Another thing, for those who have used preseed how were your O, i had the most intense O the last 2 nights i've used it, wow!
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Another thing, for those who have used preseed how were your O, i had the most intense O the last 2 nights i've used it, wow!
That's what I'm blaming.Quote:
Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children
You are kidding about your college beau! Wow, I think I would start to get a complex....why don't you want to look at me :(. LOL! I think my DH doesn't like having to do that postion but then again I've heard no complaints. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
Sorry about your ex. I know you know this, but I can garuntee his life isn't perfect and in front of you they will always put their best face forward.
OK, this is CD17 for me and still bleeding. I put a tampon in this morning and I think AF decided so start on CD15 instead of O. WTH. We dtd on CD12 and I did have a too light of a line but very visable line on CD12 or CD13 (I forget when I posted about it) but when i got home at 5p.m., it was completely white negative and has been white negative since. Minus 2 days of very light test lines w/ 2nd Morning Urine only.
We dtd the dance last night but I'm calling it. This sucks!! I feel like I've wasted several months of ttc w/ these supps when I would've been better off on my own. DH told me yes in the beginning of March.
I take folic acid, zinc, B12, Fish Oil, Vitamin E, green tea extract and fertilecm, mucinex, URAL. I'm thinking about cutting out the fertilecm and anything else do you think like Green tea? I'm so dissapointed and this is total BS. I shouldn't have messed with what wasn't broken. :( I haven't been happy with the CM i've gotten for several cycles anyway.
What do you think? I really wanted to be pregnant by now. I'm gonna be nowhere near the time I gave birth to DS2.
You got right around it either way, right. I would think you are doing good, but I know NOTHING. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by babydes56
MFC - AF with no O, I'm frustrated for you :worry:
Lola - My dh isn't a fan of doggy. He knows it doesn't do much for me, it's easy to hurt me and it's sort of a "let's get this over with" pity sex kinda position lol He'd much rather watch :wink:
On Kahrma, dh's bro and wife have always been arrogant. He walks around telling anyone who who listen how much money he makes and she talks about their "perfect family" with one boy and one girl knowing we want a boy. Well Januaryish of last year he lost his job, he works construction and has had to do piece work and borrow tons of money from her parents so they don't lose their house ever since. I don't like to admit it but it's nice to see certain people knocked off their high horse.
Baby - are you sure it's the pre-seed and not the diet creating a more fantastic O? The longer I've been on the diet the more amazing they've become, thank you testosterone.
Iluv - sorry this is so frustrating for you, have you talked to your Dr about this screwyness?
I don't know that there's a point until I stop some supps. Maybe if it doesn't change. I'm thinking the FertileCM s/b the only supps that I take that should be messing w/ me like this. This just has never been an issue before.Quote:
Originally Posted by 3PinkNeedBlue
Starting your AF 10 days after the last one is such crap either way. I broke out for 3 weeks and was so hormonal now starting again. It's just so wrong. :)
Is this the first month things have been goofy? Sorry I don't remember:oops:
Yes you can mine was 7.0 with my last sway.Quote:
Originally Posted by TTC5
That's what I do too :hair:Quote:
Originally Posted by SpicyTunaSushi
:agree: Skip it if you can deal with letting this month go.Quote:
Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children
L, do it again!!! Keep going, catch that egg, girl!Quote:
Originally Posted by babydes56
No, my March cycle was messed up too w/ 2 AF's coming too close to each other. I thought my body was still changing from giving birth to DS2 and last cycle was perfect. I have to assume my March cycle was messed up from supps too. I'm having heavy flow right now just like normal AF so I doubt there's anything but AF going on here. This AF is typical of normal except for the timing of it.
It's highly possible you're still evening out from delivering but if it happens again I'd call your dr. I'm not a dr person but I'm crazy about keeping my reproductive system healthy.
I just read some reviews from early pregnancy test.com where someone said that their cycles got messed up from FertileCm and this was the Merchant Response:
"Thank you for your comments. Just want to note that there are no ingredients in FertileCM that exert a hormonal influence, so ovulation/menstruation should not be affected by its usage."
