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well i do have some frer hopefully getting delivered tomorrow but i didnt want to waste them iykwim was just going to go to the poundshop or home bargains and buy the cheap ones from there and see what happens. or do you think i should just test with the frer?
Hmmm not sure. Tbh my ic cheapies didn't pick up my convincing bfp til the same day clearblue digi. There was a very very faint line the day before but I really though it was an evap as it appeared hours later when the stick dried out. Certainly won't be putting myself through that torture again!
Petal 11.11.11 would be an amazing Birthday! I think he's holding out for that ;)
LMW- Glad i'm not the only one. I always used to have areally light AF before my pregnancies but awful, awful cramping and pains. Now I have no pains but it's heavier. Much better this way though! GL for a BFP this month! I'd use the ones being delivered tomorrow and if a BFN get some cheapies too. If you get a BFP you've saved yourself a trip and some money!
Deaks I think you should def still TTC this cycle if it turns out to be a MC. As it was early/chemical if you hadn't of tested and had seen AF you would have tried this cycle as normal IYSWIM. But as others have said your really not out yet. So i've got everything crossed.
Think it's X factor on sky+ and me and DP are going to watch a film tonight and enjoy the last of the weekend.
enjoy your film lavender!! what are you going to watch!!
Deaks if you still get BFPs which are getting stronger then please ask your doc to do a blood test and repeat it over 24 hours. There is a tiny possibilty it may be etopic. I 99% think its not but I know someone in RL who had one and if so you want to save your tubes. I still hope its all going to be ok x Did you have trouble conceiving your boys? I have a short LP at 10-11 days and I did get pg. But getting a full test and maybe fert clinic if this a chem is going save some time and heartache. No one has to know your swaying. As you know mine and DH's tests came back bad and armed with that knowledge it was stop swaying or risk never having another baby. When you have the knowledge you can decide then. So sorry your going through this xxx
Thanks maybe, I will definately be asking for blood tests even if my bfps stay the same rather than get darker. I really need to make sure I look after my fertility. Any pain has really subsided today and I'm definately having a full flow so I'm hoping that the chemical is sorting itself out. I didn't have trouble conceiving my boys due to a short lp as before they were both born my lp was normal, this has happened since ds2 for some reason. I think it just took us a while because we were clueless with ds1 and dtd too early with ds2... Cutoff was the only thing I knew about swaying at the time and it didn't work for a few months so we dtd over ov.
I'm so glad to have you and the other ladies on here looking after me! X
Deaks, so so sorry to have missed all ur posts till now. Hoping ur bean is sticking and all is well, my friend had a her Af for the 1st mth after conception and was actually pg. Fx all is well, thinking of u. xx
Petal.....what a cool date!!
Just come on quickly before bed. Sorry guys, haven't read through all the pages of stuff, just a couple of posts. Having a horrible time with morning sickness. Deaks - hope all goes well with the docs tomorrow. Thinking of you and hoping all is well xxxx
Thanks girls! Know this sounds ridiculous but am actually relieved this morning that the ic cheapy has gone incredibly faint.... I have been loosing so much blood and was in so much pain until yesterday morning that I think even if the bean had tried its hardest to stick that problems could have been caused. I really just want to move on now and get things sorted at the doctors.
Hope you are all well, I'm dying to be suffering from morning sickness... Though know I won't be saying that at the time! X
HUGE HUGE hugs deaks x I hope you get some answers from the doctors today x x
Littlemiss - good luck testing x
Spotted slightly yesterday - i mean i only noticed as i am a 'toilet paper looker' when pregnant slight brown spotting. I hate this stage I spotted with my MC ds2 and ds3 but obviously it is worrying trying to tell myself its quite 'normal' for me but still scared. Trying to take it easy however got work today and tomorrow. I worked yesterday and obviously my job is on my feet the whole time we had a queue to the door for most of my shift so lots of rushing around making mountains of drinks....FX i can rest this morning although we have no food so need to get some food shopping :(
Deaks I'm sorry hun, hope the doctors can offer some help! X
Charlie I hope the spotting is nothing to worry about, try and rest, maybe speak to someone at work about needing a break every now and then? Unless you dont them to know your pg of course!
