Ladies due in Sept/Oct/Nov 2012, gather here!

Nooo.. I have no idea what I am going to do because If i do go to a secret scan I will be going alone I am not going to take anyone, was going to ask my sister but if d/h ended up finding out that I took her he would be so so angry. I am thinking maybe wai for my 20 week one and make my scan for when d/h will be away for work and I will tell him I am not finding out but I will anyway. Hope he believes me!!

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Originally Posted by Butterfly Spirit

Hobber, so are you going to find out or wait until baby is born? :)
I think I've read you are "trying" to wait?

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I am absolutely waiting. I just don't want to see by accident. I know if I hear girl, it will ruin the rest of my pregnancy. Even though I am pretty sure this baby is a girl anyway, if I have it confirmed, it will suck. I know I can handle it way better at birth, so I am waiting. So I will do everything in my power not to find out gender tomorrow!!

Wait, Butterfly, did you have a m/c?? I just saw that in your siggy!! I am so sorry--how did I miss that? :(

Oh Butterfly, I'm so sorry! :(

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Originally Posted by Hobbermittens

Wait, Butterfly, did you have a m/c?? I just saw that in your siggy!! I am so sorry--how did I miss that? :(

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Yes, that's what the doc in the ER told me last Wed. He did the pelvic and said my birth canal was sort of open and my hcg that was 543 went down to 50... and he claimed my uterus was empty from the ultrasound. But I never asked for this evidence. I just took his word!
I did however cramp and pass clots after that. I wish I would have confirmed it, but I was SO upset at the time, and now I'm worried my body might still pretend it's prego. I had a wave of nausea yesterday among other things.

If you check my profile I wrote a bit there, then Vitex Time, then I named her this morn when DH had a dream and I wrote a thread about it there.

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Originally Posted by pinkin2011

Nooo.. I have no idea what I am going to do because If i do go to a secret scan I will be going alone I am not going to take anyone, was going to ask my sister but if d/h ended up finding out that I took her he would be so so angry. I am thinking maybe wai for my 20 week one and make my scan for when d/h will be away for work and I will tell him I am not finding out but I will anyway. Hope he believes me!!

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I just don't want you to go insane, so I wanted you to do a scan so you would be relieved and know either way.

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Originally Posted by fivebabies

Oh Butterfly, I'm so sorry! :(

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Thanks fivebabies! Are you going to the doc tomorrow to get things checked out?

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Originally Posted by Butterfly Spirit

I just don't want you to go insane, so I wanted you to do a scan so you would be relieved and know either way.

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I am going insane!!!! I Dont know what to do!!! if i get an early scan done its 2 and a half hrs away.. Oh I dont know what to do

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Originally Posted by pinkin2011

I am going insane!!!! I Dont know what to do!!! if i get an early scan done its 2 and a half hrs away.. Oh I dont know what to do

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You can get a scan done TODAY!?
Or you mean the distance from home?

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Originally Posted by Butterfly Spirit

Yes, that's what the doc in the ER told me last Wed. He did the pelvic and said my birth canal was sort of open and my hcg that was 543 went down to 50... and he claimed my uterus was empty from the ultrasound. But I never asked for this evidence. I just took his word!
I did however cramp and pass clots after that. I wish I would have confirmed it, but I was SO upset at the time, and now I'm worried my body might still pretend it's prego. I had a wave of nausea yesterday among other things.

If you check my profile I wrote a bit there, then Vitex Time, then I named her this morn when DH had a dream and I wrote a thread about it there.

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I'm so sorry. That's awful. :( I think you picked a beautiful name for her. :heart: