September TTC Boy Chit Chat and Such Thread

3PNB - what happened to pricessap. We were on similar cycles and I think she just stopped logging on?

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Originally Posted by TTC5

I think it may be more inclined to sway pink than blue. In the past I have been on the pill and had girls, and my sister did the same, so did my Mum lol..

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I would wait ..Your cycle is not long, That's a good thing.

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Originally Posted by skrimpy

Do you usually have CM? What day is that highest? I would plan on maybe 12 hours after your first and third +OPK, and on CD 19 definitely. It's harder to plan timing with a messy cycle!

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I have very little CM or no CM at all, Usually when I get a positve OPKS I get ''some'' EWCM for 2-3 days, I will start taking guaifenesin soon.. maybe from CD 10 or 12..

CD 17 and 19 sounds good timing, but yeah I know it's really really hard, We'll see how it goes.

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Originally Posted by begonia

Awww, thank you MFC! I hope you're right too! I'm central time US so will probably post around lunchtime. The great thing is we have a nice full weekend, and my appt is right after I take DD2 to preschool on Monday so it'll be here before I know it!

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I'm also in the central time US!!! So you will be 17W1D ..that's exactly when I found out I'm having a boy! I really hope you hear boy and I think you are going to. FX for you. x

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Originally Posted by begonia

MFC the wonky cycles make timing so hard!!! Mine weren't super crazy, but my O did move around between 13 and 14 regularly, and the cycle I attempted OF COURSE ended up being 13 when I planned my timing around it being 14. So I ended up with an 0-1 and an 0. With 3 days of OPK's though that helps! I read somewhere that usually means you O the day of the last OPK, so I would say DTD the 1st day you get an OPK, and the day of your last one.

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Thanks for you advice! so DTD the 1st day of +opk and last one, hopefully this will put me in to 0-2 and on O.

3pnb, Enjoy shopping for BLUE!

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Originally Posted by boyjoy

Jen, I was lurking for a while to read this great news. Big congrats on your lil boy. Hope 4th is charm thing also works for me next time :) Congrats you and your family.
And hi to all!! I am doing good so far, except gestational diabet torture. Poking my fingers several time a day and limit the food thanks God 6 weeks to go :) Best wishes to all...

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Hey hun, 6 wks to go ..Wishing you a smooth, easy delivery good luck! I can't believe I was Due in Nov, its very close :( hope I get pregnant before my due date.

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Originally Posted by Flava

ttc5- Im with hobber here this damn psychics making us crazy for sure! I also told me give birth or find out or bfp in august with girl and there is no way I want to do anything whit aug. now because of it! So yeah they screw with our head.


ummm I buyed test today and if no af tomorrow I will test...not sure how I feel about it.

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I ignore all the psychics I have no time to get crazy over this. The swaying itself is enough, lol.

FLAVA FX FOR YOU tomorrow I'm very excited for you!!! KUP.

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Originally Posted by TTC5

Personally, trying in Dec would be great because DH's bday is in September (and how nice a present would a baby be or a BOY!) But Cherie22 predicted I would have a girl and she see's SEPTEMBER... this was back in June /July she told me this! Take no notice you think? I should, but you know the paranoia LOL

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I concieved my DS in Dec and gave a birth in Sept. DH's bday is also in Sept! It was very very NICE.

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Originally Posted by 3PinkNeedBlue

TTC5- crying? Awe thanks :kiss: I ate lots of meat, fruit, veg and I avoided all processed foods. To be specific I ate big breakfasts with eggs and bacon, lots of snacks and meat and potatoes for dinner. I could never get my pH above 5-5.5 so I gave up. I honestly think I'd have had a nervous breakdown and DH would have called it all off if I'd stayed on IG. No pre-seed or egg white, fish oil and green tea gave me tons of cm so we just went with that :)
fwiw my nephew was conceived in Christmas and born in September, I say ignore the psychic and chow down lol

Flava- Thanks, I think my sway was great too! I am a little biased since it worked or maybe I just got lucky, either way who cares lol FX for tomorrow!

Skrimpy- thanks, it was a pretty great day :)

Well we told the in-laws, bil's gf left the room while my bil shrunk. My other bil and sil weren't there even though they were supposed to be so I called sil and she was like "oh cool, well congrats" and my bil being a jerk to DH on facebook which means he's upset by it. My mil asked if it is another girl when dh said it was a boy she said "oh good", fil of course wants us to name him after someone in their family. He'll be none to pleased to learn we plan to use my dad's name (Robert) for the middle name but dh doesn't care. All in all it was pretty uneventful actually, I've gotten more reactions from you guys lol

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Haha Jealously and shocked!!!!!!!!! LOL.

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Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children

I would wait ..Your cycle is not long, That's a good thing.

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Thanks!!

Did you sway for your son?

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Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children

I concieved my DS in Dec and gave a birth in Sept. DH's bday is also in Sept! It was very very NICE.

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AWWWWW I would love to have the same happen!!

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Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children

Hey hun, 6 wks to go ..Wishing you a smooth, easy delivery good luck! I can't believe I was Due in Nov, its very close :( hope I get pregnant before my due date.

