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Ditto this. Just didn't have time to write anything when I first read your post. Except it was like 4-5 days before for me as far as the big one... other than that I cramp all cycle thanks to clomid. Before clomid I'd have O pain 2-3 days before O.Quote:
Originally Posted by momamia4
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Thanks momamia and two! I have been having sharp pinching pains just inside hip bone lh side for several hours. I've actually tested b4 lunch and just now (opk) to make sure I still only have flashing smiley and I do :). Expecting solid smiley in morning and o the day after. So close to 2ww I can smell it lol!
I have O pain for several days before and after O. Always have. Last cycle my O pain started on CD3 even though I didn't O till CD15 like always! This cycle I had O pain for at least 4 days before O and for the last 2 days after O. And it's pretty much always on the right side.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
Hi ladies feeling abit low after reading two of my fellow June 2ww swayers have/will miscarry... It's really making me ask myself the question about how badly I want to sway. I always thought from a young age that I wanted three kids but I waited and waited for the right person then waited another five years so we were somewhat set up. Now I'm feel I'm getting to old (as does dh) and in all honesty I do not think we'd be trying again if we'd had a pp. My dilemma is I do want to be pregnant but at the same token I want to know I gave it my best shot at a girl - if its a 3rd (and last) baby boy I'll be ok with that but I've worked so hard with this diet I just cant start adding more attempts etc just yet :( but on the other hand I feel like I'm borrowed time as such? and if we are going to have three bubs regardless of gender then that's what I need to do... Such a dilemma and I feel so selfish for thinking this way when there are people losing their babies as I type which makes me feel just awful and near tears :(:(
Oh, Pbn3!!! I wish I could give you a great big hug!! I do know what you mean. It's a very difficult decision to make, especially when there are factors pushing you in two opposite directions. I am in the same spot and did add more attempts this month. Please don't do it. I know it is hard when you just want to be pregnant. I go back and forth between accepting another ds and feeling like I still need a dd. Stay strong!! :bighug:
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Pbn3 sorry to hear you are feeling blue. I too have these feelings of guilt for wanting a specific gender when others can't or have lost precious babies. Don't punish yourself though. It's normal to Desire a specific gender for some women and there's nothing wrong with swaying your odds for that. I have been on the diet for a long time too but am so impatient I've added in lots of attempts this cycle which makes me nervous but at the same time I know that what will be will be. If you feel uncomfortable adding attempts maybe set a number of months that you do one attempt and if you would be ok with another boy then maybe start every 3 days when you feel time is more pressured.
I'm 3dpo today- is anyone with me? I'm really hoping I can stay patient and avoid early testing this month. I feel nauseous but have done since ovulation and slightly crampy. I hate the 2ww!
Well we have to go into swaying knowing that an opposite is a very good reality. Unless we go HT, there are no guarantees regardless of how well we swayed. I too am reminding myself of this as I regroup to get ready to sway when this bub is 5-6mo.
I can say it is hard to get BFN after BFN, but I think it is just circumstance and not always due to swaying. Hang in there and know it will happen for you. Just don't drop diet, exercise if you're doing it, and don't have more than 1 or 2 attempts in your fertile window (preferably just 1 [emoji6]), unless in your heart of hearts you will be over the moon to have another DS like I was [emoji4]!
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FF finally gave me cross hairs and says that I o'd on cd16,so I am 5dpo today. Temping really distracted me from symptom spotting those first 5 days. Hahaha!!! I feel like I time traveled into the future 5 days. This is the first cycle that I've temped the whole time, in case I sound like a lunatic. :) My temp went up even higher today. I can't help but get excited about it. I'll test first thing Friday morning before I go to my RE appt. FX, FX, FX!!!
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Bobster - I'm 2dpo so we're pretty close! I am going to try to hold out until 12dpo and see if no AF then I will test. Unless I feel pretty strongly I am in fact pregnant.
Pbn- I don't know exactly what you're going through but I can imagine it is a tough decision to make. I think that's even without swaying - I see so many people who miscarry and weren't swaying; it is so scary. Then I remember all the successful pregnancies (swaying and not) and I begin to have more hope. Hang in there, and I agree with others about not switching up your sway yet, less your heart is in a good place for DS3 (but I'll gladly take a DS for you! :) ). Also, I felt a lot of "pressure day before O and was in crazy pain during O. Hope you're close!
Mommamia - yay!! Will you be the first of the group to test? Everything crossed for your RE appt Friday! And a BFP before then!
I'm just ready for a BFP. I have to remind myself that although we went off BC in October, I've only ovulated twice on my own, and now two Clomid cycles. So basically I've kind of only been TTC four cycles, and one was a CP. Tryinf to stay optimistic!
Taytum, I think I am, lol! Realistically, it'll most likely be a bfn but I thought it would be good to know before I go in for my appt. FX for you!! :)
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