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Yes I know what u mean Fish. I do feel very selfish and guilty sometimes being so desperate for another girl when I already have one and many of you ladies are dreaming for the chance at getting one girl. So I do have to remind myself that I do already have that dream. My dream is to give her a sister and even up the household. Time will tell, 3 sleeps until I know!
I've just managed to catch up after a few busy days. DH's cousin is staying over for the weekend so its been a little mad.
Salsa so exciting, i dont know how you have managed to wait so long. Cant wait to find out what you are having.
We are done with kids now. no more or us as 3 is a good number. I was so broody after DS2 and thought i would never talk DH into having a 3rd but i did. The second i saw that positive test all broodyness went out the window and was replaced by panic. Ill now have my little girl and my 2 boys and i can honestly say my family will be complete. We are so sure DH is going for the snip when this baby is born x
Oh salsa didn't mean your desire for a dd wasn't as valid Hun just less stressful for your dds if there are two to carry the weight of expectation!
Daltag that's how we felt too till wk 16 ;-(. Maybe we will again newborn is not my favourite stage!
Please don't ever feel that way Salsa, I think gender desire can be just as severe even if you already have a daughter. I know many people feel very strongly that their daughter needs a sister and so it is like you want it not only for yourself, but for her as well.Quote:
Originally Posted by Salsa
GD is not about boy vs. girl, it is about getting the family that you dreamed of. :heart: for some that may be 6 boys, for others it may be one girl.
No one ever needs to feel funny about wanting a second or third or 10th of the same gender! :) Girls are awesome and it makes sense that you would want another. I was thrilled to ahve a second son because I thought it was great for my eldest to ahve a brother. There are people on here swaying for sisters for their daughters and brothers for their sons (and brothers for sisters and sisters for brothers too of course.)
Thank you Atomic. That makes me feel a lot better. I grew up with just a sister and we have a wonderful bond. I'd love my DD to have that. I thought that was just the best. But now having had 2 boys I know how amazing and special have a mix family is and feel very blessed I get to give all my children the chance to experience what it's like to have brothers and sisters. Something I never had, I never missed, but can now see how wonderful it is! 2 more sleeps and we'll know!
Yay my mom will be here tomorrow I'm so excited! Also, DH was able to feel the baby last night for the first time! That's always a big deal for him because it doesn't really seem real for him until he can feel and interact with this little guy!
Yay Thorz!!! How exciting for you! You'll have such a lovely time with your mum here for so long! Good timing with your sprain as well! Are you still wearing the boot?
So lovely when bubs kicks get strong enough that husbands can get in on the action too. My DH has just started to feel our bubs move in the last day or two now and I must admit it really adds to the excitement of it all!! 2 sleeps until I know if I have a ballerina or a footballer kicking away in there!
My baby is insane! I can see my whole stomach move all the time... He's going to be wild :s he's very active through the. Ought which my other boys would sleep at night ... I can't believe we only have 4 months left! I hope to have him two weeks early
Wow WAG! Sounds like there is a party going on in your uterus! Lol I know the next 4 months will fly by, as I'm sure you're all the same as me, so busy with our other kids the days just disappear. Starting to get a few things sorted now which makes me feel a little bit more prepared.
Ya I've been starting to get stuff ready for him and ya the kids keep me busy... My last baby was a winter baby so I hibernated this time I can't do that as much as I want to... It's hard to chase ds3 around he's such a bugger lol we don't have a fence yet but are going to get one in the next couple of weeks so I'm looking forward to being able to sit and watch him play.... I get painful contractions anytime I do anything physical and it scares me :s tw more weeks til viability for me!
Def a party going on in there I've never had such and active baby... I'm scared he's going to be a bad boy ;) lol
I have one more prenatal with my GP in June I get to see my OB yay! I love him! He let me shadow him for a few weeks a couple years ago it was the best experience ever!