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Originally Posted by iluvmyman

Augh! My little laptop deleted my reply. Let's try again.

TTC5 - Not to make you feel bad in any way, but I think it's dangerous to talk to "psycics" and this is part of the reason. I'm sure she's a nice person but if you are meant to have a boy you will regardless of the date.

3PNB -Was it your family who has the BIL and his GF who are prego again but have no money? Of all the self absorbed immature bullcrap. That is so wrong. My brother and his wife have been ttc for years now and he has never said 1 unkind word or self comment (although my sisters and I feel so horrible telling him we are prego again). this makes me angry. I put up w/ so much crap that made my last pregnancy miserable and I just think people can be cruel even if they don't mean it.

My 2 cents on the name issue w/ your FIL is: I don't give a crap what your family name traditions are. This is my child and I will name him whatever my DH and I see fit. Your traditions are not my burden. Now if it's important to DH then that's a different story. I really could care less about that stuff and broke a small tradition w/ my 1st. I would name him your father's full name just to be a brat.

Hmmm, think I'm a little tired tonight. I'm a bit high strung but that's really how I fee about it. Shame on the family. It's sad that you can get more support from essential strangers then family.

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Thankyou xxxxxxxx

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Originally Posted by iluvmyman

I had an omlet and bacon most mornings too w/ tomatoes, cheese, and avocado. Mmmm! My 2 cents again. I believe the free range organic chickens are best if you can get them and choline found in uncooked egg yolks is wonderful for pregnancy and has lots of benefits like babies brain development. I ordered this holistic pregnancy program and 1 of the meals is a bannana egg yolk smoothie.

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Ooh I love omellete now why did I not think of this myself!!

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Originally Posted by begonia

Thanks for chiming in Gizmo! I can think of loads of reasons to be happy for another girl (especially is she's healthy!!) and that's part of the reason I feel ok with finding out this time. With dd2 I did have gd but I was certain she was a boy, because the pg was so different! Lol! Like that matters ;) Anyhow as cool as I think the surprise would be I just don't like spending so much of my time thinking about it! I guarantee DH who wants the surprise thinks about it less than once a day, and me?!? It's like all the time!!! I'm tired of thinking about it is part of the reason I just want it known, lol!

When is your attempt? Soon right?

Speaking of soon if Jens scan is on time it should happen in about 5 minutes! Yay!

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my attempt is in 3 weeks, midoct..im excited but everythings eems to be going "wrong" at the very last minute..diarrhea with acv all of a sudden, colds,etc...

CONGRATS 3pink!!!!! exciting!!!!!

ttc5- I just got bored with the gelatin, I was sick of the cost and having to make it just everything really. We were going to take a break for a while so I decided to quit it and then at the last minute we attempted and here we are :)
ITA with iluv, I was eating 1+ avacados a day. Lunch was typically a chicken breast and half an avocado. And oh yeah scarf those omelets!

iluv- its both bil's actually, the one no money got sad and the jerky one, well he was a jerk. Problem is he and everyone but us thinks he's funny, "oh he's just teasing". Um no he's an ass.
Yeah, we don't care what they want name wise, dd2 has my mil's middle name and dd3 has dh's deceased sisters middle name (by their request). DH is a jr and we are definitely not going for a 3rd but my fil thinks the boys must be all his family. And let me tell you they are a legacy worth letting die lol
We've come to expect it. My neighbor cried and hugged me, my mil said oh good. I don't really care as long as long as we get love and support from somewhere. Honestly I'd rather get it from those we see every day then those we try to avoid kwim ?
As for Princessap, she's been having a real hard time with the fact she's not getting pregnant. After m/c her son in Oct she just wants/needs it so much. We m/c at a few days apart at almost the same gestation so we've become loss buddies and have been emailing for months now. I'm going to rat her out though, she finally got her bfp Monday, I told her she should check in but she's so scared.

MFC- I'm all about the fish oil for ewcm, of everything I tried it created buckets for me :)
I've been loving shopping for an actual blue baby, it's so much for fun then hopeful outfits :)
FX for a bfp before your edd, it's a rough day to hit if you're not pregnant.

Gizmo-Thanks! fx for your attempt, hope you're feeling better soon :)

The last post was long so I'm updating here instead :bigsmile:

So weird realization this morning, for the first time since last spring I have nothing to obsess over. I have no sway, nothing to pee on, no symptoms or nubs to google. I was joking with dh, I need a new hobby lol

Been going through my u/s frame by frame (yes I'm a dork) and think I found an awesome nub shot. What do you guys think?
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Hey girls!
I still have weird dreams and last night was dreaming about pregnancy test...they where all very positive with 2 very dark lines but the tests was all weird (of course) the top liner was coming off and so on...So I waked up took temp and it was going up not down (yeyyy) so i took a test.
First I thought it's nothing on it but then I see a line? It's faint but HD saw it too so I think it's BFP! Ok Im in shock really...:suprise:
I took 3 pics in diff. light (aha...lol) can you guys see it?? It shows better on the test ..pics not so good...(sorry it they are big)
With my other babys I got a better line like 9dpo and now Im 11 dpo and line is so light hope it's all ok!
Im a little worried...:worry:
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That's a great line!! Congrats, fx for a sticky blue bean!!

