Jubilant July 2WW

Mommy - I agree, missing clomid must be a sign. Hope you enjoyed the concert. Lovely pics

ABC - Hope you switch to FF so we can follow you...

LMSM - I was like you, not hopeful and look what happened. Hope you get 'that feeling' soon x

Max - So glad you got the extra BD in!!!

Butterly - My boys are the same age as yours!

Pbn3 - Love the ideas of telling the boys. Make sure you film it! I can't wait for that moment either!!

Mto - Good luck with the plan!

TTCblue - line is looking close! Yay!

Lola - Thank you! Couldn't resist....
Wohoooo 1 week. How long until you'll get the results?

Halley - Hope your temp goes up tomorrow or the next day so O can be confirmed! FX

AFM - Not feeling too unwell.....just tired. Hope I get more signs soon. One more week of holidays....they're going too fast!

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Now let's hope dh wakes up before the children! :)

Yay TTCblue!!!!

Thanks ttc! She's so photogenic! Love her!! It was really fun! One of my favorite songs right now!
Your little girls aww!! They are the cutest! Love how you get them to sleep! Wish I would've thought about that with my two little boys!!
Eek!! Yay, hope you got your bd in!!! Fx!!

Thanks Iw4k! I feel so too! It was really fun! Thanks so much! :)
When is your first appointment?

Halley: your opks maybe like mine and never get dark all the way, or maybe like PBN and you just haven't od yet, never hurts to go with eod method.




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Ttc yay!!

Lola, my girls also share a room and it has done wonders when one of them is scared. And they end up talking to each other before they fall asleep and their conversations are just [emoji7]


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Thanks Iwant4kids I do hope so
Mommy2apples maybe that has happened too. Guess we will find out tomorrow or the next day.
If this month doesn't work out we might try eod and see how that goes


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Thanks ttc! She's so photogenic! Love her!! It was really fun! One of my favorite songs right now!
Your little girls aww!! They are the cutest! Love how you get them to sleep! Wish I would've thought about that with my two little boys!!
Eek!! Yay, hope you got your bd in!!! Fx!!

Thanks Iw4k! I feel so too! It was really fun! Thanks so much! :)
When is your first appointment?

Halley: your opks maybe like mine and never get dark all the way, or maybe like PBN and you just haven't od yet, never hurts to go with eod method.




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I haven't got it in yet but my + was just this morning. Trying to get dh ready without letting him know it's attempt time! Hopefully I can get one today, tomorrow morning and tomorrow night.

Ttc!! I'm rooting for you!!! 🤞[emoji120]


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Aloha! Just wanted to say I'm back from Maui and trying to catch myself up. It's so hard to throw myself back into the group because I don't have a clue about whats going on now:think:

Mommy2apples - I'm sorry af decided to come:sad:FX so hard this is cycle is your month!

He freaking pulled out. :tissue:

So if we bd again tonight and then in the morning, will that still sway blue? Or will we end up swaying pink since his sperm count will be lower?

I'm so freaking upset, I don't know what to do. He hadn't pulled out at all since af started and then day of positive opk he pulls out. But he didn't know it was an attempt so he feels bad and wants to try again tonight and in the am. But I'm afraid that will sway pink...

If day after +opk is O day then that means we had an attempt O-3 and now a screw up on O-1. He says he didn't get completely out (sorry tmi) but he says "There might be like 1/10 of it in there"

Someone please help, I need advice..

So glad you are back Naci!! Missed you! It's alright! I feel it'll be my cycle!
Aww ttc! That really sucks! I believe you still have a boy chance!


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Naci, welcome back! Hope you enjoyed your vacation.

Mommy, what would you do if you were swaying for a boy? Bd again tonight and in the morning? Or wait til next cycle..

Oh no ttcblue 😢 I've just woken up and seen this. I'm at a bit of a loss and unsure what you should do tbh. Let me wake up abit and I'll come back but for now I'm almost thinking your going to have to get more attempts in because a 3-o and unintentional pull out attempt (with a small amount released before exit) at 1-o sounds more pink territory to me then adding more attempts. The idea for multiple attempts is having as many swimmers up there as possible so even though he pulled out this morning with a fresh batch (men 😠) you still have a chance of getting more up there with an attempt tonight and tomorrow AM. I know there's little recovery time now for these other attempts but I'm just trying to think what the lesser evil is 😕 Can you pm xxforhubby with a screenshot of your chart and ask her advice (she's my go to) and I'll keep thinking on it this morning. It's first day back at school so I may be a bit slow to respond over the next few hours but will do my best xxoo Again I'm so sorry things have gone this direction ❤

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I would honestly get as many attempts in as I could ttc!


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Yeah that's what I'm leaning towards to mommy2apples. I worry if the cycle is abandoned now there's a 3-o and just on release pull out at 1-o which arent the greatest odds of conception BUT definately still have some chance which is really pink....

The only other option I can think of is going to the pharmacy and getting an after morning pill........


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I'd hate for her to do that, what if it is her boy.


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Well its designed to prevent fertilistion from happening mommy2apples so the sperm doesn't get to fertilise the egg. So in no way is it a termination of an embryo unless taken aften ovulation I guess.... I would never had suggested it otherwise ☺ Here's a brief description
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I know, just thinking of the what ifs.


