October 2WW

Ladies, I know how you feel. My dd2 took over a year to conceive. I started off swaying blue and dropped everything by the time she was conceived. I talk about it a lot but the bfn's really took a toll on me and have made ttc this time seem like a dream that will never happen. I envy that you are at peace with your decision. I feel like I won't stop until dh makes me. He's 44 so we won't try past March. Keeping positive thoughts can be so difficult!! Hopefully this is your bfp and you don't have to consider anything else!!

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Originally Posted by ImmiNAddi

Sorry Foxcub, big hugs to you xx

I tested this morning (8dpo) big fat negative...... I don't think it will happen this month, just a feeling I have. I'm usually feeling a bit icky in the mornings at this stage, but I feel fine.
Will try a frer again tomorrow and again at 10dpo then wait for at to arrive.
Pbn, I'm with you on giving it your last go, I will go one more month then that's it. I can't stick to the diet any longer than that and I need to start living life with my boys instead of being caught up in this ttc world :wink:

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Thanks everyone I hope this whole group gets bfps this cycle or next - what a way to go out lol!!

Immi you nailed it on the head - I feel like I've been so caught up in swaying and ttc and everything else has been put on the back burner. Dh and I knew going into this that it just may not happen and I actually feel more relieved and carefree than I have all year. Time to focus on my boys and be thankful for the wonderful family we have. I just know its time to stop :) I have everything crossed for you even though you're not feeling it!!

Purple the decision was actually easy in the end surprisingly! This is also the first cycle I haven't been thinking about the next and I couldn't be happier lol!

Hopper I really hope you end up being able to try this cycle!

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Originally Posted by Pbn3

Thanks everyone I hope this whole group gets bfps this cycle or next - what a way to go out lol!!

Immi you nailed it on the head - I feel like I've been so caught up in swaying and ttc and everything else has been put on the back burner. Dh and I knew going into this that it just may not happen and I actually feel more relieved and carefree than I have all year. Time to focus on my boys and be thankful for the wonderful family we have. I just know its time to stop :) I have everything crossed for you even though you're not feeling it!!

Purple the decision was actually easy in the end surprisingly! This is also the first cycle I haven't been thinking about the next and I couldn't be happier lol!

Hopper I really hope you end up being able to try this cycle!

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You're such an amazing women!!


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Does anyone know what IVF or ICSI sways? Or where I could find out?


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Oh pbn wouldn't that be amazing!! Everything crossed for a bucket load of BFPs this month and next month so we can all move over to the due June/July/August thread!!!! I am feeling so inspired by you and Immi right now, thank you ladies!! X

Hoping to try this month but honestly am so sick of swaying have had more cheats than not since back from vacation. Cardio is all but gone out the window. With my new job finding the time on top of everything else is just proving impossible! And have really been beating myself up over the Lack of cardio!! I don't like who I am right now, I don't like my detached-ness (so not a word!!) I don't like my obsessiveness (definitely not a word either!!) I just want to be done. I think that's why the surprise AF hit me so hard last cycle, cause I wanted to be done and just have the whole swaying process taken out of my hands!

Aww magical thank you! I'm not sure about ivf price I hope someone can give you an idea of what you'd be looking at. Fx you just wont need it!!

Hopper try and stay positive :) if it makes you feel better I basically cheated the entire 2ww last cycle and one before! Completely understand how you're feeling about yourself not being yourself - ttc is hard enough without the swaying element! Stay strong!

I truly hope this is your month pbn. I think its great (and brave) that you could come to a decision and be at peace with it.

Ive certainly held my boys a little tighter the last few days ever thankful for the miracle that they are. Its certainly calmed me abit.

Hopper ikwym hang in there. I think most of us have our cheat days. Im getting back to focusing on a few things i repeatedly do each cycle which is snack, not enough exercise and jumping the gun whenever i see a line on an opk no matter how dark it is 😂 maybe focus on a few things this cycle rather than feeling its all a bust 😊

Sorry af arrived foxcubblue

ImmiNAddi fx theres still a bfp there for you xx

Magical im not sure with ivf except theres greater chance of twins 😀

Trueblue, mammacass, h2g, quinn and anyone else ive missed may we see our bfps very soon and babydust to all xxx



Mum to 4 Boys awaiting her Princess

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Originally Posted by Pbn3

This is end of my swaying journey ladies, me and dh have decided if we get a bfn this month then a 3rd dc just wasn't meant to be. I don't want to sway anymore and I didn't want to ttc unless I was swaying - even if I ended up with another ds I would at least know we tried our best for a dd. This would be the last cycle that would give me a due date around my 38th bday and dh's 45th and we just dont want to be any older than that if we were to have another baby. So I'm extra glad we had the other attempt and I'm really at peace with throwing in the towel and having life get back to normal :)

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Hopefully that won't be an issue and you'll get your BFP! If not at least you at peace moving forward. I'm still pulling for a BFP though!! [emoji120] [emoji5] [emoji6] 👣🚼🙏

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What is the 'indent' line that I have heard people talk about? I couldn't help myself and used a dip test about 30mins ago (first response brand) and now I can see (maybe) a tiny (I'm talking tiny!!!) start and end of a 'maybe' line on the test... Is that an indent line? Like where the line would show if it were there?
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