I think I ov last week but for some reason the month I really need to feel the cramps they don't happen!! Grr this coming month I'm going to try and buy our bits for the sway and will be following the diet as best I can, hoping to sway properly in jan, should just about squeeze three cycles in before lol!
My eyes are rediculous! My eye lids are just big scabs :( and under one eye as well, I can't open one I look silly! And dp wants me to go into town to the bank, I'm really not impressed! May have to see if my friend will do it for me!
Kell, shame about the makeup scabs... could you wear your sunglasses to town?!
charlie, sure the spotting is ok, good that its brown i would think. Try and relax a little, could you do an online shop...might be able to get to you today?
Got docs at 10.20 and ds1 is at nursery and ds2 is going to my friends so going to try and ask lots of questions.
oh kell that sounds awful you might need to see a doctor it could get infected x hugs hun sounds bad :(
going to go to aldi so very small shop get us through then order online for next week!!
I went to the emergency doctors yesterday, I've got some stuff and there's no infection which is good, I've just got to wait this out tho, need to wait for it to heel properly. The urge to pick the scabs is so strong lol!
Certainly won't be using that makeup again! Means I get to go buy some more tho :)
glad its not infected hun x
Deaks - hope the doctors goes as well as it can hun hope you get answers x i am toying with the idea of getting an appointment...dont know if its worth it
deaks - hope everything at the doctors goes great today and he/she puts your mind at rest
Charlie - Try not to worry to much about the spotting, like you said its quite normal for it to happen as it has with your previous pregnancies.
Kell - Glad to hear that you arnt going to use the make up anymore. Just out of curiosity what brand is it?
Well my frer tests didnt come in time for FMU so wont be testing today. Will do it tomorrow. Going out later to buy some Cheapies i think.
If its really playing on your mind then its best to be safe than sorry isnt it.Quote:
Originally Posted by charlieispy
yeah definitely get an appointment charlie if its playing on your mind.
Littlemiss it's Ysl touché éclat so expensive stuff! I use to use it a few years back but changed to benefit stuff, we got it at gatwick. I'm wondering if they've changed the ingredients possibly. I will make a complaint I'm just not sure what to say lol!
yes i would definately make a complaint Kell, You should take pictures of the scabbing and make a formal complaint. Basically tell them it isnt the first time you have used the product as you have used it in the past etc etc. They will most likely want you to send the product in so they can examine it aswell. You poor sod!!! Just hope it doesnt leave any serious marks..
So saw a lovely doctor this morning who basically agrees that i should use the progesterone again as i did before. Going to have blood tests done at the hospital this afternoon just to check there isn't anything else going on. She also said to monitor the bleeding and take another pg test tomorrow just to double check its now negative. Glad to have got things rolling but still feel so unbelievably sad that this could have been prevented :(
Does anybody else want to be added to the secret santa????
ahh glad everything went well at the doctors deaks. must be a weight off your shoulders. Will you be getting your results of the blood tests today or sometime through the week. did the dr mention anything about not ttc straight away?
Deaks, so sorry to hear ur news, but make sure u get good care and attention this afternoon!!
Charlie, sure things will be fine. I spotted at 7wks for 2 mornings in a row when I woke up, then it passed. But get it checked out if ur worried and take it easy, even take a couple of days off work? ur bean is too impt!! x
Kell you poor thing! I use Touche eclat al the time and never had a problem, but I'm guesssing mine would be a different formula as I have dark skin. I hope it heals quickly! I think the sunglasses Idea is a good one!
Littlemiss I just popped in to see if you had any news! But I'll have to wait till tomorrow! BIG FX for BFP x
Charlie I hope it isn't playing on your mind too much.
