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Girls I'm running to get girls now from school and need quick advice. Opk looks positive, digi says negative. We BD last night what do I do??
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Nooooo pbn I need you!!!
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I'm here maxim 👐 and will still be on here at mums :) give me a sec to have a think and I'll post in a minute :)
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What time is it where you are? Nevermind its school pick up time der me
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It's 3:30 eastern time. DH comes home tonight 9pm... we BD but I laid all night and did not get up to J&D. Sorry tmi!
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Good thing I got my blond highlight this morning at salon! [emoji23]
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Ok so you bded and chances are your digi will say positive tonight. If you were only testing once a day your digi wouldn't be pos until tomorrow. So you are likely to either o tomorrow or Saturday. You have an attempt in last night so either you attempt again tonight or hold off until tomorrow night. Maxim if your more wanting to catch the egg than sway via attempts I'd bd tonight and tomorrow night giving you a SMEP type attempt scenario. Three attempts in a row.... Can you tell me where your at mind wise as in do you really want to stick to 'pink' attempts or are you willing to stray from that to increase odds of conception?
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I know, I'm really struggling here. I really want to get pregnant asap, but also really want pink. Of course healthy is #1, but ideally would love another DD. Goldilocks here... [emoji51]
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Just to break down the attempt thing a bit better. If you don't attempt tonight and hold off till tomorrow and you do tomorrow you'll then you'll have a 2-o and day of o attempts (remember day of o attempts are super unlikely to result in conception). If you don't o till Saturday then you'll have a 3-o and 1-o attempts. If you attempt tonight and o tomorrow you'll have 2-o and 1-o attempts or if you o Saturday it would be 3-o and 2-o. Hence the suggestion of 3 in a row which will cover all scenarios... can see you've just posted as I'm typing this 😂
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It really is a gamble because we don't know if you'll o tomorrow or Saturday 😣 what are you leaning towards? Were your other dd's from one attempt? Thinking you naturally already seem to sway pink naturally so an extra attempt may not be a big deal...
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Just had a look at last cycles chart and its possible you oed same day as pos digi. So if your digi is positive tonight then I think there's a good chance you'll o tomorrow. The problem is it'll be too late to add an another attempt on Saturday if you hold off waiting for a temp spike and then if you don't o till Saturday then you only have a 3-o attempt. Decisions decisions..... aaaarrgh!!! If you cant decide about the extra attempt then just stick to e3d as you've been doing :) I don't know if you remember Purple from here but she fell pregnant with 3-o and day of o attempts doing e3d after struggling to get pregnant and having mc's and just had her baby girl about a month ago so it's definitely possible!! I would love to see you attempt again tonight but I'm just too eager to see your bfp!!
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Pbn I love you....I'm taking girls to their dance classes and will be back shortly with thoughts when I have a second to type without them grabbing my phone.
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Iwant4kids that's a lovely rise in temp 😍 you have to test Sunday now!! I don't suppose you'll test tomorrow morning?? Please!!! 🙏🙏🙏😂😂
LMSM today *should* be o day 🎉🎉🎉 cant wait to see your chart tomorrow morning!! One attempt to go and you may well be right in the middle of it now 💏😂
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Mummy2apples that's a decent drop in temp :( but hopefully af will arrive today so we can get started on your bfp cycle :) Have you decided on which opks to use? And remember not to start opks until 4th morning after last clomid pill :) And seeing as you will be on 100mg of clomid will you be doing something like e4d plus extra attempt at pos opk?
Shinay big hugs xxoo Not sure if you're following along atm but in case you are has the spotting come and gone now? May be time to see a gp and see what can be done to induce af? Thinking of you xxoo
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Thanks PBN! I'm hoping it comes tonight! I have 9 clear blue and quite a few of the wondfo left? Wasn't sure when to start the clearblue. They are actually the stash xx had! Lol yes was planning the e4d and then one attempt at positive opk this month.
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Nah, had kids wake up early so all' hope of bd was lost,...tonight though he's not going to sleep without a gift of valliant swimmers to his wife:rofl::ttc:Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
Because we don't know how you'll respond to the increased dosage I would start wondfos cd11 just one a day at 1pm initially, then start digis once a day as well as wondfo at maybe cd14ish?? It will depend of course on how your wondfos are looking as to whether we start digis sooner or later than that :) Once you get a light to moderate (like just less than halfway colour of control line) that might be a good time to start digis. You're opk on cd11 might still be darkish from the clomid so don't be surprised if your opk starts dark, fades out then in again. I'm excited!!!!! Cant wait to get to the opk poas already!!!
