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GL PP with your scan on monday!!
I am seriously thinking about doing the scan at 16 weeks... Can one of you girls come with me please??????
Should I wait until my 20 week scan?? Or should I go at 16 or 17 weeks???
Peony Your scan is not too far away I cant wait to see your pics!!
Pinkin - I was glad I went early - not just because I heard the newsi wanted to hear, but because I was torturing myself obsessing about my nub shot and was's even enjoying the 'what if' anymore. I had convinced myself it was a boy and was mourning the loss of a daughter for no reason! I figured it would be better to know for sure so I could start moving on and getting over my GD.
Well thats how I feel at the moment.. Feel like I have lost all hope of a girl..
Maybe i should just find out in secret and if it does end up being a girl I could say to d/h i dont want to find out at 20 weeks I want to wait until the birth just so i dont ruin it for everyone... and if it is a boy i can just say yes we will find out because i will need his support... If it is a boy I will be quite upset so will have to try and work out how to hide it for 4 odd weeks!..
Has anyone felt there baby move this early?? If I lean over a bit and esp on my left side I can feel like a flutter every now and then and a slight bouncing feeling really gentle tho but I swear I can feel something! This baby is going to be HUGE if i can already feel it!
I was going to say something else but now i have forgotten! Dont you hate that!
I thought I felt a flutter or two when I was 13 weeks, but then I didn't really feel anything regular after that until 19 weeks!! Now I feel the baby move all the time, which I LOVE. She was particularly mobile during my scan yesterday - the technician could barely get her to stay still to make her measurements, and she kept kicking my belly wherever her wand was.
Oh, and pinkin are you sure about not telling your dh if your find out? If you hear boy, you're going to need some support and I'd hate to think of you going through that alone and not having someone to talk to about it irl. Of course, I'm praying you do hear girl!
awww how gorgeous!! I had same experience with my 12 week scan baby wouldnt stop moving and the guy was getting a bit frustrated because it took him ages to get the measurements..
When you had your 16 week scan did you pick up that your baby was a girl before they even told you? Or were you just waiting for her to tell you?
I would take him with me but he doesnt think I should waste the money on going early!!
My MIL is set on us not finding out and I know my d/h will tell everyone he wont be able to help himself and if it is a girl id rather not tell anyone because I want the suprise for them AND the shock for my mil because she thinks we cant make a girl and really does believe this is a boy so I dont want anyone to know if it was a girl.. I could keep it to myself. If we wait until 20 weeks to find out then my d/h will have to find out too.. If it is a boy I am not too fussed on telling But if it was a girl I am the only one that can know.. Does any of that make sense?
My gender scan was literally 5 minutes long. She got straight to business and did a quick look herself then showed me what she saw. I thought I saw the 3 lines before she told me but I was worried I was seeing what I wanted to see. When she said 'Are you ready to hear what you're having?' my heart literally stopped. She sounded so ominous I was sure she was going to say it was a boy. When she said girl I started to cry.
Gosh I would be crying too!! How nice that feeling would be!