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That is why I am not sharing the gender and just telling people we are finding out at birth. A few people know but the majority think we aren't finding out gender. People's reaction to ds3 were so bad that I want to enjoy this pregnancy with minimal comments
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Sorry to hear that Burakoam, never know maybe that nurse was jealous or something, but still very unprofessional to have an obvious reaction.
Ive heard a few pity comments now to, directed towards my son though. Oh poor Cyrus living with all those girls etc. So rude and insulting.
Omg I love your son's name!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss
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Thanks Jen 😀
Just made my first purchase, got a maxi cosi car capsule in pink on Gumtree for half price. Its going to go on the Redsbaby bounce pram I ordered.
Baby2016baby - have you heard back on the results of your harmony test yet?
I've been cramping quite a bit tonight, really period like, in my back and in my legs. Had me quite worried and ended up taking a paracetamol but seems to have settled now, hopefully just stretching pains.... 15 weeks today!x
I joined this forum almost 5 years ago to offer support to other moms and also get support for myself- support I wasn't getting irl. I may be on baby number 5, but that doesn't mean I haven't had my own set of heartaches and disappointments. I have struggled with multiple miscarriages, and minor infertility in between births. If I wasn't having a miscarriage, I was struggling to get pregnant. I had 3 boys and a miscarriage in-between each one- 2 of those 3 were failed sways and confirmed boys. I was actually told my 3rd boy was a girl... and bought "her" clothes, etc only to find out months later I was actually having a boy. The comments I received and heartbreak I felt was not only very painful, but very discouraging as well. I never claimed to feel what someone else is going through or the pain they're feeling. It's true, we all process and feel things differently. My heart is aching to think that my happiness or comments may have been the cause for someone else's pain. I would never intentionally try to hurt someone's feelings or claim I know exactly what they're going through. I never expected to have a 4th child or even a FIFTH for that matter... I am here because I don't have very many people to share my pregnancy with... including an unsupportive husband that wasn't even wanting another baby, let alone have another girl - he has hardly spoken a word to me after I told him the gender results and after the tech "confirmed" it at our ultrasound yesterday.
My point is - We are all here for support and to share our pregnancies with other moms within our birth group... I hope this is a place I can continue to come to for comfort and to share all the ups and downs that come with pregnancy. I really enjoy reading your posts and I try to log on as much as I can. Again, I truly apologize if I have hurt someone's feelings or offended anyone. Love to you all!!! :heart:
Baby found out last Wednesday that she's having her 4th girl. She and her husband are not taking it well at all given it was their 2nd failed sway and also their last shot. Although she is happy for everyone who gets their dg, at the moment she is unable to post on the board's as it is too painful and not helping matters.
Sorry Baby2016baby that you didn't hear boy. I'm sure there isn't anything I can say that will help but I hope the pain eases with time. Thanks for letting us know Burakoam.
I would have thought you would already have a pram.. what did you have before? I'm looking at changing prams too as I want one that is reversible, I still have my phil & teds sports from 2008 even though we haven't used it for over 2 years.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cinss