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I don't know.. I will think on it :) You said it takes 2 days after implantation to detect HGC right? It's 2am here so I got the spotting about 6 and a half days after o.. (unless I o'd the same day as positive opk, then it's 7 and a half dpo). Either way 2 days time will put me in afternoon, but my tests say to use fmu..
2-3 days so best wait till 9dpo then 😩 plus I'm not sure on the sensitivity of those tests you have but pretty sure they'd be 25mIU+...... if you'd be bummed seeing a bfn at 8dpo then hold off, and don't forget implantation can take up to a couple days so don't feel bummed if 9dpo is bfn as well!
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I will keep this in mind, thank you, dear! :) :)
When we bd'ed a week and half after my AF returned the opk's were all negative. Two weeks later they started getting darker and darker. Oh just remember the first pregnancy that I took was two and half weeks ago and it was negative..My gut told me to take it.Quote:
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Thanks everyone. I am trying to enjoy and not overthink it but can't help the anxiety feelings taking over. Are there any blue moms who just made one or two attempts?
Nacire I hope you get what you want hun. It's a stressful period for so many woman...
LSMS lol. I felt infertile for months so don't know how we got the first egg! I guess the HE diet, Supps, yoga etc. I really recommen yoga for fertility :).
Oh ok that makes sense now! I thought you meant you had tested with hpt at time of pos opks when I asked previously after your first post :)
You have a great shot at blue! Ds2 took me 6 months to conceive and he was a two attempter 😀
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Maxim are you still testing? Your temp has jumped back up and your possibly only 11dpo!
Nacire looking forward to seeing your test in my a.m. fx so tight for you!
Iwant4kids are you starting opks tomorrow?! So good you'll be at poas (opk) stage 😀
Mummy2apples pretty sure you said you'd be starting opks tomorrow 😀 fx for an earlier o!!
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Mommy I can't wait for testing time! You got this . Is it your second cycle on clomid?
Ttc so you will be testing Wednesday?
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Lmsm! I'm sorry for your losses sweetie! It's hard and no momma should ever have to endure that pain! You are so sweet, kind, and caring. It's good to know that the heartaches we endure doesn't make us mean and bitter like it could, but gives us an outlook on life on what has the most meaning and what doesn't. There's nothing more precious than a baby, a child. They are one of God's/ the universes most precious rewards.
Hugs sky: yes it's for our own benefits! Don't punish yourself especially when it is uncomfortable!!
Ttc: that's not crazy! Lots of women get ib!!! I hope it is for you!!
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PBN! Will be starting opks today around 1ish so about four hours. Have to take daughter to the dentist so maybe be later before I can get it posted! Fingers crossed for an early o!!
Ash: yes! I hope my egg this month. Trying more than I was last cycle. Second cycle of clomid :)
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Well it's 9:00 Tuesday here (I don't know if it's different for you) so I'll be testing Thursday. Almost exactly 48 hours from now.Quote:
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Well it's 9:00 Tuesday here (I don't know if it's different for you) so I'll be testing Thursday. Almost exactly 48 hours from now.Quote:
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Ttc: you are an hour behind me! :)
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Good luck!! :)Quote:
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Thanks ttc: good luck to you also!!
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Thank you! I might get impatient and cave and test tomorrow because I feel very strongly that that was implantation bleeding. But I'm doing my best to hold out lol.
Lol it is hard ttc!!
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Hi beautiful ladies!
Wow, the info I missed while I was sleeping! Pbn & LMSM-you two are such strong, amazing women who have been through so much & yet have the biggest hearts. Don't think any of us could say it any better than sky with such beautiful words [emoji173]
Max-I'm also very curious about your temp!! Have you tested again??
Nacire-I'm praying for darker tests today!!
Ttc-I'm excited for you & can't wait for you to test!!
Mommy & sky-I dreamed that I had full on AF last night & it was worse than any of my other nightmares lol...must have been all of the spotting talk ;)
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Hi ladies! I'm sorry I haven't been able to read through everything yet...we have visitors staying with us, which has been super hectic, and my DD2 graduated preschool today and I'm an emotional mess. My baby is going to kindergarten, which is so amazing and wonderful, but geez I'm a crying mess.
LMSM, I'll read through your post, thank you for sharing!!! I appreciate it.
Kat, saw you sent the link, thank you - I'll get that!
