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I deffo think that would be a good idea to speak to your sister. I do think the skull on your profile pic is very similar to the skull of mine. and dont forget yours was a tricky one to guess and those who guessed boy only had slight lean boy so not full blown boy guesses.
I really didnt have a feeling what this baby was until i saw it on screen and i got a girl vibe, but obviously still could be a boy. Its so hard and it sucks :(
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I had a girl vibe too when i saw the baby.. I didnt really get a chance to see anything between the legs because the baby was hypo! would not stop moving but I was trying to look and i didnt see anything obvious BUT i am not an expert at this stuff!
Yeah it is hard I know how your feeling , we are only 2 or 3 days apart now! when is your gender scan??
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My scan is booked for 22nd May, yeah we both have peaches :D lets hope they are both girly peaches!!! When i had scan they moved my dates forward, i too tried to have a peek but baby was upside down. Then i missed most of the scan as she had me nealry doing a headstand.
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Yeah you said!!! So you will be 16 weeks then wont you? I think I may leave mine until I am 17 or 18 weeks I know its close to my 20 week scan but if i did go at 18 weeks its still 2 weeks before.. I hope I am not getting sick I have a horrible stomach ache and feel a bit off.. Cooked a stew for tea its still sitting a a bowl waiting for me..
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yeah will be 16 weeks. Oh no, hope your not getting ill, hate being ill especially when pregnant. Hope your feeling better soon. I have DS1 off school today with a dodgy tummy. Im also now off to pick my cousin up to take her to the dentist as her parents are on holiday so she is coming to spend the weekend with us. Oooh a stew sounds yummy, hope you get to eat it soon, may do one for our tea...nom nom nom!
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well taken cousin to dentist, dropped her back off at school. Picked nan up and dropped her off at auntie's, been shopping and its lasagne for tea...just fancied it when walking round. Come home washing out put our bedding on to be washed. One boy down for nap and now gonna make some dinner before DH goes to work. Still so much to do and not enough time in a day to get it done.
We had a lovely trip to the zoo yesterday with the boys as school was closed, i still feel so so tired. My back is aching from all the walking :(
Hope you ladies are all well and beans are growing well :D
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The zoo sounds lovely, HappyLea! We will prob. try to go again on a cooler day, last time we went on one of the hottest days in August (stupid of us) I had just concieved DS2 but didn't know it yet!
Pinkin, i think an early scan would be a great idea....you could very well be in Mocha's shoes, and are worrying for nothing.
PP, I still think you hear pink at your scan. Good luck and I will be stalking on Monday!! When do you think you'll be updating us?
Hobbers, I still have a feeling yours is a boy. I hope the scan goes great and you get relief seeing healthy bubba in there :) Hope you got some boy names that you're thinking about!
My DH is still talking about a 4th now. Sigh. He is annoying, lol. He said that he feels like it's going to be funny how we'll be at the ultrasound for a 4th and he'll be gunning for a boy and I'll be gunning for 2nd girl, and who knows who will win! If we ever did try again, I would def. do a lite girl sway, or maybe not. I'm not sure what I would do. Cara in her reading for me said watch out, because I'd have a 2nd little girl soon after this one. We were planning on waiting 2-3 years regardless to get our money in order better...DH really wants a 4th, we just gotta get a bigger car and house. My mom is gonna help us get a new house before then, so I hope it all works out. But then the stupid ring test said I'd have BBGB, so I really feel a 4th child could be 50-50.
I held a newborn baby boy at work yesterday (one of my collegues had a baby shower and the girl on maternity leave brought her son Hunter in), and he was soooo sweet and cuddlly and loving. It made me ache so badly to hold my own baby in my arms :) I looked at how adorable his little nose and face was, and I knew then that truly 150% if we have another boy in the future, he will complete our family...whoever comes last will finish us off.
I thought once i heard girl at this scan, my heart would be closed to having a 4th, but it seems the opposite: I'm more open to the idea of a 4th in a few years now that I got my girl, the pressure is OFF, and I really feel whoever comes along then will just complete us, does that make sense?
Oh, at my scan when the tech said girl, I was too stunned to cry. I thought I was going to cry. Despite my gut feeling about saying girl, it felt so surreal to actaully hear it being spoken in RL and not in my head, lol.
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Pinkin - I don't know where you live but if I lived close to you I would go with you. It's so hard hiding your feelings. I was over joyed that DS1 was a boy but I broke down on the side of the road after DS2 u/s. I hid my feelings from DH but cried all day and all night long for 20wks. But now I can't imagine a day without the gobber. I hope you hear girl just like I hope everyone else gets their DG and lives happily ever after.
Auroara - My scan is at 1pm (MST and the same time as Cali rightnow). I paid for a 30min 3d/4d scan with a 2d gender. I could have paid 65 for a 10min 2d scan or 95 for a 30min 3d/4d scan w/dvd of pictures. We have sold a lot of furniture for our move to Vegas so I don't feel guilty about spending 95. I should be home by 1:45 and I will have to put DS2 down for a nap. I will post the pictures by 2pm. During the u/s my boys are going to be with me... I am going to ask the lady not to say the gender but to print the potty/gender shots and write the gender on a slip of paper. I don't want to burst out crying in front of the boys or have them telling DH before I can surprise him.
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auroara - although I know I'm DONE, I'm older than you and this is also my 4th. If I were younger and only had 3, I think I'd definitely consider a 4th even after getting my girl. My last two pregnancies have been so stressful with the swaying and praying I'd get my daughter that it would be nice to experience one last relaxed pregnancy where I honestly didn't care what the gender was. I think I'd even leave the gender for a surprise until birth just for fun!
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Yeah, Mocha, that is my idea too....it woudl be soooo lovely to go thru an entire preg without gender expectation, and just be grateful to experience it one last time. I just turned 34, so I feel 2-3 years will give us a good snapshot of where we are money-wise and kid-wise. My husband said his only issue is money, so if that's there, then he really wants to go ahead. I am so enjoying this pregnancy now, but I still have that fantasy of having a non-gender related pregnancy :)
I still get goosebumps when I think about how it worked out for you! 3 boys and 1 girl last, just like what your mom had!
I still feel deep in my heart that I will have another boy someday, and maybe that's because my birth order is opposite of my mom, and I just feel it that he is out there. I am OK with it. He can join the family eventually :)