My planning has worked with a little help... My monitor said I would Ov on the 18th and I always Ov the day before. So I planned a lot of dtd but hubby has been in pain from the craziness at work, so I changed to 1's a day on the 12th-14th. I wanted to do the 15th to but DS2 wokeup and then we went to bed. Good thing because I started having cramping on the 15th. And last night I started having the need to dtd and crazy dreams.... So I expect to Ov today and then we will dtd one last time!
I would have loved to know the gender before Christmas so I could get my MIL a gift telling her, but I would still know by mid Jan so maybe for DS2 2nd birthday I can get him a baby doll wearing a pink dress.... Or just keep it a surprise and on the white board where they write the name we could write a boys name (for our boys we joked about naming them Damien and Lucifer) if she doesn't make it in time for the delivery.