Has anyone ever wondered if someday...years from now...there will be ways to ensure you get the gender you want? Like a pill to take or something lol? I know it sounds far fetched but I could see it happening!!
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Has anyone ever wondered if someday...years from now...there will be ways to ensure you get the gender you want? Like a pill to take or something lol? I know it sounds far fetched but I could see it happening!!
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JDD -big hugs- Like i told Jenren i will not compare my pain to yours because honestly i think there is a special place in my heart for someone who wants a daughter and doesnt get one....that goes for you too jenren...and anyone still wondering what their dream daughter would be like.i know all too well how hard my own mother prayed after 2 boys and very luckily got me (in her opinion..idk that i was that much of a blessing in mine though i did give her a bunch of granddaughters! LOL)
As for the idea of the pill, some day that may happen. i think i'll be dead and cold in the ground by the time it does though lol
I just finished having my morphology scan done. The sex was confirmed 100% girl. My son now has 4 sisters, just one more and we would be the Kardashians! Not going to happen though we have decided that hubby will get a vasectomy soon before the birth. She measured 18w + 4d.
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Gender potty shots
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Poking her tounge out
Silly and adorable baby girl cinss
Aww congrats on your girl (officially now) Cinss. I'm sure your DS will be well looked after with all those sisters :)
I have been feeling a lot move movement in the last day or two so it is nice and reassuring :) I'm feeling pretty small for almost 17wks but I think it was because I was so big with DS2... hopefully I will stay around the size I was first time.
This nurse here is a real cunt. She pities me for having my 4th girl. She can't professionally say tat obviously, but when your eyes get wide and you sort of scoff/chuckle when you ask a patient what they found out the gender is and they say it's their 4th girl you can kind of tell what her train of thought is.
This was my biggest fear about having all one gender more than anything else. I feel broken and ashamed that my body wouldn't even give me one son.
For anyone who hasn't had the blood work wondering what results look likeAttachment 33219
Sorry burakoam, that's one of my biggest concerns of having "another" boy, other people's reactions! Already those who know I'm pregnant have expressed their desire for me to have a girl; I've even been told that I "deserve" to have a girl this time?!! I didn't quite get the angle on that, but I felt slightly offended either way?!x
So are they saying you didn't "deserve" a girl the other times? People say stupid stuff!Quote:
Originally Posted by 3'sacharm
I remember when I was pregnant with my first and I didn't know what I was having. Someone I worked with (a man) said "I hope it is a boy as every man deserves a son". I was so offended by that as I wanted a girl and thought I should deserve one too since I'm the one doing all the hard work! He went on to have a girl first but then got his son next so has the perfect pigeon pair family. I also bet he never said this to our boss as he had 3 girls (and wasn't too happy about it either).
I'm sorry you are having people treat you that way Burakom. I think that was also one of my big fears that if I was having another boy everyone would be disappointed with me or pity me. When you are already feeling disappointed you really don't need other people's disappointment, especially when they have nothing much to do with your life or family. I guess if you don't tell them then they will say "oh I hope its a boy" and then that would be annoying too. Pretending like you are super happy about it could stop them giving you the pity treatment, although you might find it a bit hard to do when you are not really feeling it.