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Ds1 was sure the last baby was a girl and he was right. The whole time he told me he was sure.
When my sil was pregnant , my nephew who was 3 kept saying its a boy AND a girl and that there were 2 babies .. Well at 20 weeks (first u/s) they found out they were having twins.. And they were a boy and a girl!
3m&al = haven't you been pretty sick? Maybe the headaches are from dehydration? I know I'm real bad in the evenings and I wake up w headaches bc I get so dehydrated from the night before
That is crazy spinning! See kids totally know!
Dh bought me a case of Gatorade to help with my leg cramps and headaches. Maybe you should try it too three!
It really is, I wish I hadn't revealed the gender now I guess I was just excited to announce I was having our 1st baby girl! I have had so many ppl tell me there horror stories Bout tech getting it wrong specialy with a girl....it actually has started to depress me now and in fact I'd say I'm more worried now about gender because I'm so scared some1 will take away my dream :( I have another scan booked for 1dec I tried changing it yesterday to Nov 10th but I can't :( I keep doing stupid things like googling 'do techs get it wrong' blah blah blah...... I hate all this I really thought once I knew gender I could enjoy my pregnancy xQuote:
Originally Posted by Rosie85
Home I really think you are having your dream baby girl. Don't listen to them, apparently some people have a hard time being happy for those who get what they want. Are you getting a 3d or 4 d scan done on the 10th? I know my friend had two boys and now she is pregnant with a girl...she had 2 3d scans to check the gender because she was hesitant to believe. So you my friend are not the only one, just do it for you and not because others are making you think twice.
Thanks Rosie, i hate to moan to u girls but there's no1 else I can talk to I feel abit trapped in my own thoughts! It sucks I thought if I heard girl I'd be over the moon which I was/am but I'm not buying her anything else now she has a few baby gros and one dress! My scans Dec 1st and yep its a 3d one, iam terrified that I will hear boy now! So stupid! Ppl just can't be happy for u there's always someone to burst ya bubble! Xx thanx for listening x
People should just keep their nasty comments to themselves. I think I would be the same as you hb if I heard girl and not really believe it was true! A friend of mine who has 3 boys was told girl at her scan with her 4th and went and had a 3d scan as she just couldn't believe it! It was confirmed girl! :)
If you'd told them all you were having a boy you wouldn't have had the comments about 'they could have got it wrong' etc!
I announced my pregnancy on fb at about 13 weeks once we had heard the heartbeat a couple of times, we don't see friends and family in the UK very often so it was the easiest way to let everyone know. We let close family know by phone calls/ texts first. The main comments I had that annoyed me were how expensive a big family can be, I mean we will only have 3 children not the largest family! We don't rely on anyone else so why they think it is ok to comment on the size of our family is beyond me. My mil was over recently and kept saying to hubby 'oh it is going to be so hard, how are you going to manage' and implying that this baby was an accident! Erm... no all of our children were very much planned and wanted thank you!!!
She also kept suggesting a girls name to me and dh which I thought she can s*d off about as there us no way she is naming our daughter if we are lucky enough to have one! I just replied - oh we've had a name chosen for a girl since ds1 but we're keeping names a secret until the baby is born. That well and truly pee'd her off haha!! ;)
My general response to people saying "are you hoping for a girl" is 'a boy would be cheaper as we are totally prepared but a girl would be lovely too'.
Maybe we should just all start making personal comments back to them and see how they like it!!
I haven't announced it on facebook, nor have i told many people really. I'm not sure why really, but already fed up with the hopes it a girl comments!
Hbp, it does really annoy me when people just can't be happy for you. I completely understand where your coming from, if i'm lucky enough to hear 'it's a girl' i'll be booking another scan anyway just to believe it.
I think i've felt a few movements but not alot really, half the time i think it's wind. I hate worrying so much but can't help it!!
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Maybe we could all do with one of these:
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