Hello, everyone. Slightly new to this group. We sway pink, as we have a son already. Based on NIPT, it is a boy! But Congrats to everyone who got a BFP! looking forward to seeing how everyone is doing. I am 15 weeks currently.
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Hello, everyone. Slightly new to this group. We sway pink, as we have a son already. Based on NIPT, it is a boy! But Congrats to everyone who got a BFP! looking forward to seeing how everyone is doing. I am 15 weeks currently.
So happy for you GirlieCat! I had the blood for the Counsyl NIPT test drawn on Monday so maybe I'll get my results in 4 more days on Tuesday?? So anxious...
Yeah Amelia. Just a few more days. How exciting.Quote:
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The NIPT test shows that this baby is a boy, so our sway didn't work. I wish I had been able to convince my husband to do IVF but since he actually preferred a second boy to a girl, it was no go. :( Well, maybe we'll surprise ourselves someday and go hi-tech for a third...At least we preferred having no girls to having no boys...I feel resentful that my husband robbed me of my desire to stick with only one child and now he also got what he wished for gender instead of me, ugh.
Amelia- I am so sorry it wasn’t girl and you are feeling all these mix of emotions. Are you honest with hubby about your feelings about this?Quote:
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I am so sorry about the test. I know how you feel!! My boy was born Aug 2017 and I was really hoping for pink this time. I swear, I have every "symptom and sign" of girl but NIPT test shows boy (due aug 2019). I still wish that is was wrong sometimes. I have googled myself to death with wrong NIPT and everything and its very tiresome. But i'm trying to look on the bright side, because these boys will have a best friend for life and be able to grow up close together, and maybe down the road, if it is meant to be, be able to watch over baby sister! :) Like you said, a Hi-tech third! Sounds like a good plan to me!
I have two boys and they love eachother soooo much!
When i hear them laugh together i feel the luckiest mother in the world.
I don’t know the gender of this baby yet but when its another boy i know the dissapointment will be strong but after its born and filled with love i know i will be lucky forever with three handsome men by my side.
And praying they will give me some nice daughters in law
im sorry Amelia :heart: its really tough when you have a successful sway followed by an opposite, my dh is also 100% against HT and wont do anything to sway either. I hope in the future he agrees to allow you to go HT for your daughter if it is what you still want to do xxQuote:
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Viola,
How are you doing?