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Hi so I came on 5 days early this month (it never happens) it's a shame as I thought I could be pregnant, I really dont know what to do now and am after some advice.......dh had told me last month that if we didnt conceive this month then we would have to leave it for a few months as he didnt want us having a baby between October and Jan as he will be working away a lot but work has now changed and he is now saying that we can have one more go but the problem I have is I have completely fallen off the diet amd exercise since christnas I was doing so well up until Christmas eve I was being strict but since then I havent got back onto it as I didnt think we would be trying for a few months i have been eating more rubbish and even added in a 3rd meal which was usually a bowl of coco pops or rice krispies and now I really dont know what to do I dont know whether to go for it when i next ovulate in 2 weeks or wait a few months and get back on the diet, I just worry that dh will change his mind again about having another baby if we dont tty again this month
Ps sorry for the long post

3 meals is allowed. Both 2 and 3 meals are both fine. That is not cheating. I got my daughter with 3 meals.

The cereal isn't ideal but I certainly don't think you should skip all that time!! Just go ahead and try, that's what I would do. Your call to make of course but I would not take the chance on putting DH off by getting particular about the attempt. :)

Thanks atomic for your quick response as always, I have actually just weighed myself and I havent put any weight on which I'm surprised about and I guess that's a good think.....my typical diet lately has been a bowl of cocopops or rice crispies
Lunch is usually 2 slicea of toast and a chocolate bar or crisps
Dinner is pasta/rice and chicken, bolognese pr chicken wraps and then maybe a handful of harribo
Lots of wine and diet coke and also a couple of slices of cake a a week
Dh has been having 2 eggs a day (does that matter if so I'll get him to stop for the next two weeks)
The only exercise I have done is two days ago I started running for 1 mile twice a week, should I give up the running and just do a brisk walk

Looking at this maybe it doesnt look too bad I suppose, is there things that you would change or do you think it wont make a difference now as my attempt os only in 12/14 days?

Also have been eating a lot of milk chocolate, should I cut down on that?
Dh has stopped dribking since new year should I get him back on the alcohol?

No that's really not bad at all, you were probably in the limits most of the time anyway.

I would keep walking and try to get to 4 days a week if possible.

I would def. drop the cereal as the fortificaion in it may sway BLUE!

Milk choc is fine within limits.

DH drinking may sway pink.

Sorry just wanted to double check as wasnt sure qhat you meant......did you mean the fortifaction would sway blue not pink?

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Originally Posted by sassy86

Sorry just wanted to double check as wasnt sure qhat you meant......did you mean the fortifaction would sway blue not pink?

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Yes, sorry!!! Duhhhh

Lol I thought that's what you ment,
Is it ok for dh to have eggs or should I ask him to stop?
The last two attempts have been one attempt only (although I think my first month was far too sway from ovulation, and my last attempt 2 weeks ago was 1 attempt at pos opk) both times dh was releasing everyday. For my next attempt should I have a few bds and cut off 2/3 days before or stick to the 1 attempt at pos opk but maybe not have dh release everyday also we have been using ky jelly and dh has been heating up his bits lol

He might want to cut back a little but if he's given up meat he doesnt need to.

I would advise dropping the daily release and having hubby release every 2-4 days, keeping the one attempt at positive OPK

You may want to skip the heating the nuts at this point as it may be killing off too many sperm.

Ok thank you, unfortunately he hasnt cut back on meat but he said he will ease up on the eggs, I'm still eating chicken buy heeping to the limits