Happylea, I really hope you get to have a little girl to buy clothes for, and your DS gets the sister he wants. I hate that people have to make comments! Why should it matter how many kids you have?
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Happylea, I really hope you get to have a little girl to buy clothes for, and your DS gets the sister he wants. I hate that people have to make comments! Why should it matter how many kids you have?
thanks ladies! its going to take a while to sink in! it will probably sink in when I go baby shopping! TTC5 you're next! :P
PP, I know you are right, but it is really hard to see it that way. I know my kids will love any sibling they get, and we will love the baby if it is a girl. I just need to make peace with it, I guess.
Hobber, you aren't sounding ungrateful....just trying to shake the fear from you a little bit. You are super lucky in every way, you really are....no one in the world is going to think you are a failure. Honestly, outside of your DH and maybe a few extended family members, no one really gives a shit what kids you have. Your friends don't care, they love you and your kids all the same, just as your DH and all do, so try not to look at it that way. I don't mean to post the same old "don't have GD" drivel, because I know you've heard it all, but I hate reading that you feel upset, and you don't even know what you are having! Your DS will live if he never has a brother. Life will go on for him and he'll be the little king of his castle and love every minute of life as long as you guys keep on being a happy family.
Hobber I hope you get your little boy, we all have dreams and wishes in life and I hope your dream comes true, think positive you never know until you see between the legs so don't be afraid to hope that it could be, whatever happens you will be happy, we always love our children no matter what and you will love your new baby too.
Thanks Lola... this made me cry a little bit. :heart:Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
It just hurts to hear the kids all say (all 3 of them) that the baby is a boy, because I know they will be a little disappointed if they are wrong (though I know they will love whoever the baby is). I know DH only cares about my reaction--he doesn't give a crap about gender. I am a little worried about my sister, because she has GBB, and was pretty smug about getting a second boy after I had DD2, and told her about my GD. She is always trying to one-up me, so I am sure she will have something to say.
But really, why should it matter? Why do I care so much? Why am I so lame that I have to judge my happiness and worth by the gender of my kids? I wish there was some way to brainwash the GD out of me!
Bumblebee HUGE Congrats!!!! Wow it must of felt soooooo good when she told you BOY! Good on you!! xoxo
Thank you Bumblebee!! I am so glad your dream came true!! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Bumblebee
thanks ladies, I been trying to update some topics to add my sway information and any useful info, I hope I haven't left anything out, want to help as much as possible. Am knackered now, goodnight all and take good care xx Good luck with your scan TTC5 :)
Bumblebee - what fantastic news!!! Congrats, hun! Enjoy shopping for BLUE!!!