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Oh geez...heartbreaking. To each their own but if it wasn't something I could have known about earlier I would have wanted to which is why I always get testing done. I understand why people don't but that's just gut wrenching.Quote:
Originally Posted by Quinn31
I guess her office doesn't do any real testing unless you're high risk. She didn't know any better but I'm sure she'll be different next time.Quote:
Originally Posted by lala22
Is she in the states?Quote:
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Yeah, I think she had an early ultrasound but they didn't see anything.Quote:
Originally Posted by lala22
Agh!!! That's horrible. I hate that these things still happen to people.Quote:
Originally Posted by Quinn31
I have a friend whose baby died a week before her scheduled c-section. This was also her first and she had several miscarriages in between. It's almost a year out and she is still doing really bad. There are some good support groups out there but sometimes another child may be the only way to help ease the pain.
What?! A week before her c section? God I just can't handle the thought even..miserable awful and unfair. Poor thing.Quote:
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I thought they were required to offer state testing which includes a blood test. Maybe that's just a California thing. What a crappy thing to go through.Quote:
Originally Posted by Quinn31
I didn't get any testing other than the usual pap/blood (standard not chromosomal)/ultrasound until after my first loss.Quote:
Originally Posted by lala22
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It's possible and I'm not entirely sure. I know she asked her dr about testing and was told she wasn't high risk. She might not have understood what was offered. I think I actually declined testing with my first because I was naive. It feels so unfair because in this group of friends we've had several late losses and a friend give birth to a daughter with serious disabilities. Everyone has such a negative and scared outlook on ttc and pregnancy now.Quote:
Originally Posted by lala22
That really is heartbreaking and horribly unfair. I had an acquaintance (friend of a friend) go through something like that and she's still working through her grief. I'm so sorry your friend had that experience. I've heard a couple women say they didn't feel better until they had their next child. We were just discussing how little we knew when we had our firsts. I'm thankful I didn't realize all that could go wrong.Quote:
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Yay for girl, crd!!! So happy for you!
My panorama results were fast for me—closer to 5 days. My midwife had said 14, so I was shocked...but super happy to get them. The waiting was horrible. Those 5 days really felt like 50. Hope you both get your answers soon!
So sorry to hear about your friend! Heartbreaking. My sister actually lost a baby at 1 month old due to heart problems that no one had diagnosed. Though, with the right tests, they really should have seen it before she delivered. It was her first, and she and her husband were young/hippy/snowboarder looking types, so no one really listened to their health concerns or took them seriously. And they just didn't know to push either. So incredibly sad. Like others were saying, she didn't really get back to anything close to normal until she had another baby. She's currently due with her third now, and lucky they have all been healthy since!
BTDT, nothing can replace the baby that was lost... but there is something healing about the renewed hope bringing a new baby into this world gives you. You do have to be in the mental space of wanting to try again, not to replace your loss but to try to find sunshine in the storm, though.Quote:
Originally Posted by Quinn31
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All of these heart wrenching stories of loss:(
Let's talk healthy babies now! Lol
I thought I was over 8 weeks, my last period was February 12th. I went in for my first ultrasound and they didn't see a baby , but saw a nice strong sac. I looked it up and saw it was called ovum blite. They had to do a second ultrasound and it measured 5 weeks 6 days.
My dr said she wants to see me next Thursday and will look for a yolk sac, look for growth , if there is no growth , then it is bad news. The good news is the sac looked nice and round and not shriveled up. What your opinion about this? I have never experienced anything like this .
When did you get your first BFP? If you ovulated later then you could just not be as far along as you think. Hopefully this is the case.Quote:
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With my one last year I knew I was 7 weeks as I charted and also got a BFP at 10dpo. When I had a scan it was only measuring about 5 wks 3 days and then 10 days later it was only measuring about 5 wks 4 days and the sac was deteriorating. I'm hoping this own't be the case for you and everything will be ok.
Do u chart? If not then it is possible you just O'd late. With my first the doc insisted I was 10 weeks based on LMP then panicked when they couldn't find baby on ultrasound. I had an ultrasound a week later and he was just fine, just not as far along as LMP suggested. FX and prayers that u see a nice yolk sac next time.Quote:
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Good point Two. Thanks.Quote:
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Dh is acting completely normal so I have no idea if he heard the results. He was super patient with our kids last night so a part of me is hopeful he heard boy. He's a good dad but at the end of the night, everyone usually loses it in my house. Either that or he didn't try calling them and is waiting to hear today.
