April is going to be awesome 2ww thread!

Thanks for the advise everyone am going out of my mind at the minute as i started on the 3rd March and am now 34/35 days in his cycle and still not the slightest sign of a period arriving. Had a massive row with husband last night because I'm upset and all he does is yell at me. He has no clue how I feel at all. Did another test yesterday and no surprises it came back negative but I was so disappointed. Made an appointment at the doctors today and I'm scared of what they are going to find. What if this is it???? Scared that the two Ivf attempts and huge amount of stims have dried up all my eggs as low amh means I haven't got many anyway. Is this possible??? I'd like to believe it all stems from Ivf attempt in Feb but as it was a fresh transfer even with being all the cyclogest I came on a day later than I was meant to. I have never ever been this late only when I've been pregnant. I don't think I could cope if I can never have another baby again, I'm a mess. I've just cried since last week and had a bottle of wine to myself last night not good. I'm so hot in the morning I know my temps are really high and again this morning.... Just what's going on in there

Afrevert, I hope your youngest is better soon. Poor thing! What tests have you been getting the squinters on?

jenny, your timing is perfect, stick with E4D.

Pinklady, maybe you have a cyst? Though honestly your cycle isn't that long yet.

For all of you testing, keep in mind most don't get BFPs before 10-11dpo. And some won't get BFPs until 15dpo or later, though this is less common.

I know with dd1 I tested on 9 DPO and it was negative, 10 DPO was a squinter, and 11 DPO is the one I showed my husband because it was more seeable. So hopefully I'm only 9 DPO this morning.

I have just been to my nhs fertility appointment and if I don't get pregnant this time with the fsh injections they are not prepared to help with anymore or with ivf in my case because I dont quilfy for yelp due to already having children. The only thing they are prepared to do is try another version of clomid in 3months time and they would want to try that then for 3 months, if after thee 3 months I still have not gotten a BFP then they will see if my tubes are blocked and only then! Also they won't be monitored with ultrasound scans either because the nhs won't pay for that! Nhs won't pay for my metformin 850mg tablets either say they are too expensive will only pay for 500mg if I wanted. Wtf I have bought the 850mg myself from the private clinic and they are only £8-9! Nhs doc also said I don't need to take them once i know I'm pregnant, against everything I have been told and read!
Why is it all about money it's nhs we pay our national insurance! How dare they say they won't help because I already have children nobody has a right to tell you how many children you can have! Arh frustrating!
hoping I do get my BFP with a sticky bean next week!

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I have just been to my nhs fertility appointment and if I don't get pregnant this time with the fsh injections they are not prepared to help with anymore or with ivf in my case because I dont quilfy for yelp due to already having children. The only thing they are prepared to do is try another version of clomid in 3months time and they would want to try that then for 3 months, it won't be monitored with ultrasound scans either because the nhs won't pay for that! Nhs won't pay for my metformin 850mg tablets either say they are too expensive will only pay for 500mg if I wanted. Wtf I have bought the 850mg myself from the private clinic and they are only £8-9! Nhs doc also said I don't need to take them once i know I'm pregnant, against everything I have been told and read!
Why is it all about money it's nhs we pay our national insurance! How dare they say they won't help because I already have children nobody has a right to tell you how many children you can have! Arh frustrating!
hoping I do get my BFP with a sticky bean next week!

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That is crap and I completely agree with you. My doctor said nhs wouldn't be interested either due to me already having children doesn't make me feel any less gutted about not being able to have anymore than someone who has non, although I appreciate that must be terrible. I had to pay for two rounds of Ivf privately both failed wouldn't stick �� So resorting to trying myself but so far no luck. Just can't afford anymore Ivf now... Going to doctors tonight to discuss options but I'm not overly hopeful. Good luck anyway and I hope it works out for u xxx

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That is crap and I completely agree with you. My doctor said nhs wouldn't be interested either due to me already having children doesn't make me feel any less gutted about not being able to have anymore than someone who has non, although I appreciate that must be terrible. I had to pay for two rounds of Ivf privately both failed wouldn't stick �� So resorting to trying myself but so far no luck. Just can't afford anymore Ivf now... Going to doctors tonight to discuss options but I'm not overly hopeful. Good luck anyway and I hope it works out for u xxx

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(((Hugs))) hope you get a better result than I did!

(((Hugs))) pinklady35 hope you get a better result than I did!
I have a friend with the same attitude as the nhs, she doesn't have any children and is on the waiting list to see someone on nhs, she keeps saying to me you should be great full you got 3 already and can't understand why I feel gutted I'm struggling to have 1 more!

I thought I read a few years ago that the nhs were prepared to fund 1 round of ivvf for everyone experiencing fertility problems! If they already have children or not, maybe that is a postcode lottery!

Maiden following ds1 I got a period at 9 months and pregnant at 10 months post partum. After ds2 I got a period at 11 months and was pregnant at 13 months postpartum. Currently I am 17 months postpartum with no cycle in sight.

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After ds1 I did take vitex which may have influenced the return of my cycle

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Decided to take a digital test today!!! Got a BFP!!

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Maiden - I was using Easy @ Home pregnancy tests before the digital. I have now received a BFP 13 days after DTD with all of my pregnancies. I hope this isn't a sign that it is another boy! Will love the baby to the moon and back regardless of gender, but praying for a healthy baby girl! I really hope this one sticks. I did have an early miscarriage in January.

FX for everyone testing. I took a digital test yesterday morning at 10dpo and it was a BFN.