ME TOO!
Ugh BFN at 10 DPO! I need some encouragement girls! Am I out!?!?!?!?
I only got sore boobs with my 2nd pregnancy nothing with the last two.
Although tonight I am getting a horrible stabbing pain through my left breast :(
I'd def give it another few days at least :)
Thanks TTC. I feel like everyday I see a BFN, my chances go down! I saw on FF, they have a chart about BFP and on average they don't come until 12-13 dpo. But, I had not even a hint on my test today!
I know what you mean it's hard not to feel disheartened but stay positive xx
Do you feel anything/.
Don't lose hope Spicy!!! Do you remember how many DPO you were with DD when you got your BFP? A BFN on 10 DPO is by no means a final verdict.
TTC5, good heavens ... if willpower alone could make you pregnant you totally would be, LOL :-) Can't wait to see what the next few days hold for you and your POAS habit. Once you're actually pregnant whatever will you do, with nothing to pee on each day?!!?
I was at the earliest 12 dpo, but it could have been 14 dpo (had a wacky cycle and temps were confusing). But it was on a frer, and it was obviously positive so would have been positive probably at least the day before.
Come on Spicy, tell us something good!
Ttc5- more slime?! Agh I so want you to test!!
I think June is adorable....and it is in the same "theme" as your real name, Begonia (I remember from IG)! You could call her JuneBug or some precious little nickname like that. AWESOME with the timing, you will be just fine, and so glad you are feeling better also!
Thanks gals! You give me some hope, but I tend to be a realist. I poas and it was bfn. lol. I can prepare myself for another month, I have just had perfect cycles these last two months- lovely ewcm and everything!
Also, it took 2 months with DD, but we had dtd for 9 days straight- how were there any swimmers left?
Spicy, it is good, I think, for any of us to prepare for several tries, even if you got pg on a one hit wonder previously. Once you get to 5 or 6 months with bfns, then we will all start to tell you to go to the doctor and all! But it is perfectly normal for it to take a while, and with swaying...you know, it's not necessarily inhibiting pregnancy, but if you are doing too much bsf or ew or supps are making you not actually O or lord only knows what, it can take a while. BUT don't lose hope yet, you never know! I got my 1st bfp at 11dpo in Jan and then 10dpo in March, but when I was pg before, it wasn't until around 14dpo, and the line was so faint that I could barely tell. You never know! But don't lose hope, any of you! Take inspiration from Babydes who has ttc for over a year, she didn't give up and was proactive and figured out what she needed to do to make it happen! (PS, still so happy for you!!!).
TTC5, I always have tons of creamy cm when pg also......UH OH!!!! Methinks you may be pg also!
As for me, I am SO bummy, like emotionally, late last night and today. It's hormones of some sort, I can feel it. I sure hope it's not a pg thing! And my boobs are sore also, which they do get in the luteal phase sometimes anyway from my body making progesterone naturally, but still. Kinda freaking me out.
Cheekymoo, thank you!
Bec, i dont feel preg yet except i was tired at 5pm yesterday & had a nap so the tiredness must be starting to kick in. Thanks for asking
Begonia, glad you feeling better. I really hope your timing will be perfect
Spicy - I'm a realist too often giving up at 10dpo and mentally moving on to next month but remember you're not out till af arrives! I got a solid bfn at 10 days and a bfp at 11dpo last Aug fwiw
Lola - sorry you're down, don't worry you'll get there :)
Baby - come check in on Due in Feb http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...-February-2012
So I have have an app that lets me check in to the forums from my iPhone before even getting out of bed lol Well it didn't load all the posts so when I checked in this morning from my laptop my comments had posted but there was a ton of chit chat I never saw:mad:
Anyway, I'm off to bake today. I have a baby shower cake to deliver tomorrow so I've got lots of baking, filling, crumb coating, and accessories to make. No I'm not a pro it's just a hobby but I make everything from scratch so it takes a bit more time. I usually only make them for my kids but it's my bff's shower and she begged lol Dh took the day off and is letting dd#1 play hooky from school so they are spending the morning at the zoo so I can work in peace.
