Thanks ladies :) so I'm only 3 dpo and a few strange things going on.I have more fertile CM now than I did at O.tmi lots,but then In thinking it's because I was taking the antihistamine at O KWIM.also my cervix is so high I can barely reach it.it feel as firm as it usually would at this many DPO but way high up.something or nothing I suppose.time wil tell.sorry your out TTC5 and LBAM and YM hope you get that BFP.I soo want to wait till Christmas day to test nut I know what I'm like,usually a 7DPO gal lol.and I have 25 10 mui test here callin my name.at this moment I am resisting but I can't say how long that will last.also in the past I've had BFP 9 and 10 DPO so even if I get a BFN Christmas day.I will be hopeful for boxing day.I just know I'm going to be devastated if we havnt caught that egg this month.last attempt was as close o perfect I could ever get it and TBH I havnt the energy to do it all again next month.well rant over GL everyone !