THen what the heck else could it be!
WTH?!! That's so crazy right? I can't believe what's happening here, so sorry girl. I feel exactly the same way I've wasted almost a year of ttc w/these supps. I feel so sorry for my self :(. I'm not happy with my CM either. It's gotton worst since my m/c.Quote:
Originally Posted by iluvmyman
I would cut down fertilecm and maybe green tea. Did you concieved your sons with swaying? If not then I won't sway, maybe just light sway, but that's just me I think you have a good chance to concieve a son again. I concieved my son with swaying I know without I will easy have another girl, but since I got my DS I would sway, but not hard.
Again I'm so sorry this is happening to you-hugs!
Princess, hope this is it for you also....and you Babydes, I think you are fine but like I said earlier, I'd maybe do one more try tonight to seal the deal. And hey, if you are having a good time (thanks to testosterone and preseed!), they why not, eh?
Thanks for lifting my spirits about this ex baby thing. I think you gals are right, I just want to see something NOT go right for them, but that is a really crappy karma thing on my part. And they probably have a terrible marriage, I cannot imagine any woman being happy with him, he is a miserable crazy-maker. I literally almost went totally crazy until I finally realized that if I stayed with him, it would only be a matter of years before I was completely depressed and an alcoholic or something....and I didn't want that for my baby girls either, so I split. Anyway, he just continually jabs me at every opportunity. My current DH wants to SLAY him, but I tell him it's my battle and he didn't sign up for that, just for me and the girls when we got married.
Anywhoooooo......ok, SEX topic again......TTC5, I wish my DH wanted to do that. I am actually having a hard time getting him to try new things. I am afraid to damage his ego for many reasons, but I have told him that he needs to step it up in learning how to make me O. I used to do what Spicy did with others pre-DH (and even ex-DH) where while dtd, either he or I would help myself out. But current DH doesn't know, I don't think he's had a woman be like, "Ok, buddy, here's the deal, SOMEONE has to work this thing here or I'm not happy." Once he's back in town, we are going to work on this, because with ttc for the last 9 months and all, our sex life has not progressed like it should. I may go to the sex toy store after work and see what they have that might be enticing. But this is the only way we can make things more spicy, is to communicate and try new stuff, so I say go for it TTC5 and just don't be inhibited, it will probably be AMAZING!
Iluv, girl, I would post a thread on the ttc forum here about your bleeding in hopes that Atomic will answer.....I don't think it's possible to have AF 2 weeks early, but I don't know.....that makes me a little worried for you. You know, if you recall from her threads, she was pg with twins and lost one, which she thought was AF, then thought she was back to square one when the other twin was still doing well. I know you said you had a negative hpt, so that is likely not the case, but do post your issue because the collective wisdom on this site will definitely help!
TTC5, so sorry you are sick! I would not hesitate at all to do the vapor rub and steam. I don't know if you plan to still attempt this month in lieu of being sick, but if you do, just don't take any cold meds that dry you up! I REALLY don't put much stock in ions and moon phase and all that stuff, because like 3pnb, I would have boys. I don't disregard it completely, like, it makes me happy when it lines up for a boy now when we attempt, but I don't hold off because of it. I hope you feel better, hun! How's your momma?