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Max-my wondfo OPK is always darker than the digi, so I'd follow the digi & wait for the smiley! I would continue with your BD e3d and once at pos digi OPK! The smiley just means it's the surge and will likely O the next day right?
Thanks PBN! I'm excited too!!
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That's good to hear Lola!! Ok so would you wait one more day before BD? I was leaning towards BD again tonight but might hold off. I had 0-2 and 0-3 back to back with both DD's...
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Max-looking at it again & your wondfo & digi -it's looking dark, I think you're almost there! Do you test in the evening too? I think whenever you get that smiley, go for another attempt [emoji4]
Just read your post...so if you've had success with O-3 and O-2, that may be your perfect girl recipe right there. It's hard to say when you'll get that smiley, but it is looking like it's on its way tonight or tomorrow. Are you feeling any cramps like you did last time? I've learned that you can have cramps before, during or after O, but for me...I seem to have the strongest pains on O day, before temp rise.
Max I would bd tonight if your digi is positive :) how long away till test time?
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Thanks you guys! Just tested and the digi is negative and the IC is way lighter than earlier today. Maybe it would have been positive last night and we BD at the right time?? So skip tonight?? OMG anyone have a crystal ball for sale?! ;)
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Lol crystal ball!!! If only!!! Max if you o tomorrow you're covered by last night's attempt so I would just wait now and see what your opks do tomorrow :) like Lola said, stick to your e3d plus additional attempt at pos opk :)
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OR bd tonight then if its positive tomorrow you won't need to do an attempt. Confusing much??? 😣😣😣😂😂😂
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My last recommendation and then I'll say no more: flip a coin and let the universe decide!!
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Pbn3 - Here is my opk for today. It's negative which I figured, maybe tonight I'll have the spike in temp:bigsmile Attachment 36531
Nacire that looks a tad darker than yesterdays?? Or maybe because its wet it looks that way... and yep lets hope for a spike in the morning 😀 but remember not to freak out if it doesn't!! Your early pos *may* have been a false surge but we'll have more of an idea come morning :) I may post a little later tomorrow morning as I was up at 4.30am and am hoping to sleep in longer than that 😝
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Can you post another pic when todays opk is dry?
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Pbn3 its definitely darker than yesterday. I can totally post another pic whenever it dries. I won't freak out if the spike never shows tomorrow ughhh
Frustrating we have to wait isn't it!! I don't suppose you check cm internally?
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No I never ever tried that before. I just know I'm super watery wet. Normally if it was egg white it would have been on the tissue after wiping. I will go check and have a look see:wink:
Okay here is dried opk which I think it looks as negative as yesterday. I did go check on cm internally and it's way more watery than egg white. I remember before LE my egg white was a ton and super stretchy clear. This isn't like that at all. There is a little bit of stretchy but not so stretchy if that makes sense.. Attachment 36532
Still looks a touch darker? I'm just wondering if we don't see a spike in temp tomorrow if you're opk will turn pos again? This is me just musing and in no way means I think that will happen, just trying to see things from all sides :) The reason I asked about cm (and by the way its perfectly normal for le diet to dry up cm and is why I started having to check internally to begin with) is that it usually turns creamy after o (but this could take a day or so, different for everyone). In my case my cm was like clockwork and would be watery prior to o but then would get tacky/sticky whilst still being clear then creamy. I would generally see a spike after the sticky/tacky cm indicating o had indeed happened. I would only get that sticky/tacky cm for no more than a day before it turned creamy. For me, this was a secondary sign that I knew I'd oed. Cm isn't a great sign of o though unless its clockwork like mine cycle to cycle but may just be something you can check for now :) Did you or are you experiencing any twinges around the ovary area? Not everyone does and even when I first started ttc 2015 I couldn't feel anything. It was only after so many cycles that I started feeling o pains and could identify the feeling unmistakably.
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Pbn3 sometimes I do get o pain like last month I had really bad o pain. It lasted many many days before and after o. This month I haven't had any, but I have been feeling sick to my stomach and nauseous and I've never felt like this around o. Even today I still feel weird a little off, but not as bad as yesterday. All I can do is test again tomorrow. If I don't get the spike in the morning I will have to test sooner if I want to get a bd in before hubs leaves.
Nacire I would bd regardless of what opk looks like tomorrow. None of this will matter though because we will see a spike 😀😀
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I love how hopeful you are makes me super hopeful too!!!:wink: I believe it's gonna spike tomorrow:pray:
Sorry just seeing this! Getting cramping and wondering if O is around corner. I'm going to hold off on BD and pretend I'm doing e3d without opk, unless DH makes a move tonight and I'll just go along with it. Omg the stress in making these decisions [emoji23]
Nacire, I agree with pbn! 🤞
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