Wooo hooo Linz. Congratulations on your girl :D
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Wooo hooo Linz. Congratulations on your girl :D
That's amazing news lindz so happy you got your girl :)
yay linz keep the pink dust coming
Congrats Linz that is so great!! Enjoy the pink :)
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CONGRATS LINZ !!!!!!!!
KEEP THE GREAT NEWS COMING !
Wow! Huge congrats Linz! This group is def on a roll. Hoping the roll continues x
Yay congratss Lindz!!
Congratulations Linz!!!
Huge congrats to Bluebonnet, Linz and Ratcliffe! So happy for you!!
I'm still really struggling with all day m/s, on top of that DS got a stomach bug from daycare and of course I caught it as well. Honestly I'm not even feeling happy about this pregnancy at all at the moment and that makes me feel even worse! I have lots of negative thoughts about if the baby turns out to be a boy after all this, I feel like it's all been a waste of time and I wouldn't be able to be happy about having this baby. I know that's a horrible way to think about your future baby!
Today I haven't been able to keep any food down and have been in bed all day, I haven't been to work in two weeks.
I have a dr's appointment on Monday, we will see what that leads to.
Anyway sorry for being a downer! Just needed to vent.
Reading about all the successful sways here made me sheer up!
Happy1981.. I feel your pain. I'm 9 weeks, been suffering from ms all day everyday then last night I caught the stomach bug that ds1 gave me! I feel SO ill! Although I an really happy that everyone is getting what they want I do have a niggling feeling that all the good luck has been used up and I'm actually carrying another boy. Feels like ages til I can find out!
LOL I feel like this too. How can I possibly get my boy when everyone else is getting theirs??!Quote:
Originally Posted by Me+4
My appointment went well today, measuring right on target at 9w6d..strong heartbeat:)
I was convinced this madam was a boy, it's understandable to worry, even with my sway everyone around me said its a boy so when she told me its a girl I cried hysterically ( wow embarrassing ) and made her check 3 times lol, she checked from the side as well and was pretty certain. I never thought it would happen to me but it has and it can to you too, sending boy dust your way
Hi Adia, yes we'll be finding out! But I am not sure when tbh. I am so nervous I just want to put it off lol! I am thinking maybe finding out around 28-30 weeks through 3D scan. How about you?
Thank you ladies, looking forward to getting to know all of you better! Huge congrats Linz on your pink bundle! And it looks like a lot of ladies wishing for pink got their wish! Now could you all please send some of us wishing for a blue bundle all of your blue dust haha:DS:Enjoy your shopping:DD:
Oh no I feel for you, it's the worst feeling! Hope you feel better soon.Quote:
Originally Posted by Me+4
I also feel like statistically its impossible for me to get a successful girl sway now with all the girls conceived all ready. I hope I'm wrong.
I guess we will find out around the same time, I'm 8+6 weeks.
Sending you ALL my blue dust!! 💙💙Quote:
Originally Posted by belleboi
All my blue dust your way! 💙Quote:
Originally Posted by maimai88
I will also cry hysterically if I hear girl! Nothing wrong with that! ( hey I might cry hysterically if I hear boy too, but for other reasons, that would be more embarrassing!)Quote:
Originally Posted by ratcliffe1811
Sending all the blue swayers my blue dust! TAKE IT!
Don't feel discouraged if you want a girl - I'd like to think that the reason so many of us are getting girls lately is because swaying works!!! We are all in the best place possible to increase our odds. Keep being positive (though I know how hard it is to worry - I was a wreck all week leading up to yesterday's ultrasound)
Nahri - I didn't buy anything last night but today during lunch I spent like $75 on clothes and pink bottles - including a onesie that says "i cry sparkles" haha!
this is the best thing i've read all day! LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by Linzshine32
I think there are a lot if swayers who when they get opposites leave this site for their own sanity. So don't worry about statistically there will have to be some opposite soon. I have read others who gave got opposites recently.
Just out of curiosity. Who is still waiting to find out?
I am :)
Sarah when do you find out?
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yeah we had a few little opposites in this group. If it were me I would totally cut and run for my sanity. I try to be as sensitive as possible when I post so it doesnt seem like im trying to put my working sway over their own.
"I cry sparkles" ROFL I totally need that on an adult shirt as a gift for my sister.
I bought most of DD's winter clothes for next year including the most adorable puple pram (snowsuit with hands and feet and teddy bear ears... I know in other countries that means a few different baby items) while they were all on clearance this year to save me money. Family already has her spoiled rotten with clothes and I informed them all MINIMAL PINK. Because of all the things being bought from various people I dont want a ton of pink. Im not girly and definitely not a pink is all for girls etc. If she chooses pink as her favorite color so be it but not because everything she owns is pink. I almost get frustrated that some are going overboard though. I feel guilty for feeling that way because they are being nice and trying to save us some money for the things we dont have to buy but..... My mother who irritates me to no end has already purchased 2 seperate halloween costumes for her first halloween both of which I HATE, and several my first (insert holiday here) shirts etc. Im thankful and greatful but sheesh can't I pick out my own kids halloween costume? She bought them for DS two years in a row... If I say anything against it she will lose her every loving mind so for the sake of sanity I have to keep my mouth shut but I have to figure out how to draw the line somewhere. This is the same woman who said if I have twins I should give her one...
20 week anatomy scan booked for the 18th of Feb :) I'm feeling strangely ok about the wait.
