Bluebooties - You are smart! I cried last night bc I’m so tired of the ugly comments like people say 3 girls and shake their heads. Kills me every time. I wish we hadn’t told bc yes, that’s all anyone cares about!
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Bluebooties - You are smart! I cried last night bc I’m so tired of the ugly comments like people say 3 girls and shake their heads. Kills me every time. I wish we hadn’t told bc yes, that’s all anyone cares about!
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No results from glucose test yet, not worried though!
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Hugs Kat. I know. Comments hurt the most and make u not enjoy. I for now am getting very comfortable with the idea of a 4th girl but i know as soon as i will hear the comments i will hate my self and my life. These ppl they don't understand how there words can ruin the other person.Quote:
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I had a woman ask me at a store today if I just hadn’t tried for a boy or what? Ughhhhh
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OMG !! Such audacity ! Don't ppl know better than to mess with a pregnant lady !Quote:
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Ignore such ppl srg. They don't deserve our time and thought.
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I think i overdid it today. Lower belly feels sore and heavy [emoji26].
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Hugs ladies. So sorry you all are getting the gender comments too. I had a rough day with it at church and they have no idea how much it made me cry. It started with a pregnant woman wearing a shirt that said "It's a girl". Ugh.
TTCblue – CVS requires a sample taken from your tummy/cervix, not your own blood via the usual arm blood sample so it couldn’t have been cvs they did for you??
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chorionic_villus_sampling
Keeping our FX for you and your little man!
Bluebooties – I would take that as a compliment too – I am huge, people reckon I am ready to pop! lol
Hope you feel better soon – working, young kids to mind plus a pregnancy does take it out of ya!
Kat – big hugs my dear :hugs: I can so, so so understand….
:hugs: to all of you that also have gotten the stupid comments, once again.
Gosh how insensitive people are – before I even had kids myself, never would it have crossed my mind to make such a comment to a person about their family composition –it makes my blood boil soooo bad! I am at the point where I think I will become really nasty to anyone that dares make any more comments like that to us – especially with my girls there…so rude, so stupid, so insensitive. They clearly don’t realise the hurt or damage they can cause…
I got a couple comments from people at church today I’m sure they mean well but it still irritates me he says to ds1 your world is about to change BIG time with a girl in the house... even one girl will change the entire dynamic of your house and your world is about to be flipped upside down.. [emoji19] really? That’s a wonderful thing to say to my eldest. And someone else asks how she will even survive in a house full of boys. Well pretty sure our house will be just fine the boys know there is a girl coming. I’ve come to accept the fact she will more than likely fit in just fine with her brothers (aka Tom boy) and be able to hold her own just fine. People just don’t tthink before they talk
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sorry everyone's getting these stupid comments :( when i just had the boys and used to get all the "dont you wish you had a girl" type comments 24/7 i was never shy of pulling out the "we have a girl but she passed away" line, that soon shut them up but maybe it was a bit harsh of me!!
Ash when i was pregnant with #5 (my living DD1) i had a midwife say "how is a girl going to fit into this house?!" (4 boys) i did reply with something along the lines of "well we've been waiting for over 4 years for her since our first baby girl passed away" and safe to say she didnt comment again but it shouldn't have to come to that really, people should just be happy for you or keep their mouths shut!! girls are different to boys, its a very different experience just dressing a girl for example but your world isnt going to implode because your having a daughter you guys will be fine and she will fit right in perfectly :)