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I got my boys by every day of the month, but lol I also got ash that way too.


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It's such a hard decision for ttcblue to make, I feel really bad for her after the effort put in so far. And you're right, she could easily go on to have a boy with some extra attempts and maybe even without but I just want her to have no regrets 😦 its such a tough one.....

Ttcblue go easy on dh as much as you want to kick his butt. Maybe after this mornings bungle he will just let you take control but if you berate him too much he may throw the whole idea out the window xxoo

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Ttc - I am so sorry about what's going on. Such a tough spot to be in. I agree with Pbn to go easy on dh. I bet he is already bummed about the pull out.
The what ifs are the worse so whatever you decide we are here to support. Hugs.


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Pbn, Thank you so much for getting back to me. I'm getting rather frustrated with dh. I got really emotional after he told me he pulled out (I wouldn't know because we were in the shower) and I started crying and told him it was my 1st attempt. Then he said he was sorry because he didn't know and said he wants to try again tonight and in the am but I said no because it would sway pink.. Now he says he didn't actually "finish" (tmi warning) ...He says he felt a"gush" and when he pulled out there was white clumps on him and he thought I had a yeast infection and it grossed him out but he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I think what he saw was the preseed with a small amount of baking soda in it. But yeah, so long story short, he says he didn't really finish, but I don't know if that's true or if he's just saying that because he feels bad. I will pm xx and ask her opinion.. thanks again pbn!

Thank you sky! I'm really confused right now :(

Mommy, thank you.. that makes me feel better. Right now I'm thinking I will bd tonight and in the am, as I've never really liked the idea of the day after pill (though not going to lie, it crossed my mind) I would just never forgive myself if I took that thing and then didn't concieve next month. I can't bring myself to stop a possible pregnancy for any reason.. I can't help but feel like this is my punishment for sneaking behind his back for extra attempts :(

I would definitely advise you to ask xxforhubby and Pbn since I don't know more myself. However I just want to ask when did your opk turned positive? I think having more attempts after pos opk is the best for blue and if you and dh havebn having sex pretty regularly from af then the swimmers should be fine. O happens 24-48 hours after pos opk so do u think u still have time? Again, the best idea is to ask xx.


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My positive was 6:30 this morning, last night it was close at 8:00. We bd cd 7, 10, 12 and 14 (which was today). How do I find xx to pm her?

Ttcblue I'll pm her for you as I use tapatalk and not sure how the desktop pms work :) I'll ask her to come in and read the last few pages of posts xxoo

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Go to home page of GD where you see forum, unread messages, Subscribe. Just above subscribe there are three lines,u click on that then you will see your name and a drop
Down and one of the option is send a new pm. That's where u need to send a pm from. Let me know if you can't find it. I can send pictures of screenshots.


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Just pmed her ttcblue :)

Thanks Sky 😀

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Oh I didn't know ttc blue uses desktop. I also have tapatalk.
I still feel that if the pos was 6:30
Am today then u still have a good shot at trying pm today, am tomorrow and pm tomorrow.
Or wait until am tomorrow then pm and then again day after am.
But my knowledge is way limited so please wait for xxforhubby' response. She and Pbn are the ones I would ask.
Or you can always start a new thread and ask Atomic.
What do you say Pbn?


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Just pmed her ttcblue :)

Thanks Sky [emoji3]

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You are the best ❤️❤️


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You all are awesome! Love you all! This is the greatest site, I've ever been too. Everyone supports each other!


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Mommy2apples Thank you so much! I’m so happy to be back! I missed talking to you and cheering you on :) I’m so excited that your hopeful for this cycle!

Ttcblue18 Thank you! I really did enjoy my time away with the kiddos and DH! How have you been? FX this is your month and you get that baby boy!

Welcome Naci!! When is your first appointment?


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Oh thank you pbn! You are amazing! I actually found her and messaged her before I saw this. I use my tablet.. I don't know what Tapatalk is though.. I sure hope he's telling the truth when he says he didn't really finish. I don't think bd should be this stressful.

Naci, That's good. I'm glad you were able to head out with such amazing news. I can't wait to see your little peanut :heart: My babies are good, dh is good, I was good until all of this.

I have some mild cramps this morning and some light brown CM! Ash, is this what you had? Went back to my notes and with DS1 I had the same 15dpo and today I am 15dpo. I hope all is okay!!! FX for me ladies

Prayers for you Iw4k!! It'll be alright!!


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I would definitely advise you to ask xxforhubby and Pbn since I don't know more myself. However I just want to ask when did your opk turned positive? I think having more attempts after pos opk is the best for blue and if you and dh havebn having sex pretty regularly from af then the swimmers should be fine. O happens 24-48 hours after pos opk so do u think u still have time? Again, the best idea is to ask xx.


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Wait, it happens a minimum of 24 hours after positive?? I thought it was 12? So at the very soonest i should O at 6:30 am tomorrow?

Iwant4kids- Ash had the same thing. I think they say it's the old blood or the implantation blood if it's brown. Don't stress. Just take it easy for a few days. ❤️ Fx all is ok. Praying for you.


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Wait, it happens a minimum of 24 hours after positive?? I thought it was 12? So at the very soonest i should O at 6:30 am tomorrow?

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That's what I have always read everywhere. O happens between 24-48 hours from
Pos opk.


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