Aww sorry :luck::luck::luck::luck::luck:March is a better month to ttc a:babygirl:anyways:)
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Aww sorry :luck::luck::luck::luck::luck:March is a better month to ttc a:babygirl:anyways:)
Hi ILindGurl, I'm here, but I am not ready to make an attempt until my next cycle (trying to be good on the diet).... but I really wish I was in the game! Praying you get a BFP soon!Quote:
Originally Posted by ILindGurl
Congratulations isobellanext! I will def. look into the maca root.
sweetsister - sorry you didn't get your BFP this time, but March is the perfect month to ttc :XX:
KraisyDaisy - March is going to be a great month for us, I just know it :)
Yuzu and Flava - good to see you here! I am fairly new, but I'm addicted to this site! I love it here :HH:
Flava... you can have all my blue dust!!!
Anyone hear from Lemon2012 lately?
:luck: Good luck to all my 35+ buddies!! March is going to be good to us, I can feel it!
HI mygirl thnxs Yeah i just realized it was march and it was a good girl month,actually i started ttc a girl last summer so this might work out well:)
Ive been thinking of Lemon too i havent heard from her in ages?Lemon where r u:laundrypole:
I've been wondering how lemon's doing too. Maybe she's taking a break to focus on getting that BFP.
Lemon is having a break from the forums- you know how it is. She has been crazy busy and is going on a holiday to Florida very soon. She has an ultrasound booked soon to check everything ok as gets some awful O pains and swelling.
I have jumped in here occasionally but tend to be a bit slack at times. In April I will be 35, so then I will definitely be here more! I don't have to be 36 to play do I? lol.
I already have a December baby (DS2), so would much prefer to get pg in April and have a Jan baby. However, I am not willing to waste a month TTC, so will just see if it is meant to be.
I remember you Flava. And everyone else. Hoping we don't get tortured any longer by BFNs and everyone has some good news very soon.
What is wrong with awful O pains? Just asking because I had very bad O pains this month and my temp is not going up much so FF wont give me a O day. Never had temps like this before so I don't know what to think. I was sure I O'd but now...?sad
are you on Clomid Flava?
Hi all....I'm joining in...just turned 39 :( trying for baby #3, hoping for a girl after a year of HT hell.
Now- swaying and praying
Good luck to everyone!
Im not on clomid.
mydream-hope you get your girl soon! welcome here!
Hi all,
I am 35 years and swaying for a girl after a failed High Tech attempt. Since my husband has very low sperm count, this is not going to be easy. I just ovulated a few days ago, and I am currently in the second half wait.
My dream: nice to see you! I hope you are ok.
Welcome mydream, PeonyPrincess and Chessika!
Right after my DS #3 was born, I tried so hard to convince DH to go high-tech for a girl. Back then Microsort was easy to get and I was young enough... we only live about a 2hr. drive from the California office! No amount of begging and cajoling would convince DH. So I tried for YEARS to give up my dream of a DD. I tried to be happy as a mom of boys. But I realized that I had to try again, because that desire never goes away. Here I am at 40 giving it one more shot with a sway.
I think Mar-May is the best time to sway girl, and I expect to see lots of BFPs in this thread soon! :luck:
Thanks Flava-- sending you ALL my blue dust!!!
She's just busy with work and having a hard time keeping up with the threads. That's all!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Mochagirl
Flava, I had 4 days of bad O pains this month and only O on CD18, way later than normal. The pain went away after I O, but I wondered if maybe I had a cyst or something? Not really sure. I was beginning to think I was going to have a month where I got pains and my body geared up to O but then didn't, but eventually my temp spiked. It is supposed to be quite normal for women to have an occasional month with no O.Quote:
Originally Posted by Flava
peony-my temp is higher too today so I hope I did O'd. It was just different this month .I always feel pain on the left side and now it was on the right side what hurt so much and kinda all around me like a ring my lower back hurt so much to mostly on the right.
I just wait and see.
Chessika- great to see you here too. I'm doing ok...swaying and praying at this point..
sending you so much luck!!!
Chessika -welcome! Hope you get your girl soon too!!
Cd14 and impatiently waiting on my O to get here!!!
Thank you all for the warm welcome! I am 5dpo and have very mixed feelings. On the one hand I would love to give my son a sibling, because he is already 4 years old. But on the other hand I am already scared of having GD again. I donīt feel my sway has been good. And after trying with HT this is all a big gamble for me. Would be testing 9dpo too soon?
Welcome Chessika! I am a :poas: and started at 8DPO last cycle and it just made me a basket case, so you would think I would be leaning more towards testing later, but no, I will probably torture myself again this cycle. I would use some very good tests like FRER and not the internet cheapies if I were testing at 9DPO. Many blessings to you and your little pink dream.:ballerina:Quote:
Originally Posted by Chessika
Chessika -
I know how you are feeling..the mixed emotions...
I am pulling for you !
WARNING TMI....
