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Begonia,
I agree...you are totally welcome to the blue crew grads space...since you are still a blue crew grad...you swayed and you had a baby!!! Hell, I didn't even sway blue, but I'm always checking on all my blue swaying friends, to touch base with everyone :)
B!!! Its looovely to see you popping in and I want you back around more often, ok!!!!! You are definately elcome here you silly sausage, in fact I want to persuade you back over onto the ttc boards with me;) and see who else we can spoil rotten for next christmas:) then you can be part of the newer GenderD blue grad level 2 club I'm intending to start:bigsmile:
Thanks for your words about my DD, Flava thanks to you too:), I took the pic down because it was a bit sad to look at all bashed up like that, I'll pop it back up next time we are all on together of you like:) It has all settled down on her face nicely and there should only be minor scarring tank goodness!
BEGONIA!!! So great to see you--HERE!!!!! You are welcome here, as are ANY blue swayers, regardless of outcome! (or anyone at all, really!)Quote:
Originally Posted by begonia
Your DD sounds like a peach! But I am sorry you are still having gender desire.... are you and your DH still thinking of trying adoption or HT?
dloui-I really hope the tummy issues goes away fast.I have no idea how long babys have this at all?
You have only a little time left so hopefully baby is here soon.Try and rest as much as you can before!
begonia-wow I hope you post a lot more! I wasn't around either because my pregnancy was really bad omg...wish you would post some pics from your baby girl she must be cute! Everyone can post here for sure and you are one of our group.
congrats I didn't know you find it out already 17 weeks ?!! you just got a bfp girl!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
ELP- really how do you do the night times? Or all your babys sleep thru the night? I was always scared of the night time because I do really bad with no sleep. So I was like really no more babys i don't want to be a zombi!
With this baby is easier because DH helps out at night feeding him. I have little milk...Anyway no clue how you do it lol no way I would have another baby.
Today he only got a bottle at 3pm but poor thing was so hungry.
Everyone else do BF only ? Maybe Im the only one with low milk here.
I don't BF I bottle feedQuote:
Originally Posted by Flava
Y'all are sweet. Sorry for being fussed ... it's just y'know the 1st page of this whole thread was me and TTC5 and babydes and jen 18 months ago ... it was all new and everyone here was newly with BFPs, so no one was here because they had a boy, they were here because we "graduated" from the swaying thread. But obviously a bunch has changed in 18 months and most people who "fail" leave, so it just becomes the natural place for all the winners to be hanging out. I just feel like that loser in the lunch room, lol ... and all the cool kids are super nice but you still feel left out bc the truth is you're not like them.
Hobbs I don't think we will do HT. I looked at it very, very seriously and even met with a doc. But I can't do it. It's just not right for me, much as I want it to be ... I can't. If we were just starting our family and I knew I'd be up for giving each and every little embryo a shot (boy or girl) then I could, but if I had to leave any "babies" on the table to get my boy I'd torture myself over it forever. And that's the HT gamble ... maybe I'd only get 1 perfect boy and he'd stick and it'd be happily ever after, or maybe I'd have 2 girl embies, or 3 boys and have to pick and forever wonder what the others would have been like ... so yeah. Not for me.
Adoption and just getting knocked up again are both still options. As is doing nothing. We'll see. I kinda feel like maybe it just isn't in the cards for me to have a son after all. I try to look at it as do I want to experience adoption (and part of me genuinely does and has for years) or do I want to have a 4th daughter. I really try to totally rule out having a genetic son as an option for me at this point.
ELP you crack me up planning your next already. I absolutely ADORE you for your big-family-loving self :) You make it sound like the best time ever and I love it! Honestly I think if we had a mix or all boys we would totally have more kids. Which is part of what makes the GD such a bad deal! It totally hampers my ability to have more kids.
Flava I will try to get a pic up here soon ... she looks like DD1 which means she's another one that favors my DH, which is great for them bc they (and he) have the.most.beautiful.eyes. And re: BF I do, only bc it's easy. I make a lot of milk and everyone of mine has latched on well from day 1, so for me, it's just easy. I'm so glad you're feeling better now that he is here!
Begonia - butting in to this thread to say hi. I've missed you!! :HH:
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Hobber - I've gotten a 9 month break with each baby, but yes, it's extra nice of her to return just in time for Christmas lol
Flava - that's too bad he's having tummy trouble. dd3 had severe reflux, it's so hard to see them uncomfortable. I exclusively BF and have always had to choose between losing weight and having an ample milk supply. If I cut to many calories and don't chug water my supply suffers. I'm a stubborn bitch, formula isn't an option lol
B- so good to hear from you! I totally get your feelings. I was so madly in love with dd3 but had an ache. I hope you can find some peace with it. Maybe take a way cute Christmas pic then anyone else :bigsmile:
Don't you dare stop checking in here! You don't have a failed sway, you have a determined dd :kiss:
I totally hear ya on accepting no genetic son, that's where I was after my mc. I had hope but was fairly sure I'd have dd4. I say when you know you'll be good no matter who you have sway again, what have you got to lose :wink:
Cinss - woohoo! congrats!
Mocha - I can't believe your dd is 2 months old already, such a cutie!