We haven't told hubby's family I'm pregnant yet. Everyone else knows though. I'm dreading the comments- his parents have 7 grandsons and only 1 grand daughter. His family were quite open about commenting t
How much they wanted my last son to be a girl (before they knew the sex)
Wishing you the best Sarah :D My scan will March 2nd at 19 weeks 4days. Hats off to you. I'm not liking the wait.
Oh my goodness Sarah and boysway, I hope the next few weeks flies by! The anguish during the wait is the worst!
Has anyone with a successful sway had a less than happy DH? It seems like everyone in this group had a DH that wanted a DD (or DS for blue swayers). DH was supportive while I was swaying but I guess I worked so hard to convince myself it was 2 boys (we came up with names bought a matching outfit for them etc) that DH has been devestated since finding out about DD. He wanted twin boys so badly and he's heartbroken. I'm trying not to be angry - the one thing I've learned from this website is GD comes in all forms, I've seen ladies with 1-2 DD's who want to add even more so badly. So I'm trying to be supportive and listen to his feelings, but it hurts that he isnt' happy and I don't have anyone to share my extreme joy with !
Bluebonnet- just to confirm. Your having B/G twins right?? Perhaps your husband also worked himself up for twin boys abs is just getting his head around the fact it's not? Give him some time. I'm sure he will get excited soon. Perhaps it's the unknown girl aspect and not knowing what to do with a girl?
Sarah, yes we are having b/g twins. You are definitely right that I spent so much time psyching myself up for 2 boys that it affected him more than I thought it would. I thought he'd be equally happy with b/b or b/g, but I had no idea how excited he was for a huge brood of boys. He's also extremely scared of raising a daughter. Every time I speak with him he comes up with something new "what about dating" or "how do I change a girl diaper". He's extremely freaked out! I'm hoping he'll come around before she's born, otherwise I guess I have to hope she will melt his heart once she's here. He has admitted to me that he didn't realize how much this would affect him and didn't realize the idea of b/g twins would be so upsetting to him until we actually found out. He thought he didn't care that much, but now that we know it's making him so upset.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sarah4girl
Bluebonnet my husband would be thrilled with delight if this baby is our 3rd boy! He understands my want for a girl so he hopes it is for me. But if I had no preference he would be hoping for another boy!
I'm only 9 +2 weeks so the wait to find out seems like longer than the actual 9 months lol! I was wondering whether to stay team green but know that's just not going to happen! I want to know now. If the harmony tests were less expensive I would do that.
The gender dreams have begun for me. Dreamt that they told me it's another boy. In my dream I remember feeling so low and just didn't want to hear it. I also get angry when someone says they think it will be another boy, like they are saying something really nasty to me. But really they are not! It's just their guess but feels like they hate me to even say it!? I wonder why I've put myself through this sometimes...I honestly felt I would be able to deal better with the situation before I got my BFP now I think I've set myself up for a huge fall! :(
Im still waiting to find out, ill be 12 weeks tomorrow I have my NT scan Feb2nd ill be 13w2days. Not sure when my anatomy scan will be but if Im not having a scan between the NT and anatomy than im paying for a private one between 15-16weeks, so either way hopefully soon but not soon enough lol
missxo - hopefully you get a good nub shot when you go in next week! I would think with twins they would do a scan between the NT and anatomy scan (my ob said for twins she does scans every 4 weeks for 1st/2nd trimester and then every 2 weeks after that). Fingers crossed you get a free scan at your doctor around 15-16 weeks :) . Can't wait to hear what you're having!Quote:
Originally Posted by missxo143
Can't wait for you ladies to have your scans!!!
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Hey ladies I've got to wait til March 14th is to have mine as 16 weeks is the earliest they do here for gender I hope I'm not a opposite I've been that twice before so hopefully I'll drown in pink dust before then
With my 3rd I didn't find out what I was having. When he was born they pulled him out and I could see his balls dangling between his legs and said - it's another boy. No feeling of excitement just resignation. With the 4th and my last I found out at my 13 week scan and I cried embarrassingly and uncontrollably! As that was supposed to be my last pregnancy but as soon as I found out it was a boy I knew I wanted to try one last time. So now pregnant with my 5th and definitely last child I an determined to enjoy all of it! If the blood test wasn't so expensive I'd have that. And if it's another boy I will deal with it. I will love him as much as I do all the others, we will have tried everything possible and I will need time to mourn the daughter I will never have. I can't help having that tiny flutter of hope though that there might be a girl in there!
i'll be 11w5d at my NT scan. So still too early for a nub shot. I don't know if we will do a private gender scan, to be honest.
Me+4 in your experience of gender disappointment which was worse...the finding out at your scan or at the birth?
I found out at my 20 week scan with both my boys and felt like If I knew earlier than 20 weeks than it's less time dreaming about the daughter I might be carrying so more time to bond with the boy.
Anyone have a gender scan in the next week? I'm so excited for others to find out!
[QUOTE=Sarah4girl;674558]20 week anatomy scan booked for the 18th of Feb :) I'm feeling strangely ok about the wait.
I feel the same way, I feel ok about waiting too. I'm not in any hurry to find out personally. With DD1 and DD2, I booked a scan as soon as I could, at 15 weeks. If we decide to find out at our 18 week scan, I guess that would put me around the second week of March:think:
Huge congrats! You are SO lucky! BG twins are cute, enjoy. My partner was the same. He already had FOUR boys and he hoped badly that the twins would be boys too since he was not ready for a girl and he got his wish. He says he is ready now.Quote:
Originally Posted by bluebonnet22
Wishing you a healthy rest of your pregnancy and healthy babies. How exciting :)