from overcoming trauma and can be very empowering. Not sure if any of that makes sense but it does to me. I may be a little cray cray though 😂😂😂
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This is the place I went to :) They were wonderful and ended seeing an ob in the same building at very short notice.
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Pbn - I m so sorry about all that you had to go through. A big giant hug to u my friend. U r such a loving and strong person and u came out of everything even stronger and more compassionate. I think u know but I just want to say this out loud that you do realize that each day u help each one of us to get one step closer to our biggest happiness. That's a lot. And I m so thankful for you. We are all praying for you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Thank you sky I'm just as thankful to you ladies ❤❤❤❤
And now that you mention pizza I kinda feel like some but without meat lol
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Hugs PBN! So sorry for your loss of your baby! [emoji17] and the way you had to experience it last year! Your heart is so big and full of love! You don't even deserve one bit of all you've been through. It's made you so strong and you are such an inspiration to everyone you come in contact with!
Sky that does get scary! Your baby is perfect though! Fingers crossed for you a baby boy! You can have my blue dust!! Don't beat yourself up over cake! Yum!
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PBN – no that totally makes sense – I think events like this rock us to the core, and I never thought I would be so moved by it – but I was, & so shaken with grief I could barely function - my husband had to shake me out of it reminding me I had a small baby that needed her mummy, and omg that was the biggest wake up call to tell me I had been missing out on her, that she was there and I was “not” – I still cry at times now, 3 years on –it’s part of your history, and the precious bundle you carry now will help you close that chapter and open one of only happiness – one that allows you to see that yes you can carry a beautiful baby to term, like you have before – miscarriage shakes that belief in oneself, I know I hated myself my body for not being able to keep my own baby safe – having DD2 partially healed that…it’s still a long journey I think.
To have overcome what you have, to be as generous as you are every day with all around you – including us, perfect stranger – like Sky said, that is huge.
* Big hugs*
Sky – had to laugh :rofl: TMI but eh who cares! I will try to aim for O at attempt time for sure – anything for blue! :D
Maybe third time lucky will be true here too ;)
I hear ya, not worth risking anything with especially until you know for sure bub is well and truly implanted where it should – take care of yourself, sex can wait! ^^
And woman, if you’re hungry well just eat! You have a special mission to keep yourself nourished and if pizza and cake are what works for now, so be it! ;)
Thanks ladies ❤ its been healing for me to feel like I'm helping others here, plus I love sticking my nose in where I can 😂😂😂
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Pbn, I had no idea the losses you've suffered. I'm so sorry for all you've been through. I'm so glad to see that someone who has repeatedly gotten the short end of the stick can still come out so kind and caring, even when it seems the universe has cheated them. You're such an amazing person and I truly wish the world had more women like you. :heart: :heart: :heart:
Before I read the pages and caught up, I had gotten on here to tell you I'm so excited! I believe I just had implantation bleeding!? I know that sounds crazy, but I did have implantation bleeding with my first daughter. Pink spotting about a week to 10 days after cd14 (I never tracked o, but my cycle was 28 days regularly so I always assumed o was cd14). I never noticed it with dd2 or had anything like it ever before, nor did I ever have it after. But when I wiped it was most definitely pink spotting, 6.5dpo... Could this be it???
LMSM - You totally rock. ❤️u. I m so sorry for your loss. I read about your journey and my heart just broke. U are so strong and u have a gift. You write beautifully. I can't even imagine how hard it must have been for you and Pbn and many others who have been through a loss but u did come out of it with so much love for everyone. You make me laugh with your posts and I feel sad when u get upset. This journey may take sometime but u will get a bfp trust me. We are here for you. [emoji847][emoji847][emoji847]
And for tmi [emoji23][emoji23]. I told you. I read a lot about BD for blue and there was another site where some ladies wrote that they help themselves more than one time when dh is at work to keep the vajajay wet and stocked up with Ewcm that can help the swimmers reach their destination faster. It did make sense to me. I didn't do it since always had good Ewcm but I read a zillion posts about having O for blue. So made sure I did that. Didn't want to leave out anything from my end. Do that this cycle. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] and don't forget to update me. [emoji12][emoji12]
Thankyou for saying that. I tried to eat good since morning and crapped all
over it by the evening. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] I am
a big girl. Can't afford to eat a lot. [emoji52]
I told dh I am not going to have sex anymore. When I read today that a lot
of ladies do that, I felt stupid to have caused myself that pain. [emoji849][emoji849]He got the message though. [emoji41][emoji41]
Now let's be excited and catch that egg this cycle. Fx fx fx fx.
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Ttc blue - That's so exciting and from what I have heard here that could very well be the Implantation bleeding. Would wait for others to say something. But fx so hard for you and I am so excited. Is this your first ttc cycle? When r u planning to
POAS? 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞
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LMSM, I second everything sky said because I can't possible explain it better. My eyes teared up and my throat heavy as I read your response to Pbn. Hugs to you. You're little girl is so lucky to have you as her mommy.
Yes it's my first attempt, and I'm hoping to test at 9dpo :)Quote:
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Can't wait for you to start POAS. We will try our best to have u test early though [emoji52][emoji52] Bfp in first cycle is good for blue sway. 🤞🤞Quote:
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I want to take one right now but know it won't show :rofl:
Hahaha. Then I'm sure we can convince u to test early. Lol. :bluecheer:
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Ttcblue you're not crazy at all and I too would be super excited especially as you had implantation bleeding with your first dd!! Cannot wait for you to test!! Surely you start testing a day early at 8dpo now instead of making us hang out till 9dpo 😀😉 you would be better to wait though till 9dpo as there's a lot more chance if this is indeed an implantation bleed (and it sounds just like it!) that there would be enough hcg to register on a sensitive test. Remind me again what hpts your using??!! Darn, did I just talk myself out of talking you into testing 8dpo 😂😂
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And thank you for your beautiful message ttcblue ❤
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Pbn u crack me up
everytime . [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
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Im very tempted to do 8dpo, but I only have 4 tests.. So I will have to stick it out and aim for 9, 10, 11, 12dpo.. as 12dpo is when af is due (or not!?) :DQuote:
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I have clear blue pregnancy tests, the one that shows a + for positive.
(Sorry had to edit because I looked at my box of opks by mistake)
Do u have any cheap tests?
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No I only have the 4.. Would hate to buy another box just for 1 or 2 tests.. but if I'm not pregnant then I will have to anyway I guess. Ahhhhhh! I don't want to wait. I'm not a very patient person, my kids can vouch for me...
Ttcblue why not aim for 8, 9,10 and 12? That way you only have two more sleeps till test time 😀
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Speaking of testing at 8dpo.... Mummy2boys where are you!!!??? Did you test this morning? I distinctly recall you weren't opposed to starting early and you have plenty of tests 😂😂
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