Lola, tested this morning and got the faintest line on OSOM, but definitely not looking good for 12dpo. I had the same thing last cycle, so it seems like I might be having another chemical. Anyone know what causes that to happen cycle after cycle??
Will get back online tonight to read and catch up on everyone!
Hi ladies! I'm sorry I haven't been able to read through everything yet...we have visitors staying with us, which has been super hectic, and my DD2 graduated preschool today and I'm an emotional mess. My baby is going to kindergarten, which is so amazing and wonderful, but geez I'm a crying mess.
LMSM, I'll read through your post, thank you for sharing!!! I appreciate it.
Kat, saw you sent the link, thank you - I'll get that!
Lola, tested this morning and got the faintest line on OSOM, but definitely not looking good for 12dpo. I had the same thing last cycle, so it seems like I might be having another chemical. Anyone know what causes that to happen cycle after cycle??
Will get back online tonight to read and catch up on everyone!
Lola: must've been! Your baby is healthy girl! Just feel it in my heart!
Max: it's hard watching them grow so fast!!
fingers crossed it just continues to get darker!
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Max-post a pic of the test when you can! It's very possible that you implanted later or you're a day off...fx so hard! Congrats on having a kindergartener-bittersweet for sure!!
Mommy-thanks, that is super sweet & love your positivity!
I also am thinking/ hoping you implanted later than you thought.. I think this is good news! A faint positive at 12dpo is completely normal for many women. Is it concerning you because of a past chemical, or do you just feel something isn't right?Quote:
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Max - I have read that many women got their bfps even on 14 dpo.🤞🤞🤞🤞 for a late implanter and darker lines in next tests. Whatever the case may be, we r here to cheer you on. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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And ya post a pic pls Max.
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Thank you so much for your positivity ladies, I really appreciate being able to come here for such support! Unfortunately, given how faint the lines are (it's hard to even capture on camera), it's not looking good. I'm having terrible cramping and temps went down yesterday, so I do think AF is coming either today/tomorrow. It's just so frustrating to see these lines and know that it isn't going to stick...
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I see the line max! Still holding out hope for you that they get darker!
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A chemical means that the egg was fertilized and implantation was/is being attempted but for whatever reason it doesn't stick. I hope it gets darker for you hun :)Quote:
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Max, I can see it too! Really hope this is the start of getting even darker lines! Fxfxfx!!!
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Hi! I tested again this morning with fmu and still negative :( I'm pretty sure I just possibly had implantation. I had a implantation dip yesterday, and rise back today, so probably won't show for a few days. I'm still extremely hopeful,and I know its still pretty early for me :)
Nacire-I have my Fx sooo hard for you!!!!! Excited to see what happens over the next few days!!
What Lola said Naci!!
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Lolabelle and Mommy2apples - Thanks so much! I sure hope so :)
Nacire, glad to see that you're being so positive! I too think that you might just have to give it a few days, but do NOT believe that positive was a fluke. It made me so sad for you when I read that you're tests were now coming back negative, but just hang in there. It must be very frustrating! FX and please let us know when you get another positive! :)
Maxim this is why I keep saying implantation generally occurs between 6-10dpo but can be even later. Max your cramps, temp dropping and coming back up like that could easily be implantation which at 9/10/11dpo is within completely normal range!!!! Which is also why you'd only have a very faint line which yes I could see too! I am really looking forward to your next few days testing!
Ladies you all have to stop thinking that if you haven't gotten a bfp by 9dpo that you are out!!! It really makes no sense and makes me want to ban early testing! Feeling defeated before implantation may have even taken place is so heart breaking. My new mission is going to be to encourage testing from 11dpo onwards and not before and I apologize for all the early testing I have been encouraging ❤
LMSM I see your temp has popped back up as well!
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Nacire cant wait to see your next test! I'd wait two days to be sure (see this is the new me saying hold off 😂)
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TtcBlue18 - Thank you! It’s very frustrating, and I wish that I never took another test :( Now I don’t want to miss a day of testing because it could be the day that takes all the stress away.. I’m trying to be as hopeful, and positive as possible. My temps still look very promising so that keeps me thinking I’m just early.
Pbn3 - I think holding off for a few days would be the best, but I feel like what if it would pop up positive if I only tested sooner?!! I wouldn’t be freaking out anymore lol I will try to hold off, and continue temping as normal.