Originally Posted by
stephk
Literally everyone who knows has asked me if we will find out the gender. And I have told the truth, that I like the idea of a surprise but I am not sure whether I will be able to wait. So I will decide at the time of the scan whether I want to know or not.
I know myself and I will likely want to know but at the same time, I am keeping it in reserve so that if I do find out and its a boy I can then decide whether to tell people I know, or lie and say I am leaving it as a surprise. Just to defect anyone feeling sorry for me or whatever, which I dont want.
Given how much I am showing already it probably is another big boy growing in there!!