Oh kasey how horrible:(. I'm so sorry.
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Oh kasey how horrible:(. I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry kasey, what a horrible thing to be going through.
Sorry to you Kasey, sending strength and healing your way.
My nausea sounds as bad as most of you ladies on here. Have to eat every 2 hours to keep it at bay. I'm worse in the afternoons/evenings. Still hopefully it means all is well with the growing baby!
I feel like I just won't get my desired gender. Like it would be too much of a good thing to get. Never wanted something so bad as this and already feel guilty for the probable 3rd boy in my tummy :( sorry to moan as I know others are going through such grief termoil at the moment. To add to this I know 2 mum friends who have boys same age as my oldest and now expecting their girls. I so want to be happy for them and feel that I could be happy for everyone as long as I get my girl...know what I mean??
I know exactly how you feel. EVERYONE around me is having boys. I, too, feel like it would just be too good for me to get a boy as well. I don't know how I'll deal with the devastation if this baby is another girl.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ugee
So glad we can say it on here belleboi! To know we are not alone with our thoughts is reassuring and it's not just me. I know it sounds crazy but feel I would be a better person if I got my girl...like I would enjoy hearing announcements and not feel like I want to hide away! Really have true happiness for people instead of trying to force out a smile when I should. I truly love my boys and wouldn't change them but i already feel some gender disappointment at the prospect of this being another boy.
I know JUST how you feel. A friend gleefully told me today she was sure it was another boy. I smiled but the way she smirked when she said it (she has a PP) was so obnoxious. I've been saying we think it is another boy and really I wouldn't mind another boy but when people respond like this I want it to be a girl just to spite them. It's so awful!!Quote:
Originally Posted by belleboi
yes and the guilt for feeling like you'd be a better person is the worst! Like we should just be happy to have a baby...but it's not good enough. These are all thoughts I could NEVER admit to people in real life. It's so reassuring knowing that other people feel the same.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ugee
About the nausea thingie
I cant eat every 2 hours as anything I eat stays in my stomach for looong that I wish to throw up to get rid of it :(
I wish I could tell you it was sunshine and rainbows on the other side of the fence. A good majority of our family still refuses to accept shes a girl. Because I was disappointed that our first was a boy and based off ultrasound pictures that no other doctor could make heads or tails of. I was just in denial giving the doctors a hard time because thats not what I wanted to hear. And now this time since I got told what I wanted at 15 weeks (no such thing in their eyes its 20 weeks or nothing) they are all "we will see what they say at 20 weeks). Our happy happy announcement left us both wanting to hide in the house to avoid the drama. We told ourselves the entire time its most likely a boy, we dont have that kind of luck, etc etc etc. And of course we heard the same thing from family. So we dealt with it and even still get the comments raining on our parade. So I definitely feel all of you in the current and from the past pregnancy! THIS is a girl, we are happy they need to keep their misery to themselves lol!
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Nahri- Sorry that they are bringing your should be happy time down! Still when your 20 week scan comes and says girl again you can middle finger them lol! Ha ha!
Business woman- your m/s sounds awful, poor you! Food helps for me but god am I going to be huge if this carries on longer than the 12 weeks lol.
If this baby is a boy I'm afraid the need for a girl will go on in my life till I'm going to be a crazy old lady buying life like baby dolls and putting them in girls clothes pushing a blooming pram down the street! People will say "look there is the crazy baby lady" ha ha!
I need to grow some extra middle fingers for the amount I want to shove in some of their faces Ugee LOL
I'm slowly getting around telling friends and family about this pregnancy. Everyone seems really happy for us. But, the first question I'm being asked by EVERYONE is when will you find out the sex. Like that's the most important thing. Not, how are you feeling? When's the baby due? Etc. Its really surprised me. I have friends emailing and texting me asking me if I know yet! I'm going to take great pleasure in making everyone wait until its born :)
I have a drs ap this arvo. Will see if I can get a sneaky scan in. I am 15 weeks. Eeekkk.
