Due in June/July/August 2016

Violet I am so sorry. Prayers for your whole family's healing. What a difficult time.


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

I am extremely sorry Violet. I hope you and your Dh's family find a lot of strength during this difficult time. My prayers are with you all ♡

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Sorry to hear violet, hoping you and the family will be ok xx glad your feeling bub move 😊

Ds4's 1st bday party was great. He was a very tired little boy but stayed awake most of the day and devoured a cupcake 😀😁

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I think my 2 little ones may have chicken pox though. At first I thought it was mosquito bites but they are actually little fluid filled pimples. The thing is they had them last week and seem like they just got another batch this week but theres not very many on there body you could practically count them. They haven't really been unwell or with fever and ds4 is teething atm too. (both are up to date with immunisations). I haven't got any myself but ive done abit of reading and it doesn't seem too much of a concern atm. I am going to take them to the drs tmro just so they can have a check up.

Mum to 5 special princes

Yogi&Booboo

Handsome prince!! Happy birthday yo your cutie pie. I hope your babies feel better soon ♡

Lol forgot to log back in and it logged me in under my first created account[emoji14]
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Alright gals, how many of you have started your nurseries yet? I am too lazy to even think of a theme since im sleepy 98% of my day but i want to get on it sooner than later.

On another note, I had a past three days full of surprises. My dh's gay cousin announced she was expecting with her 3rd son and she was acting like a child seeking attention. She wanted to be the star of the shower and kept being snotty to many family members. She even said that since she can't conceive a girl, she is going to pray one turns out gay so she can get her nails done with him. My jaw dropped when my MIL told me the gossip. Not agains peoples sexuality but that is something that would not come out of my mouth if I had recently had a miscarriage and experiencng many complications with her pregnancy this time around. Her oldest is 17 and she is 40 years old. Her brothers wife's baby shower was yesterday (which is when I saw her gay cousin) and her water broke in the morning so she missed out on her shower. She finally delivered today. It was too much to take in but me and thr dh stayed on the low and said the least since we know his whole family is weird and nosy.

I also wanted to know how many are you gals ok with people rubbing your belly. I cant stand anyone other than my kids or dh touch me. I feel weird but I really hate it :/

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@Fiya DH and I have spoken about HT since having the scan and have decided that most likely it is not for us. I would go with it if we could get the finances together quickly enough but DH really feels negatively about it and I don't want to force his hand, even though I know I could. I think pushing him into something he doesn't want would be the beginning of the end of our marriage and despite my desire for a daughter risking our family's future happiness isn't worth it :)
The pity face isn't just my mom, its the face I know a lot of people will make when we eventually tell them we are having a third boy. I got it a LOT on DS2. We were so happy coming back from the anatomy scan and couldn't wait to tell people and then 24 hours later when we had told most family and friends I was regretting the decision to say anything cause they said/did things that really took the shine off my happiness. I can only imagine how they will react to another boy. My SIL had her third boy last year and she took it very bad, the comments she got (mostly from my inlaws) were very hurtful and I don't need them to be directed at me. So we will not be sharing our news for now, not until I am able to deal with their views on top of my own personal feelings x
Also your princess is looking so cute! Great that you got the potty shots you needed hun, delighted for you :)

@mammacass/mommymachine/luvmyfam - Thank you ladies!!! Those words really truly help! I truly feel there is something special about him already. I have seen quite a lot on here that the third son is very special and I really feel it in my heart this little man will go a long way towards healing me. Maybe thats what I need - a little boy to heal my GD for a girl. XX's words really resonate with me - that we get the child we NEED! I obviously need this little man! :)

@mily thank you hun, I hope you are doing ok. I've been thinking of you xxx

@violet I am so sorry to hear of your struggles at the moment! Sending healing thoughts xx

@netti your DS4 is ADORABLE!! Glad you had a good day! Hope your other boys are ok, chicken pox aren't nice from what I remember x

@yogi no nursery going on in this house at all this time :( We are looking at purchasing a new house so theres no point in making up one here. The room I used for the boys is fine and just needs a clear out, though I reckon by the time this little man arrives we will be getting close to moving. Your DHs gay cousin definitely sounds a bit strange!! Hoping a son turns out to be gay so she can get her nails done with him?!?! Weird!! I wish my boys happiness whoever they find that with be it male or female but I wouldn't say stupid stuff like that. Sounds like she likes saying stuff for shock value! On the topic of people touching my bump - nope. I don't allow it. I don't mind if someone asks and gives me the option to say I'm uncomfortable with them mauling my belly but if they just presume they can touch me I get really angry. I might invite someone to have a feel if baby is kicking enough for them to feel but only if its someone I am super comfortable with.

Thank you so much ladies for your support on this entire journey, I know I surely drove more than one of you mental over the past while with my obsessing and especially nubsessing lol so thank you for putting up with me xxxxxx

I am actually more than ok with our third little man, I feel so much more at peace than I ever thought I would. I am SO impatient to have him be here in my arms but at the same time I don't want to share him lol. I feel so bonded with him already - definitely helped by the fact that he is moving so much the last couple of days as if to say "I'm excited you know its ME mama!" Also DH and DS1 got to feel him move for the first time yesterday. I'm so happy the placenta has moved out of the way, he's definitely all boy with this crazy activity going on lol.

We will revisit a fourth child, possibly through swaying next year. I will be turning 34 the week this little dude is due so I wouldn't want to wait too much longer especially with the history of Downs Syndrome in my DHs family, if we could get pregnant before my 35th birthday it would be ideal, thats IF we decide to go for a 4th.
I have an unfilled prescription for 6 months of Clomid 50mg and I think if I dropped couch potato and did the cardio it would make my sway stronger. I also think I would need to be on the diet less time, 30 weeks was too long and I wavered/cheated way too much at the end. I was much stronger in the first 10 weeks, even the first 20 lol. I need to look into it more to see what would be the odds of successfully swaying for a girl as a 4th child with these tactics. Anything I read online before now has said the odds of having a girl after 3 boys is close to 60/40 in favour of a fourth boy...not the best odds!
DH also made a valid point yesterday. He said that we were actively trying for all 3 of our boys, maybe we just need to drop the trying and wait for an "accident" to happen. In a way I see where he's coming from. A lot of daughers that our friends/family have are as a result of a drunken night or a missed BC pill. I probably get so "Martha" when actively ttc that it undoes all my pink effort and sways blue lol. He did say that was the way we should have approached both a second and third pregnancy and I didn't listen to him either time so maybe its time to just give up and let go. I don't know if I even WANT to have a 4th child but its great to know the door is open IF we decide to use it! :)

Netti ... could not help but admire ur LO's picture.
I read ur post. U can aquire chicken pox during pregnancy leading to fetal varicella syndrome. Even if u have had chicken pox b4 it never hurts to talk to ur doctor. They can give post exposure prophylaxis

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Hopper i m so happy to hear that u r feeling ok n u r at peace wid ur little boy. Congrats on healthy baby


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