Jen awww I love the little pic!! Don't worry about the in laws who care?? You got your boy!! And don't you dare to call him after them! LOL The gf walked out was sooooo rude!!

Fab- I really hope you get a bfp this time !!!

congarts to princessap !!! Hope she come back and post.

Jen- I don't see how is that pic is a nub shot? Can you explain?

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Originally Posted by 3PinkNeedBlue

That's a great line!! Congrats, fx for a sticky blue bean!!

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Oh you think? Thanks! I reallly hope it's a sticky because I don't want to lose more baby!

Flava - That is a BFP!! Congratulations!!!

Thanks foxy!:o

Where is begonia??

FLAVA!!!!!! I am so SO happy for you! OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!
:bluesperm::bluesperm::bluesperm::bluesperm::blues perm:
C'mon team blue :ttcboy:

That is awesome! You know I had a dream about my BFP the night before 9dpo, and I was so freaked out about it I didn't test that morning ... so tested at 10 and that's when I got it. Mine was pretty faint too though, I really wouldn't worry. Nonetheless my FX for a sticky healthy bean for you!

No more blue diet for you :)

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Originally Posted by Flava

Where is begonia??

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Here! Here! You know my scan isn't til tomorrow though right?

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Originally Posted by Flava

Fab- I really hope you get a bfp this time !!!

congarts to princessap !!! Hope she come back and post.

Jen- I don't see how is that pic is a nub shot? Can you explain?

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Is princessap pregnant?!?! Did I miss it?!?! I think of her often; hope that she is, and hope that it is a healthy bean for her too.

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Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children

Hey hun, 6 wks to go ..Wishing you a smooth, easy delivery good luck! I can't believe I was Due in Nov, its very close :( hope I get pregnant before my due date.

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FX for you MFC; I think it will be easier for sure if you get pregnant. One of my BFF's IRL was due the week after me (with her 3rd too) and she lost it :( I am SO hoping she gets pg quickly and that you (and ALL our girls!) do as well.

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Originally Posted by 3PinkNeedBlue

The last post was long so I'm updating here instead :bigsmile:

So weird realization this morning, for the first time since last spring I have nothing to obsess over. I have no sway, nothing to pee on, no symptoms or nubs to google. I was joking with dh, I need a new hobby lol

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I can honestly say part of me is concerned about what I will do when the wondering is over ... on the one hand I want all the thoughts of boy/girl to go away, but what will they be replaced with?!?!

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Originally Posted by Flava

Jen awww I love the little pic!! Don't worry about the in laws who care?? You got your boy!! And don't you dare to call him after them! LOL The gf walked out was sooooo rude!!

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ITA! Precious pictures :) AND ... no naming after IL's, at all. They are (from what you've shared) rotten. On the flip side ... our boy name will be after DH's father (first) and my brother as middle name. I love his parents.

B- yep she got her bfp monday. She didn't post it I ratted her out lol we've been emailing for months now :)
I seriously hope something fills the space in my brain soon, it's really odd right now lol

Flava- I could be wrong, I'm not good at nubs.

Thanks begonia! OMG no more blue diet huh?? That is good because after like 5dpo I had chocolate craving...it was weird because I don't really eat chocolate at all .(exp. the dark for the diet) so I had to go buy puding and yesterday a tiramisu lol.

Funny I thought I don't really have any symptoms!

Jen - is that pic from 20 weeks? because there is no more nub then.
You guys should obsess about baby stuff now!!! There are so many cute things and post bunch of pics of it because I just love looking at them!:p

3PNB - Cute babe, but the nub is gone at this gestation. :) Do you have a name for your little guy?

Thanks foxy and flava! I told ya I'm bad at this nub thing lol

No name yet, we will probably have a list read and name him after he's here. I'll post the list when it's semi-final :)

Thanks for ratting her out Jen ... I can understand her having concerns but there are so many of us who I know still hope the best for her, so I'm happy to know :)

Yes Flava makes an excellent poin! You can totally get all kinds of fun boy stuff!

Ah yes ... no nub, only penis :bigsmile:

I can't believe I'm finding out :suprise: Part of me feels guilty for not telling DH. But he doesn't want to know so .... I just know I'm going to have to lie a lot these next 5 months (especially to other people) and that makes me uncomfortable. I'm trying to categorize it like a Santa Claus lie though ... where the lie is really for someone else's fun? Right?!?

I've been thinking of responses I can have to questions that wouldn't technically be a lie. Like when people say "are you finding out?" I can say "DH wants a delivery surprise and he is going to get it!" ... and "do you think it's a boy/girl?" i can say "i don't like to try to guess." which is true. Umm, what else .... "is waiting hard?" "yes." LOL. that won't be a lie. waiting is hard, so hard I couldn't personally do it :suprise:

ILUV - Cute little bub! :)

Begonia - Good luck on Monday!