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Welcome cape grace and congrats
Argh big hugs to you girls try not to let gd ruin your pg.
I still don't even believe I'm even pg and have no feelings of gender at all at the moment :(
And like you ThreeMenAndALady I was only on the diet a few weeks and not feeling very hopeful, number 4 for me too! I keep going over in my head all the things I could have done differently :(
I did more than I ever did before this, but there seems to be so much on the line this time. I know there will never be another baby for me. A very good friend of mine just found out she's having another girl. She has gbb and now girl. I'm upset and put more pressure on myself. I haven't told anyone I swayed, not even my dh. And now I feel like bad things are going to happen to me because my dh doesn't know that I was tracking o and I acted very surprised at my bfp. I wanted this so bad I did things I would NEVER do. I'm an honest person and gd has turned me into someone I don't know or like for that matter. I'm not sleeping well and feel guilt. But the guilt I would've had if we waited or didn't try would be so much worse. This thread has turned into my diary. Sorry ladies.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tiffani3
Ohh Three! Don't feel guilty. First of all there is nothing wrong with swaying as long as you are not doing anything harmful. I think most husbands know that we as mommies have a gender preference, it's natural ! I am sure your Dh would love another girl as well so he would probably be more grateful than upset about a secret sway, don't you think?! I know what you mean about feeling more upset and more pressure when you see others having girls. It hurts a lot, especially when you know you are on your last try. The thing I keep trying to tell myself is what's done is done, I am already pregnant, the sex will not change and it could very well BE a girl! Don't beat yourself up over something that hasn't technically not gone your way...easier said then done I know... :bighug:
ThreeMenAndALady don't feel guilty my dh has tried to understand how I feel but really doesn't have the faintest clue how much I want a dd I just grabbed the opportunity that he even agreed to ttc again.
I feel like all of you are the only people who understand what I'm going through and how I feel cause you are all feeling the same. To be honest I really don't think I would have put my self in this position (getting pg) if I hadn't found this site the amount of pain and sadness I felt when I was pg with ds3 was totally unreal I guess that's prob why I don't have any feelings at all at the moment just waiting for the slight hope to go out the window or just carry on believing that I am incapable of making a daughter. Super sad :(
I'm sorry I don't really have any words of wisdom to make it all better but just to let you know I'm here to listern and support you all and polish it pink as much as possible :)
xx
Big hugs to everyone! Try to stay positive! I don't have any great words of wisdom for any of us suffering of GD and wanting a DD so bad, but just remember it is a coin flip and the more times you flip the coin, the greater chances you get. Also, I have seen so many sways (or lack of sways) result in a baby girl and it can happen to any of us. Don't lose hope just yet!!!
And I spoke too soon about ms. I think it's here...
That is good news Three, now you can feel a little more at ease with the pregnancy! Really sucks to be sick though, hope you can find some relief, same with the rest of us!
I think I was 'ok' with babys gender till I had my scan now I'm obsessed and in a way posting my pic b4 realizing it was a nub has made it worse....so far I've had all girl guesses but I just can't believe it could possibly be a girl after all everyone tells me I can't have girls! I mean how accurate is the nub theory anyway??
I tried talkin to dh last night about needing to get gender out of the way and find out maybe at 16wks & pay for private scan but he told me off, and said just think of your aunt who can't hav kids, made me feel terrible because of cause he's right and healthy is way more important then gender, but then GD isnt a rational feeling is it?? Nobody understands but u guys :) xx
thank god for this site!
Big hugs ladies we cam get through this together:hugs:
Who dared to tell you that you can't have girls!?!?Quote:
Originally Posted by homebirthing princess
As soon as my doc called me to check on me around 6 weeks....it BEGAN! :(Quote:
Originally Posted by ThreeMenAndALAdy
but just remember...it equals a Healthy Bean!!!! I hope it isn't bad for you. You can take anti-nausea pills to help. I had them with both my boys, and I sure would have this time if I weren't still breastfeeding.