TTC Blue Crew Grads

Babydes ... ditto. I really have had many of the same thoughts, couldn't sleep over it for a couple of days, kept waking up in tears. It is getting better though and I'm only a week into knowing. It's hard because, in my opinion, my sway (yours too, and Freya's, and DebH...) was a very solid effort. So like you I do come back to it being a DH factor ... and what can I do about that?!? He has said if this is a girl (since he still doesn't know) then maybe it just means we aren't done ... but honestly I can't think of what I'd change with my sway so I don't know what to do differently IF there's a next time.

Hugs ... TTC5 started a support thread in the blue forum and I might post there, because I do need some help with some stuff and other multiple girl moms hopefully can help me out.

Jen, can't thank you enough for the encouragement re: 3 girls. Keep at it, I need it, LOL!

B- I agree everyone had a great sway and in the end I do think there's still a huge element of luck.

I can encourage all day I truly love my little pink crew and can't imagine my life any other way :) This was the first pics of my girls together, dd3 was less then an hour old. The second is about a week later.
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Ok see Jen those pics make me cry! (It doesn't take much lately,LOL!) Those are so sweet!!! Thank you for sharing them :)

Luck sucks :rofl: I was explaining to a friend (again, just under the "assumption" this bean is female, which most people readily buy since really ... we have 4 sets of friends with 3 girls already) that this is the only thing in life I feel like I haven't gotten what I wanted. I've been VERY lucky/blessed/what have you in everything except the fact that I desperately wanted a son. So ... I try to remember that. I'm a lucky girl in general, and SUPER SUPER lucky to even have the 3 kids that I do. Perspective is hard to keep sometimes but I'm trying!

Jen your girls are so lovely!

Here's the sweet little face giggling beside me (she's supposed to be nursing to sleep :p)

Baby girls are so much fun!

OH Skrimpy! What a DOLL!!!!

I do love baby girls when I see them :) I just can't bear the pre-teen/teen girls I see at the mall ... YIKES. That's where I get truly scared about THREE girls! Eeeeeeek!

You're welcome B, I have tons of those pics. For dd3's first year I took one every month :)

I get the unjust feeling. I never thought I'd have one dd let alone 3, I too lack the girly gene. It took a good 6/7 years to truly embrace it all and now they paint their nails, play flag football with the neighborhood boys, love dress up and climb trees. It all evens out and is a damn fun ride. Remember pre-teens, well all kids for that matter, are obnoxious because their parents let them be. We don't have to let them be mouthy and entitled.

Awe skrimpy what a great smile, perfect little cherub!

Ladies those kids are beautiful!! They've made me well up aswell and I'm meant to be getting the kids ready for school lol! Jen your DD2 could be my DD4! I have no recent pictures due to the usual technical breakdowns in this house, but I'll get one and show you:)

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OH Skrimpy! What a DOLL!!!!

I do love baby girls when I see them :) I just can't bear the pre-teen/teen girls I see at the mall ... YIKES. That's where I get truly scared about THREE girls! Eeeeeeek!

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Just remember those trashy little 'females' are only the tip of the iceburg, the rest of the girls are at home with us, safe and cared about xxx

Yea- I assume that my dd won't necessarily be one of those girls. I wasn't too bad. I think I was pretty cute- and my parents weren't too strict on talking back, etc. I am more consistent with training/discipline so hopefully that will help!

Beautiful babies, ladies!!!

Begonia - I have two teen girls and it isn't as bad as I thought, lol. Don't worry about it!