September 2013 babies!!

Fish hoping and praying for good news for you and your little girl xx

Fish, I agree with the others. It's likely an old toxo exposure so not a current risk at all.

Northern, I'm sorry about your ongoing terrible news. Did you get any guesses as to aetiology (infection vs genetic abnormality)?

Thank you guys for all your support i really appericate it walking the line of not getting hopes up and not giving up

Share some news of lill ones help distract me while I wait ;-)

In car conversation with DS 2 (nearly two) this morning on way to Nannie's house who looks after him while I work

Noah: Naoh have breakfast at Nannies house
Me: yes darling what do you think she'll give you?
Noah: Most excited voice! Chocolate egg!
Me: (thinking possiable but hope not) really or ceral?
Noah: Sad voice; yes ceral

the downside of free, loving, family childcare! he got ice cream for tea LOL!

Awww that's so cute lol

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Originally Posted by Mum to three girls

Fish, I agree with the others. It's likely an old toxo exposure so not a current risk at all.

Northern, I'm sorry about your ongoing terrible news. Did you get any guesses as to aetiology (infection vs genetic abnormality)?

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The dr is quite sure its genetic. he was very good and listened to my reasoning about an infection, and then had me back on the bed to test something to do with anaemia which he said would give an indication at least for the parvo virus, and the results gave him the impression it wasn't. They said they'd test all the viruses though too.

Northern, the pills are likely something to induce. If you are inducing and going to the hospital, she will be born alive. You probably need to speak with someone to understand what is going to happen. Are you checking into the hospital at some point?

Northern glad he was so through and listened to you, have you decided against the amnio or are you waiting for results?

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Originally Posted by Mum to three girls

Fish, I agree with the others. It's likely an old toxo exposure so not a current risk at all.

Northern, I'm sorry about your ongoing terrible news. Did you get any guesses as to aetiology (infection vs genetic abnormality)?

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Thanks hun don't like to get my hopes up plus it would fit with the death of twin 2 if it was current ;-(

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Originally Posted by fish2012

Northern glad he was so through and listened to you, have you decided against the amnio or are you waiting for results?

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We are having the amnio just before they induce me.

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Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink

Northern, the pills are likely something to induce. If you are inducing and going to the hospital, she will be born alive. You probably need to speak with someone to understand what is going to happen. Are you checking into the hospital at some point?

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We have be told this and are very scared but there is no other option.