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Oh man! You have more grit than I do lol. *I* am dying to find out for you lol.Quote:
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So, new day and a new chance for them to call... not holding my breath but definitely have everything crossed. I am no good at waiting lol. I am too impatient. :/
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I'm dying over here for you!!!! I need you to find out hahahaQuote:
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Now he's not answering the phone so I start to assume the worst and that he just found out, lol. I'm losing it. I feel so much more relaxed today though. That dream was crazy.
Two you should hear today. That's 7 business days!
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Quinn!!!!!! The suspense!!!!!!!Quote:
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Well if we r talking business days it depends if they work Saturday. If not its 6 business days :( 9 days since blood draw and 8 since they recieved it.Quote:
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Oy ladies hurry up and find out. Lol
Two, hard for me to interpret your signature..you have two boys and two miscarriages? One loss was a boy and one was a girl?
I guess I underestimated how complicated it could get, lol. Previously he told me he wouldn't tell his coworkers until he knew the sex. He told me today he told his closest friend there and he went out and got him a costco cake right away which is his favorite, lol. I assumed he had heard and it meant boy because he definitely did not celebrate when we found out our second was a girl. He cried and had to be alone all evening. Then...he just sent me a text saying he was calling the dr to get the results and he'd make sure they don't call me again. He said he wanted to tell people before he knew and was possibly impacted by the results. He's such a sneaky surprise lover that I could totally see him saying that to throw me off. Earlier this week he told me he wouldn't call until next week if he hadn't heard because it would be ten business days!! Lol this is crazy. I'm just going to assume he heard the baby is healthy and that is all I want to celebrate. I'm also really hoping he brings some cake home!!
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We have 2 boys and have had 3 confirmed losses and a CP. One loss was a girl, one was a boy and one we didn't get to find out.Quote:
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Lmbo! So confusing lol.Quote:
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Ugh just talked to him again and pretty sure we're having our third girl. So disappointed. I guess I'll never know what it's like to raise a son. I'm really sad for my husband. He helps everyone and is such a good dad. He really deserves to have a boy.
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How can you tell? Did he sound very upset or did he tell you?? (You said he likes surprises so maybe he's trying to fake it? )Quote:
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What happened that makes you think that?Quote:
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His tone. I can read him better than I thought. He was trying very hard to be neutral and not like he was smiling or anything. I feel so sad for him and I'm really not ready to hear all the stupid comments that will be coming our way.
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((((Hugs))))Quote:
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I'm sorry. I know it's hard to know your spouse is hurting. My best friend is having her third girl and it was hard for her husband to grasp as well. My heart hurts for you to my experience the love of a baby boy but I know your baby girl will fulfill you too. I hope this ache doesn't last long.Quote:
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I'm so sorry Quinn [emoji20]. It sucks when we sway for our DH's and it doesn't work out. It's hard when it's them that are heartbroken. It makes it harder for us to be strong for them. My heart goes out to you sweetie!
I hope this little girl lights up your life and fills your family with love and laughter to make this heartache a distant memory ❤️.
[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602][emoji170][emoji166]One last pink sway 2016[emoji166]
Quinn, since you think you know will you just ask him to confirm it?
Quinn maybe he is trying to throw you off?? I don't think you can know until you REALLY know. My DH doesn't want to know so I plan on packing the baby's dresser full of boy clothes for him!
Two, I so hope you get those results soon. I really do think that you will hear that everything is healthy. :)
The waiting is so very hard!!! I'm thinking of both of you, I was sick to my stomach and barely slept during the wait. So much for patience and Team Green for me. :p
I've been stalking for all of you ladies' results! ❤️ Quinn - I would just ask. Sounds like you keep going back and forth on whether it's a girl or a boy and it might be good to just know to begin GD process and move forward. Sending lots of hugs to you regardless and I really hope you do end up hearing boy!
Team green baby due May 21! [emoji170][emoji166]
Well, time is up today. On to hoping for news tomorrow :/
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My dr called back saying my hcg level is 26000, is that a good sign? Going for another draw tomorrow to see if it increases. :think:Quote:
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Good # but the most important part is if it's doubling properly. FX.Quote:
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