Dreaming, thanks! That's what I thought...and I do think you're right where it's not reliable before a positive test. Alright Friday, please be here SOON! [emoji122]
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Dreaming, thanks! That's what I thought...and I do think you're right where it's not reliable before a positive test. Alright Friday, please be here SOON! [emoji122]
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Pbn3 - cycles have been 28 days lately and think I o-ed on day 14 last month, but obviously can't say with certainty. Days 12-17 show as possible fertile days on fertility friend so I was thinking I'd start checking opks around day 12. I was thinking we'd bd every other day starting day 12 (just do whenever before that) and then every day for maybe 3 days when I get positive opk?? Or is that too much - it's so confusing. I think I've read several times Atomic likes boy swayers to get in 3 times, pm, am, pm at positive opk, but am might be really tricky for us due to schedules. Unless it falls over the weekend, then we could probably swing it. Both of our drives are high lately for some reason so this shouldn't be a problem. Of course life is unpredictable, but that's my plan.
Max - I LOVE that you are swaying for a 3rd girl and for the same reasons as you I'd be happy with a 3rd girl. Even though my husband won't admit it I think he'd be really happy to have a boy, hence the sway [emoji5]
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Pbn3 - was typing while you were! Thanks for feedback.
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Ha – thanks – feel less alone! LolQuote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
I’m CD9 now – so will start poas for O in a day or two – I usually ovulate around CD15-16 ish (rarely earlier often a bit later) – but because of this darn infection, am tossing whether we should jusgt skip this month altogether… :(
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Have to catch up in a bit but I had to post these glorious lines [emoji7] 16dpo and maybe I'll be satisfied with this!
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So glorious Ash!!! Just beautiful! [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]
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Gorgeous lines ash!!! 😍😍😍
No worries Kat! And yes atomic does recommend 3 attempts at pos opk but eod is a very close second so would depend whether you were happy to wing it regarding the 3 attempts 😉 maybe give it a go this cycle and if it doesn't pan out the try oed next cycle. If you do I'd recommend eod rom cd8 - cd18 and that will cover you for an early or late o :)
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Sorry LMSM you'll have to remind me again what infection? And are you also trying for 3 attempts at pos opk? I think it's so awesome we have so many boy swayers!!!! Love it!! 👊😀Quote:
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Max my bbs were wayyyy more sore this time the soreness never went away after O
Thanks pbn and dreaming I've never tested later to see if they get darker. It's pretty amazing and this was after drinking water all day!
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Kat, how old are your girls?
Ash, gorgeous lines!!!! [emoji175]
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That's totally a massive sign :ballerina: :DQuote:
Originally Posted by maximbella
Seems I have thrush :( took a pessary and cream kit on Monday - not much better yet so might be in for a tripo tp the doc if iot doesn't clear soon!Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
Yep, plan is 3 attempts at pos opk...if I'm attempting at all, this infection makes me nervous not sure if it's a good idea to even try this cycle if it doens;t clear in the next couple of days :(
Hmmm have you asked atomic her thoughts LMSM?
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Maxim meant to say earlier that I paid my sore bbs (well moreso nipples) no mind as they had been sore the cycle before. However the morning of my definate bfp (cd11, had vvfaint lines cs10 and couldn't be sure they were real) my nipples were super sore almost burning like feeling. The only thing different I noticed into lead up to bfp was I had af cramps on 6dpo and 7dpo (possibly 8dpo too) and they don't usually start until 9/10dpo. Honestly thought af was going to come early as the cramps were exactly like my usual pre af ones.
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That’s one beautiful test you have there Ash - :DQuote:
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Wouldn’t want to bother her just with that – she's one really busy lady as it is! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Pbn3
@maximbella I also had those AF like cramps earlier than normal @pbn3 references. Sometime around 5-6dpo.
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Ash: what a beautiful sight! Just lovely ��
LMSM: I thought i read on the forum somewhere that vertain infection sway blue. I will try to look for it. But dont try if it hurts or you dont feel right about it. It is okay to wait till you feel better
She won't mind LMSM :) Just start a thread in the ttc a boy forums and give her a couple days to answer. In the meantime you may get input from some of the thousand other ladies on here who may have been in your shoes :) I'd hate to see you miss a cycle unnecessarily that's all.....Quote:
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But I second what shinay said about if it hurts or your not comfortable with it then by all means don't try :)
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Oh thanks Shinay! Definitenly would not BD if it was uncomfortable so if need be, will skip this month though admittedly would be gutted to push back again our attempt time! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by shinay
Oh thanks Shinay!
Worry not ladies, definitely would not BD or force myself if it was uncomfortable/painful so if need be, will skip this month though admittedly would be gutted to push back again our attempt time! ;)
Will put a thread on the TTC blue and see what answers I get, you're right Pbn
Hi & welcome Kat! Sending blue dust on over to you & adding you to our master plan for ALL of us getting our BFPs this cycle. And didn't mean to leave you out LMSM! Not exactly sure the plan-hoping you'd have it all figured out for us Max [emoji854] So, for ordering tests, I bought 2 2-packs of digis & figured I could buy more later if needed. If buying frer's though that's a another story since you'll fly through them!! Did you find the old kind on eBay?
Sky-did not realize that FertileCM wasn't recommended, but I'd totally listen to atomic! It did work for me, but maybe I was the exception. I also didn't take the full recommended dose, only 1-2 a day...so maybe that did the trick for me?