MFC, SOOOOO sorry you had an effed up cycle!!! Do you think it was the supps? I am going to go check out your successful sway for your DS.....hope your weight loss is doing well also. Still not on Atkins, just dealing one day at a time this week. I swear, every time my DH goes out of town for work, the worst shit ever happens. Last time was during my horrid m/c a month ago! But, I am a little freaked of the Atkins now that I saw Atomic say it can sway girl because of the low blood sugar issues. I think I'm just gonna keep up with my Metabolife and tiny appetite this month and see how it turns out. I'll even take a 5 lb loss, better than nothing. Are you going to the dr anytime about your cycle or just seeing what happens? I'm so sorry, hun, that is very irritating.....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrr
fertilecm contains L'arg, maybe that's why.Quote:
Originally Posted by iluvmyman
Thanks MFC, I know you've been through your fair share w/ the sway. I did email my Dr. although, I think he's gonna give me some canned response back and tell me to stop everything and call him in a year. Maybe he'll be nice though. :) I felt like an idiot telling him I've been changing my diet to ttc boy. He's not an alternative kind of guy so we'll see what he says.Quote:
Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children
Debating about the supps. I think I'll start w/ the fertilecm and green tea. The rest should be nbd. Thanks, I'm an emotional cry baby today. :)
That is exactly why. FertileCM not only made me O about 4 days late, but also DRIED ME UP something fierce, the, um, total opposite effect it is supposed to have.Quote:
Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children
GL w/ DH on the bedroom scene. Sounds like you know what you want and what you're doing just bringing it up in a loving on non-u suck kind of way. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
Thanks Lola, I posted an Ovulation bleeding thread plus a little something on her sticky about it so hopefully she'll see it and maybe have some thoughts. I emailed my Dr. too but we'll see. This flow is just like my normal. 2 days of not too much then 3-4 days of really heavy then 1-2 days of very light old blood. Day 3 is heavy. I'll take an OPK later but it's can't be anything but AF. IDK.
I forgot about that and yes, it does. I've read that L'arg can affect cycles.Quote:
Originally Posted by My Fabulous Children
I was questioning it anyway since I haven't been happy with my CM since I started it but I was thinking maybe I was crazy and it wasn't the FertileCM. I'm stopping it today and we'll see what happens.Quote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
thanks Lola....I already feel like I am out this month. I am crampy today and I am only 4dpo so maybe af will be early. It sucks not getting pregnant.
Iluv. sorry to hear u are having issues. I was having bleeding every two weeks for a bit and my Ob said it was either stress or my body adjusting from my loss and d&c. It sucks when things dont go as planned. Hope your
dr gives you some answers.
who is in tww??
I'm 7dpo and feeling a bfn coming on too Princess. We are two gloomy gus's this month :sad:
I remember w/ DD2 I was complaining to DH that I didn't get a BFP cuz I felt super super pms crabby and I pitched a fit. But I was in fact pregnant and hormonal from that, so you never know. I felt the same way last month when I got a BFN around DPO 7 though and called it at DPO 11. I sure hope someone gets a BFP. I got chills when I read someone's BFP on 2ww from the girl camp. It can happen just not to this wonderful group of ladies. There's still hope!Quote:
Originally Posted by 3PinkNeedBlue
I lost our son almost 6 months ago so I would be shocked but you never know. Last month was just so right on. I've been reading that it can be due to stress and diet too. I might just have to really re-evaluate my sway and maybe go light. I really want a bfp too. But I dropped the fertilecm today.Quote:
Originally Posted by princessap
well, I don't even know what to say seems like everyone is going through it. I would just like to say I hope come June we all get everything we are looking for and June starts off more positive.
Maybe this will start the positive vibe. The past few weeks were the scariest weeks of my life. A few weeks ago I went to the doctor because I wasn't feeling good. I had all kinds of blood work done, and then my Doctor feels my left breast and he finds a lump. He asks me if I had a mammogram before, I say no. He said do you have family history of Breast cancer. I said yes, 3 aunts have passed, my grandma and great grandma. He ordered and immediate mammogram. I am 29, apparently the youngest mammogram done in my doctors office ever. I waited 2 weeks for my result, when it came back negative I was obviously so happy. But I can still go in for genetic testing, they can find out if I am a carrier of the gene and I have options if I want. But What and eye opener at 29. I am very thankful for my life right now and what I have. Hugs to you all. xxoo
Iluv....we lost our son in October and my cycles were normal and then went crazy. My OB
said that after a loss it can take a while for
cycles to normalize again. My OB is against supplements and meds which arent necessary as i had asked for
clomid to straighten them out. Maybe it will just take some time. I have never taken supplements and actually dont agree with it (but lots of women on her do). i only take folic acid and conceived our son before so
dont think they are necessary to get a boy (again just my personal opinion). I have seen lots in my nursing experience and it just isnt something I am comfortable with. We all have to do what we are comfortable with. I am comfortable with just doing diet and will be happy with boy or girl. I just really want to be pregnant. We all have to
do what we are comfortable with. We are in such similar places in our lives, you and I, and I hope it all works out for both of us!