I know that feeling only 2 well I have 5 boys all mine but trust me even if it's a boy again you forget about gd as soon as you hold them in your arms and each shot is 50-50 chance or gender so don't lose hope , I found out with the first 3 of mine with the 4th I left it nd the day before I was due baby was breech so the mw turned him, when the scanned me I seen him in all his glory told the so no lady oh its another boy , she then turned asked what I had when I said boys she went mad and said the screen was for her took look at I was devastated... spent the afternoon crying .. I decided then I would fine out as it's easier on myself 4 was the only one I mulled over girls items and wondered if it was and was so emotional with all the rest I waited til I knew the gender then shopped so I wasn't tortured as much .....will you be finding out gender big hugsQuote:
Originally Posted by zahararose
Isn't it crazy how everyone asks??? I'm never asking someone that again.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sarah4girl
So the scan was a bit of a disappointment. My dr said before going in that she isn't confidant looking at gender this early. She scanned for a bit of the potty area. There really wasn't anything obvious- no turtle or 3 lines. The machine in her office is crap. The ones the techs uses are awesome- plus they seem to have a better idea of angles etc. my dr didn't even zoom in or really try to see :( I guess no obvious willy is a good thing! Will try post some pics and the video!
Sorry about the scan Sarah but I'm excited to see pictures :)
Sarah: how dissapointing but please post the photos and maybe we can guess!
Hi ladies... I can't remember if I came back to update or not... I don't think I did... I got my results back from the early gender blood work... I am having a healthy baby boy... so my sway didn't work, but we are totally ok with that! I know my little 18 month old boy will LOVE being a big brother to a little brother :)
Congrats Carly andlee your little boy will LOVE having a best friend! X
congrats!!!!
CongratulationsQuote:
Originally Posted by carlyandlee
sorry your sway didnt go as planned carly. Your three boys will have a special bond that brothers have :) And if in the future you decide for another your potential girl will have quite the protection squad of older brothers :)
Carly, congratulations on a healthy baby boy :D I have no doubt he will fill you with lots of love.
I did write a post yesterday via the app. Of course it wasn't a small post and as I tried to send it, my internet dropped out causing me to lose the post.
I definitely know exactly where you are all coming from. It's so great to come on here and find like minded people with love and support. This truly is my special haven to come to when I need to talk
So, speaking of those kind of things. My NT scan is this morning. In fact, I need to be there in just over an hour :eek: I hoped to have a good sleep. Yeah, that didn't happen at all :( Instead, I tossed and turned what felt like every single hour :( I even had a terrible dream I was walking in a street market and there was a street fighter there and he kicked me hard in the stomach :( Such a random dream to have. Clearly I am more worried about this scan then I first thought :(
I'm so excited to read everyone's posts to hear what they are having and how they are feeling. I'm feeling pretty sick and craving eggs! I had a small bleed last night at 8 weeks but had a scan and there was a strong heartbeat of 170bpm. Sickness is reassuring that the pregnancy is strong but I've already put on 5lbs! : /
Congrats!!! :) I am glad that you are doing OK and I am sure that he will be a great addition!Quote:
Originally Posted by carlyandlee
I've had my scan now. I won't get nt results till next appointment. I'm not certain confident with the nub shot quality. I will still post in nub theory and skull theory. I have my suspicions of bubs gender already though.
me+4, I'm glad your scan showed a healthy bub and healthy heart beat. That must be a huge relief xx
Ive really got my fingers crossed for you boysway. Those are decent shots and look very promising!
Looking good for a boy boysway! Soooo happy for you X
Ohhh, I really hope so ladies.
The baby stopped growing. I'm going to the hospital now. Absolutely devastated. Don't care at all about my sway anymore. I can't believe I miscarried this late after seeing a heart beat. Happy Birthday me.
Junie, so sorry to hear this xxx
Oh junie I'm so so sorry to hear this! That's terrible and I'm really gutted for you! Sending hugs and love your way.
Oh Junie I am so, so, sorry. Sending you all my love, strength and healing xxx
Oh no Junie!! How many weeks were you?? So sorry to hear this :(
Junie I am so sorry:( sending my thoughts and prayers.
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Boysway I'm running to look at your scan!!
Junie i am SO SORRY
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Junie so sorry :(
I was 12 wks Sarah but it looks like baby stopped developing a week ago. We will start trying ASAP, I no longer feel comfortable doing an actual sway so have to hope that the miscarriage will work in my favor for a girl. I'm a little loopy due to the narcotics but feel OK about it all. Obviously I am sad but I have a good feeling that we will have a successful pregnancy in 2015. I must admit that I am so impressed by the strength of women who go through multiple miscarriages.
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I am so sorry Jun