Ash-LOVE to see those beautiful lines!!! Just beautiful!!!
LMSM & Max-I notice little signs too so you are def not cuckoo! Back in March when I had the CP, I went in to store to buy a box of frer's. One of the dollars had a message written on it that I was going to have good luck & when I do...pass it on. I thought for sure that was a good sign. Maybe I have already received my good luck with my beautiful boys or hopefully the best is yet to come w/2 beautiful boys and 1 beautiful DD. I will pass my luck on either way [emoji256]
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Hey Ash when you get a chance do you think you can edit your first post in the ddg to add peoples username, due date, what they swayed, what they're having or had? Be nice to keep a tally. So hoping I can join tomorrow fx fx fx!!!! Oh and about the wives tales things I oed night before or day of new moon and Chinese gender predictor said girl for me too!!! Not that I believe any of it 😂 but it's nice to have something pink seeing as I didn't sway lol. Actually you could say poor fertility, prior mc's and one attempt is on my side too and I'd taken clomid the two cycles before and had only just weaned off aspirin 🤔 been vegetarian on and off last two years..... maybe I should fill out a ttc a girl sway after all 😀 and say it was a non sway but I had these pink factors in any case?
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Ive been reading through ladies. Just abit quiet with old af hanging around and a non-compliant DH. To be honest my af is abit heavy and reminds me of lochia. I have a feeling i might have some endometriosis going on or something affecting my cycles.
My MIL asked me if we were having anymore kids today and she is probably the only person in the world I can tolerate asking me. She has 3 sons and is about the only one who understands how i feel. So it felt good to actually admit that I want more without down playing my feelings or have someone question if i was crazy 🤣
Ds4 had his cast off today. Poor thing's arm if very scaly and abit of dermatitis. He loved the attention though when I was massaging cream into it 🤣
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Netti have you ever been tested for endo? I only ask as a lady I knew years ago was unsure she could even carry a pregnancy due to her endo but went on to have 4 girls 😮😮
So glad you are close to your MIL and were able to tell someone irl that you don't feel done (hugs)
I read today that a lady with the username fiveboys (she actually has six boys) has just found out her 7th child is a girl so there is hope xxoo I'm going to find her sway if she has one and tag you in it!
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On the Internet, there are different ways to test for your baby gender like baking soda etc. Anyone did that? and Found right?
if yes, Then when to do this? I mean on what week it can show the result?
Sumbal its absolute make believe!! But I'll probably still do it for fun and a bunch of other old wives tales 😂😂
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Hi Kat - Welcome. Glad u joined. It great to have more blue swayers here too. BD in the morning is a big concern for us too. [emoji51]Hope I could come to a good plan before I O.
I only used opks until last cycle but It was great to see the temp going up and knowing that it meant I Oed. I had no idea. Vaginal temping is better and experiencing it felt like I know my body a little more now. [emoji12]
Ash - Love those beautiful lines. It's so amazing.
LMSM - Hope u get some answers soon and may be won't have to skip
This cycle. Or try when u feel comfortable if it hurts like others said.
Pbn - What do u say about bding every night after solid smiley.
Is (Solid smiley)what we mean by pos opk?
Or may be BD on the second night of my flashing smiley since I get it for two nights and solid next morning or afternoon. And then BD the night of solid smiley and the next night and then eod after that to cover late O. Pls tell me it's a good plan. Wait what?
No pls tell me your honest opinion.
Sumbal - I did the penny test with dd n it was right for me. [emoji12]
I still feel it's all for fun so u can try it.
Sky yes solid smiley is pos opk. Looking at your last cycle you oed 2 days after solid smiley so a bd night of solid smiley, night after then night after that to cover late o sounds great. IF you find yourself in a situation to get an am bd in the morning after solid smiley then go for it. Honestly I'd skip the dtd on second flashing smiley as just because you got 2 days of it the last 2 cycles doesn't mean it won't change this cycle. I wish I could convince you to go with eod from cd8 - cd16.....
Can you check your first cycle when you oed if it was day after or two days after solid??
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Ladies I've started a new thread part 2 Melliflous May (part 2)
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No way to check since I wasn't temping then. That's the tricky part actually. All I know is that I have bn using cb advance for the last two cycles and got flashing smiley for two days on both cycles. U r right though that the same would happen this month may not be true. So how about bding every night after pos opk? Am bding is super tricky and hard with dh's work.
Well depending on if you o the day after pos opk or 2 days afrer pos opk you'll either end up with the following attempts:
If you o day after solid smiley you'll have 2 attempts 1-o and o day
If you o two days after pos opk you'll have 3 attempts 2-o, 1-o and o day.
Will you be happy with either scenarios?
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Sky can you answer in the new thread? :)
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Wow I've got about 8 pages to catch up with!! Love this group ❤️
Such gorgeous lines ash and pbn3!
Hello everyone else, go team!!
Netti- good you have mother in law to open up to. Hope af gets out of the way soon and DH gets on side. I also have a non compliant DH.
I'm nearly at fertile time according to ff. I haven't been able to temp accurately with having tonsillitis, today is the first day my temperature is back down to normal. I've lost about 5lb though which hopefully bodes well for pink!
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Yay mummy2boys! I'm going to respond in new thread :) Melliflous May (part 2)
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