Okay ladies, how much does blood affect your PH? Last month somehow I got an "owie" or hurt myself down there while DTD and had some blood show up. Thought maybe it was O spotting, but I beleive it was Atomic who set me straight that I probably got an "owie" instead. Well last night we did not DTD till this AM and well after there was some blood? He is not rough so I really don't know how it happened. Will this wreck my chances cause the PH will be out of girly range? Can you bleed or spot and have any chances of getting preggers? In despiration, I had him give me a sample in a cup and insert it after I cleaned myself up a bit so maybe that sample might have a chance in there?? I know the cup gives me more chances of a boy, but at this point if I cannot get pregnant, there is no chance of a girl either.
KD- for sure you have a chance for a girl! Ph don't really matter I don't think there is really girly or boyish pH .And why would a cup use have more chance for a boy? Just because it's hold the sperms inside? I think it gives more chance for a bfp not for a boy.
Well I have read that you need to lower sperm count and that is supposed to give more girls a chance, so the cup would pool them all together making more boys heading for the egg. But I think my DH swimmers are low so I am doing whatever I can to just get pregnant at this point.Quote:
Originally Posted by Flava
I got pregnant with my last two boys with cups, thinking they swayed girl, but only the Diva's are supposed to, but with my retro-flexed or tilted uterus, my cervix just does not seem to fit well with the Diva and only the Instead Soft Cups work for me. I just think this is my time to have a girl so I am trying anything right now.
Well if it makes you feel better I did MSU with IC on Ig for a boy and got a girl! So cup don't matter lol
Flava, you just know how to make a girl feel better about her sway LOL!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Flava
Hi Everyone,
Glad to find this thread for over 35 swayers, thanks for starting this. I would like to join this group. I am 36 and will be 37 in July. I am TTC boy and have been wishing for a boy since 2007. There were lot of family and other issues in the past but this year i am all set to do my attempt. Rest is in god's hands ...i'm going to chase him to grant me my wish.
We actually did our attempt today and i am freaking about the timing. I posted my question in a separate thread and then saw this one. So, i am postig it here too...plz share your opinions.
Yesterday night around 12 PM, i got smiley face and so, as planned decided to do my attempt right then and there. Everything was going perfect but just before my hubby could finish, my daughter started crying...we tried to hurry...but he could not concentrate and i had to go. I spent almost 45 mins to put her back to sleep and after that my hubby could not perform
I then decided to just skip this month n we just went to sleep. However, in the morning i just couldn't handle missing/skipping another month and so decided to give it another try. Long story short, we BD'd around 12:30 PM today...almost 12-13 hrs after first Smiley face. Earlier my plan was to BD ASAP once i get smiley. I'm not sure when do i ovulate after +OPK. Though my LH surge went negative around 3 PM. Was i too late??
Also, what about the swimmers from last night...which he could not release....is that good or bad for TTC boy?? I had 2 big O last night but only one okay one today...and overall, we were not happy with everything ...so it was not as hot as we had thought.
I'm really freaking out thinking that i must be in the GIRL zone O time wise?? Plz share your honest opinions.
Welcome Son4meplz- I don't really have an answer to your ? but I know that someone will chime in and help to alleviate your worries. Good Luck and I am sending you tons and tons of Blue Dust! I know that when I conceived both my boys I dtd alot...at the first sign of ovulation- all the way through, but truly I am not sure timing matters
Hi ,and welcome:)Quote:
Originally Posted by Son4meplz
well in my own experience and many others i have talked with i have conceived 2 boys with complete opposite/different timing frequency seasons moon signs ect!!The only constant was diet ive always eaten boy friendly and with both i was gaining weight,catch my drift....So if you are on the boy diet? i wouldnt worry about timing,my thinking is it is more a lifestyle.
In the 2WW. Going for my progesterone level test tomorrow -- I hope it shows that I'm ovulating and no hormone issues...I'm so nervous...and conflicted. On the one hand I hope there are no hormonal issues, but on the other hand hoping they do discover something to explain why we aren't getting BFP. Meanwhile 2 more people on facebook announced their pregnancies this week. Makes me sad....I don't have much more time to try (maybe 3 mos or so). I'm starting to think that No 3...just isn't meant to be....and I'm not even swaying at all anymore! ARGH.
This place has been pretty quiet....how is everybody else doing??
I am now on my second attempt and swaying !!! Due to Ovulate in about 3-4 days...I hope this is it. I just turned 39! :(
Hang in there ILindGurl...it will happen!!!!
I am 1dpo on my first month attempting.
Ilundgirl, how is everything going? Hope to hear from you soon!
Good luck to all the mature mamas!
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In the 2ww now - about 5dpo and have some sore boobs...hmmmm...hard to know ..preg or PMS...
I hate that the symptoms are the same....ugh
Mygirl-- when will you POAS? Good LUCK!!!
the TWW is just pure hell I think....4DPO here and losing my mind....
Great! We are 2ww buddies! Wishing you soooo much luck!Quote:
Originally Posted by KraizyDaizy
Mydream I am glad to have a TWW buddy to share all my roller coaster emotions about testing. Should I test early, should I wait? I don't know, but I have only one FRER left and a bunch of digitals, so I am thinking I am waiting LOL
What about you?
Kraizy-I have 2 FRER's left !! I think I'm gonna test Thursday..... By then I should be 10 dpo.
I am still just not sure when to test. Have you felt any implantation pains or twinges? I keep on thinking I should feel something?
Good luck in the 2ww!