You ever so sweet! How many dpo are you? I remember being emotional last week & had a few cries so i hope that's not a sign for you well that's if you really dont want to be preg. How would you feel if you are? It could just be your body making progesterone like you say. I really hope you get the result you want
3PNB, enjoy your baking & hope you have fun at the baby shower! How are you feeling, i will join you the other thread
I'm only 3dpo! I'm not going to read too much into it, but IF I do happen to be pregs, I will just go with it and be happy, but will certainly be nervous that I'll lose it also. My midwife really drove into me the fact that I need to have 3 cycles go by before we tried again, so I would worry that I only had one go by, like last time, so my body wouldn't be ready. About gender, well....I will take anything at this point, but I would just hate that after a year of time and money, I didn't get to give my planned attempt a go, but an oops baby will be just fine. Honestly, though, I doubt I am, I think my body is reacting to progesterone or DHEA or something. It's hormonal, I can tell.
And of course, I am so happy for you! You really really deserve this baby, all of my FX that everything goes perfectly for you....it will!
Jen, what app is that?? Is it iPhone? How much fun baking fancy cakes, have a great morning!
Crashing- with my first I used FRER and did not get a + until 12 dpo(tested daily from 8dpo). I know when I ovulate(always have) and with my other 2 kids I had +'s on 9dpo and 11dpo. It just depends on when that little eggy implanted...He might be a very chill guy, taking his time :) Good Luck!! :luck:
Lola- it's Tapatalk for iPhone. It allows you to access a ton of forums, sadly not a free app but much better then using safari :) I love making cakes, I always go a bit overboard but it's so much fun, I'll post a pic when it's finished.
Hi Spicy....don't give up...GLLLL
are u seeing any CM splime...like TTC5.....i don't think i am having much....
Babydes did u have CM in 2ww?
Thanks, Jen....gonna get that one! On top 10 list of dreamjobs- CAKEBOSS. Not with those actual people, but having my own shop like that. I am good at baking, but suck at making said baked goods look pretty! But how fun to do that all day long and get to be so creative? (And eat cake??????)
Great attitude Lola, i doubt you preg though. Now that i'm preg i've just realised this baby will be born when it's bitterly cold , poor thing no outdoor parties etc..
Lola - I love doing it but not sure if I could do it day in and day out. Maybe if I had some flunkies to do some of the crap work lol
Baby - yes but think of the sledding parties! I do have to admit I'm a bit bummed about another winter baby but love having a few months of sweaters to hide the post baby chub.
Thanks Lola.
My cycles look great on paper, tbh. Our timing was ideal, but I agree, I will be concerned at 5 months too!
Love the hiding of post baby chub! I'm turning 40 next Aug so we either going to Ibiza/Thailand to celebrate. I have to get back into shape fast because i really dont want to look fat on my 40th, no thank you. I'm on one mission when this baby's born & that's to lose weight by Aug. I know i'm being selfish blah blah blah but hey i've done my bit to get to this stage so next year is my year
Oh fun to bake cakes, Jen! I loooove baking. Love it. But our rental has this teeny tiny kitchen so I'm not baking anything til we move to the new casa. With a marvelous large kitchen :-) Oddly it isn't the tiny kitchen that I find tough it is the tiny sink. I can't seem to wash a big mixing bowl in it. But if that's my biggest complaint in life I'm doing ok ;-)
Ah, post baby chub. We work so hard to get pregnant ... then we're nauseated and have heartburn and get fat. And lose sleep for months. It's a good thing babies are so darn cute :-) Babydes what fun destinations for your 40th!
I don't have a winter baby yet so if I do get pg this month that will work well in our bday line up. We have May (DD2), JUne (Me), and then DH and DD1 in November. A February would fit in nicely.
Lola I'm sorry you're down love, with all the supps and hormones and just the hard fact of TTC for almost a year, it's to be expected you'll have some rough ones. Can't wait to celebrate a BFP for you later this year though!