Deaks hope it all went well at the Drs.
The boys had their first dentist appointment this morning and all was good which was good to hear especially as ds2 HATES having his teeth brushed.
I've also ordered the last bits for ds1's Party on Sunday. I've got those flashing l.e.d lights that you pop into balloons and they flash, some bunting for the garden and stripey sweet bags for party bags all form ebay! Now some more painting of the playhouse! It's so cold though! brrr.
P.s the film was easy A and wasn't great at all. I get films sent through from lovefilm and they always tend to be a bit hit or miss as I struggle to find enough films that I really want to watch!
Gosh ladies, been off line since Friday, missed so much.
Deaks- huge hugs (((()))) so so sorry you had to go through that. such an emotional time and so sad. Wish it could have worked out differently. I know that heartbreak well. Vent here as much as you need to, we're here for you hun :HH: Glad you had a good, understanding doc.
charlie- really praying all is well with your little button bean, I'm sure it will be but I know that nervousness of the early weeks and that awful feeling of seeing a bit of blood. Hang in there hun and take it easy.
That's just what I was going to ask!Quote:
Originally Posted by littlemisswilko
Deaks- try not to blame yourself, these things just happen. I had 2 m/c and I don't have a progesterone issue so although you should def go on it next time, it still could have happened even on it iykwim. some little beans just don't develop right and are just not meant to be. It is a tough time but you WILL get your beautiful baby.
is that when you had your early scan inglewood??Quote:
Originally Posted by Inglewood
Sorry to dissapoint! :) bloody post didnt come in time and couldnt hold it any longerQuote:
Originally Posted by Lavenderlime
How are you doing LMW? any symptoms, when are you going to test? FX FX
im doing great thank indigo, ive been getting a few symptoms, but i think you over analyse everything whilst in the 2ww. been getting twinges now and again and my breast's are tender just under my armpitt. also today ive suffered a little bit of heartburn/indegestion which i never get. Ive only ever had it when ive been heavily pregnant. im going to be testing tomorrow with FMU i will be 10dpo then. Do you think i should get a good reading at 10dpo with a frer?Quote:
Originally Posted by indigoviolet
Deaks you got a bfp at 10dpo didnt you?
Hi ladies i'm back home but i've been missing so long now i have no idea what's been going on on here.. could someone please give me an update? *embarrassed* what's the secret santa i've read about?
deaks i'm so sorry to hear your news! :( ((HUGS))
Charlie ~ i had bleeding on 2 seperate occasions with ds1 early in pregnancy so i know how worrying it is! sending big hugs your way!
littlemisswilko ~ good luck testing tomorrow! :D
welcome back sunset, weve missed you!!! Indigo came up with the idea of doing a secret santa this year for the smog wannabes as she had done it previously one year on IG. Weve all agreed that indigo will pick the secret santas and the recievers closer to xmas (thinking 1st Dec) and were adding to the roll call who's wanting to be involved and clues for things they like. Weve also agreed that each person has an amount of £10 to spend on the gift excluding postage costs. think thats about it.
eek i want to be added! that sounds like so much fun! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by littlemisswilko
OMG is anybody watching Deal or no Deal!!! i Went to school with that lad. 'Sam Finley' LOL!!!!
Oh I will try the secret Santa but I warn you - I'm not to arty!
Feel like poop today. TOo much work and overtime. In bed for a bit as can't stay awake!zzzzzzzz
we agreed that some people may not be artistic and wouldnt have a clue what to make so if this is the case then buy what ever you want. ill add your names to the roll call, just need some clues of what type of things you like. if you have a look theres a couple of ideas there already
are we supposed to make something :S i haven't read about the secret santa so i don't know what we're supposed to get?
you can if you want to but if you dont think your cracked up for the job then it can be bought from anywhere. IYKWIM.
I dont think i could think of something good enough to make and send someone without feeling embarressed lol.