Jen, we are gloomy gus's this month. Maybe we are preparing ourselves so
we wont be disappointed with a
BFN.
I am emotional this week too so really thinking AF is going to show up early. I actually
didnt use OPks this month but pretty sure I am 4dpo.
Good luck to those girls in 2ww. who is
close to testing?? We need some BFPs on here soon!!!
Hope it all works out for you!! We are in such similar places right now that one of us needs a BFP soon!!
Really puts things into perspective, huh. Sorry you went through that scare but so glad you are OK and they will watch you closely. Hopefully June will be a good month for all!Quote:
Originally Posted by Tink18
Tink. sorry you went through that and had to wait two weeks for results. Glad everything went went and fingers crossed for bfp for you soon!
Thanks Princess! I think I'm way scared too since we are supposed to get the results of our autopsy as soon as maybe next week but still not sure. They said they would get to his results "next" and to call back if we haven't gotten a letter as of next Wed. I told DH last night that I was afraid if we didn't get a BFP before the results then he might tell me no again. And he just nodded like it was a possibility. It might overall the right thing in the big picture but I will be devastated if he changes his mind again.Quote:
Originally Posted by princessap
Losing children is just the most terrible thing.
I will definitly be re-evaluating my sway. Clomid is a little scary with the girl sway part but I doubt my Dr. will jump on that anyway. I was glad to hear you had a cycle like this, it makes me feel more normal. :) Really bad timing though, Cycle!! :)
iluv - My cycles were perfect for 5 months after my d&c then my body freaked. My midwife said your body can go right back to business and a few months later realize something is a miss so go crazy till it's fixed. I know the situations aren't the same but to some extend bodies all deal the same. FX you'll straighten out soon.
tink - so scary, glad you are ok. Are you going to have the genetic test done?
omg we, as a group, so need a bfp!
Princess and I luv, I just want to hug you ladies so bad, I cant even imagine, And I know I can hug ILUV as we have figured out we are only miles away from each other. MAybe we need need to plan a day together to just cry this all out and give each other some good positive vibes and it will all be ok and then we can be pregnant together and go on this journey together!
As far as testing, yes I will be doing the testing. I would like to see if I am a carrier. I know what my options are if I am a carrier. I will cross that bridge later in life when i am done having babies and breast feeding. It's scary. but My family is way more important.
I agree someone does need a BFP soon, I haven't started my diet yet, I did just get all my stuff in the mail, my ovulating stick my PH sticks and my thermometer! it was like Christmas!! But AF is here! I cant play with anything! boooooo!
I really want to TTC right now! But i have to be in my cousins wedding in OCT. That is the only thing holding me back is a black dress hanging in my closet that is already my size. Fits me fine. And she would be mad if i was obviously pregnant on her DAY. SO i can get away with AUG at earliest!
Hey gals, I have been MIA from the blue club thread for a couple weeks due to just wanting to focus on getting ready for my little one. She is finally here :D Here's the thread with a pic for you - I know you girls wanted one! http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...d-baby-is-here!
Looking forward to snuggling with her for a couple of weeks then I will get back to personals and keep up with you lovely ladies. Hopefully lots of blue bfp's coming :D
Congrats Skrimpy and welcome back. She is beautiful.
FX for you!!Quote:
Originally Posted by babydes56
xoxoxoxQuote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove
The things we do to get a boy lol! No wonder I have soo many girls... all I had to do was lay there hahahaQuote:
Originally Posted by LolaInLove