I'm on facebook, CVD! I'll pm you with my actual real life name with 2 conditions ;)First, no one knows that I've spent time on gender swaying sites and I'd wanna keep it that way. Secondly, I've spilled my baby's name here (Maggie) but no one else in my life is in the loop. I want to keep it secret till she's here, I'd like to unveil her name as part of our birth announcement. Coolio?