September 2013 babies!!

Thorz I'm pretty bad too.... Yu will be back to your normal self after the babe is here... Unless ur cranky when sleep deprived which I'm and very nasty with no sleep lol fingers crossed we get good babies :)

Thanks everyone. And I have 2 older sister so can relate to the bond, loved growing up with them altho I have 2 brother s too.
DLTA- my DD wanted a brother but shes come round to the idea already. Just to pick a name now or should I say convince my OH to allow the chosen one x

So I had a pretty intense, boarder line graphic dream about my ex last night, I feel guilty now lol! I know it was just a dream, and I can't control those, but why was he in my subconscious in the first place!?!?! Now I've gotta get the dream out of my head! Lol has this happened to anyone else during pregnancy?

Also, I justhada friend give me a hard time because my oldest is still in a 5 point harness cars seat. He is 6.5 years old, and I plan on keeping in one as long as he fits! I just feel they are much safer. I dont want to move him to a booster just because I can! I want him to be the safest possible. Im bothered she gave me a hard time, and made it sound like it was unsafe to be in it, so I looked it up, and nothing I found says its unsafe for him to still bein a 5 point harness. Sometimes people just need to keep their opinions to themselves because that's exactly all it is, her opinion, I found nothing that says he is too big or too old. His height and weight is still below the limit of the seat!!

Congrats LadyLaura, your DD will have a lifelong friend now!
Good luck Fish and Salsa now.

Thorz it is by far the safest option. Ignore what other people say. Often it is their own insecurities that make them say thoughtless things. I will be keeping my kids in the 5 point harness as long as possible. They are all still of a legal age where it's the law to be in one, but just by turning a certain age doesn't magically make it any more safe just for going into a booster! Stick to your guns, they are your precious babies. No one else's x

Friends are always so judgmental it's annoying! They always think they know best and can't help but push their opinion... I think it's safer to have him in a 5 point... Tell her to concentrate on her own children

I have had sex dreams quite a few times and all with no DH lol... I don't feel too guilty about it... Who knows what skanky trash he dream about lol

Oh Thorz my friend has her 3 year old in a booster?!? Madness mine will stay in chairs until they physically won't fit anymore!

Hey so news not clear cut again ;-s the cysts are now very very small! Not totally gone but v small however the gall bladder is slightly enlarged some people think that may be a marker for genetic issues but the professor at my hospital doesn't and the evidence is very limited so kinda positive, they offered us amnio which we refused and they didn't push it - we live by faith and not by sight! Praying were not burying our heads in the sand! Back for follow up in june mainly cause i told them how rubbish my local hospital were at 20 wks I think!

So feeling more positive ;-)

Going to start my healthy eating exercises regime tomorrow ;-) being a bit down has made me pile on the pounds a bit ;-s

Anyone considering a home birth here I was before all the drama of this preggie wondering about now......

My neighbour put his toddler in a infant car seat forward facing! I have seen so many infants in their infant seat forward facing it is insane! I see toddlers sitting in the front seat it's crazy people do not think I swear!

Hey fish , I'll have a planned c section this time. Did have with my second too. I would never consider home birth as I'm half hour from hospital and with my first if we hadn't been in hospital don't think he'd be here today! I had perfect pregnancy and up to 4 cm labour , next min his heart rate dropped and there wasn't enough time for epidural so they put me to sleep and got him out within 3 mins. He was pretty bad when u came out, he was pretty stuck in me so they had to use a ventouse on his forehead to gt him out during c section. So for this reason I would never recommend home birth. I know everyone different just my view. What names do u all like? Emmi, Lia , Milli or Elle ..